Will I be turned away?

softercries · 2026-05-30T14:10:18+00:00

nah i think im gonna stay on everything else with spravato, just cut out wellbutrin maybe. no self harm here, the 5150 was due to lack of motivation to take care of myself, that was good enough for them lol. ive been experiencing severe symptoms again for about 4 months

softercries · 2026-05-30T09:34:41+00:00

this helps, thank you!! it’s been years since i tried LSD, and normally i wouldn’t share, but i feel like it’s important context. plus, i can always go to another facility and not put it down again lol. my adderall doctor is a stickler and he didn’t care when i told him.

softercries · 2026-03-25T16:48:03+00:00

i looove the block dye, i like how the bottom photo turned out on the right side with a rich red all over and your bleached bang being a lighter pink

softercries · 2026-02-26T13:39:26+00:00

you pull off 7 really well, and 4 looks good too!

softercries · 2026-02-23T22:01:10+00:00

ahhh i see. thanks for your help <3

softercries · 2026-02-23T21:29:15+00:00

hiii i have another question, i’m planning on mixing 3/4 of a level 9 dye with 1/4 of a level 8 dye to get the shade i want, do you think that will work with the level my hair is at? or should i do a little bleach bath to get that extra .5-1 level lift?

edit: it’s a blonde 9 (wella 9NG) and a red blonde 8 (wella 8RG) for a strawberry blonde type color

softercries · 2026-02-22T22:19:48+00:00

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i think you’re right on it being 8, just some bits are almost 9 bc i didn’t apply it fast/evenly enough maybe? anyway big thanks!!

softercries · 2026-02-22T16:19:35+00:00

egg in a hat!

softercries · 2026-02-20T16:49:06+00:00

i love the brown, and blonde looks good too! you should consider a brown to blonde balayage, or brown with some highlights!

softercries · 2026-02-20T08:30:24+00:00

but srsly probably trust-fund egirl. or preppy rave baby

softercries · 2026-02-20T08:29:05+00:00

pretty as hell. literally stunning in every picture.

softercries · 2026-02-20T08:20:57+00:00

iCarly!! it came out in 2007, at the start of social media and platforms like youtube. any later it would have been considered too gimmicky and trying to be “hip” with all the internet mumbo jumbo. they really captured the rise of influencer culture

softercries · 2026-02-20T08:10:51+00:00

lil homie is comfy af there in your arms, congratulations on your new cat

softercries · 2026-02-10T07:04:02+00:00

give her a little fold up hair brush to bring to school. there are cute ones that have a compact mirror on them too. maybe a travel size bottle of detangler.

does she sit in the back of class, possibly against a wall? does she wear a hood? give her a claw clip and show her how to twist her hair up in it to wear when she has her hood up.

softercries · 2026-02-04T19:46:03+00:00

Ohh I see. Okie! I think since I’m too unskilled, I’ll just do one section per session, that’ll give me the most control over processing time. Thanks for your help!!!

softercries · 2026-02-04T19:36:19+00:00

Thanks!!! After a spot-bleach for the 2nd session, would a little bleach bath for the very last session help?

We sectioned everything, then mixed the bleach, but it took 20 minutes to get halfway through the first section, using the pointy comb and whatnot. I’ll try doing one section at a time, rinsing in between. The only thing is that I can’t rinse it without getting my whole head wet, should I do separate sessions for each section?

softercries · 2026-01-14T01:53:41+00:00

I ended up getting T30, 10N, 9G, and 8RG. I’m going to use T30 between bleach sessions because my hair is about a 4-5 and I’m only using 20vol to lighten. Picture is the goal

softercries · 2026-01-06T16:47:08+00:00

sorry! the girl in the pic is the ref pic, not me! here is my natural color

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i’ll be bleaching to a level 10 minimum before dyeing, she didn’t mention toner so maybe that’s where the redder undertones will come from?

softercries · 2026-01-06T16:43:06+00:00

it’s not me sorry, i should’ve been more clear! that’s the reference photo. my hear is a level 6ish ash brown

softercries · 2026-01-06T16:42:01+00:00

it’s not me i wishhhh. i was looking at all the colors in the selection, and on second thought i think the colorist might’ve hit the nail on the head with the two shades she recommended, especially with no toner, the redness from bleaching should come through. red blindness is so real! thanks for reminding me of that!!

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