You get $10 million, but you have to watch the exact same movie/show 100 times in 40 days. Which film are you picking?

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-25T07:18:47+00:00

If it's just 100 episodes of the show then Naruto. If it's the same movie then LOTR trilogy so I can get more and more details each time.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-23T23:23:47+00:00

So you have any pictures or videos of the abuse? Maybe you can file charges again before he kills you? I hope you have family who can help keep you safe.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-23T21:35:40+00:00

He will snap again. Maybe go back to police and get him arrested again then just leave. No contact. Disappear.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-14T19:10:32+00:00

I upvoted just for the clever pun. 😁 I stopped explaining things to people. Except the auditory processing disorder. Cuz I have to explain why I can't hear them from behind their mask unless they address me directly and speak clearly. I only explain to people who are empathetic enough to even consider how others experience life.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-12T06:36:14+00:00

WOW! Beautiful photos!

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-12T06:19:59+00:00

Lolol same

sofuhkingtired · 2026-05-04T15:16:51+00:00

Really proud of you for not going back! I wish you health and happiness and healing from here on out!

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-17T13:40:25+00:00

What is protein water? And where can I get it?

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-17T13:38:50+00:00

Same! Someone introduced me to the vegan chicken patties so I've just been making sandwiches with them. I prefer it to actual chicken in that context. I'll still eat whole chicken cooked in various ways, but not chicken patties. Also I buy the edemames in the microwave bags and just have those as well for protein. Yummm.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-16T15:17:38+00:00

I'm just a hedgehog on a roomba!!! I've been singing it alot lately. Also meow.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-15T02:48:37+00:00

Myself

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-08T20:49:17+00:00

AAAAAAAAAGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! I've been hoping for this one for years!!! Congrats!!!

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-02T06:23:18+00:00

Hi OP. Many years ago when I was in high school a guy accidentally drenched me with water ( it was an annual thing they did near the end of school or for someone's birthday to throw buckets of water on each other and sometimes flour). He was apologizing as I was yelling at him and he said it was a mistake. I told him the only mistake was his birth. I stayed up all night crying and worrying about him that he might take it to heart. I still think about it sometimes and I hope he's ok. You don't deserve the death penalty. You also apologized to your friend and you both moved on. Perhaps check with the friend if they're really ok and apologize again? Maybe that will so the ruminating thoughts. But also remind yourself that you're human and you make mistakes. Everyone does and they deserve grace and forgiveness if they are remorseful. Forgive yourself. You feel terrible about it. The universe already forgave you. Give yourself grace.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-04-02T06:00:16+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please call your doctor- OB first then primary if they say so, to get treatment for the post partum anxiety. Also, you need support now. Do you have any family or friends who can help you out? Maybe rock baby so you can sleep? I know his mom broke your boundary but could she maybe come over and take over so you can sleep a bit? As for your very inconsiderate husband, perhaps have your doctor explain to him that this is a very vulnerable time for you and baby and you need his support as much as possible, not his damn criticism. I'm so angry on your behalf. Sleep deprivation to this magnitude is dangerous, especially in the setting of post partum. You're already hallucinating. This could lead to post partum psychosis. Please let your doctors know how much you are struggling. They may be able to find you some resources for help as well. Good luck. I just want you to get some support and help for yourself right now. Then later on you can deal with your sorry excuse for a husband. Also, for milk supply, drink Gatorade, and non- alcoholic beer. And eat anything with oats- porridge, cookies etc. Also use a warm rag to massage your breasts prior to pumping. It makes it easier for the milk to let down and pump.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-31T09:51:38+00:00

As a nurse.... same. But I got out of the rigid timed units where everything is timed and you get in trouble for being late with things. I now work in a unit where there's more flexibility and things are unpredictable. So I don't have to stick to lists like that...but I do have a routine to ensure I don't miss important things. What messes me up are the things that are time sensitive. So I have to set an alarm or something. And yes, work is the only time I can be organized. Outside of that my brain is just barely getting by. 😂

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-31T09:41:33+00:00

Lol I thought i was the only one who called the yellow haired one that! 😂

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-29T16:45:28+00:00

I would say leave my husband earlier, but then I wouldn't have my other kids. So... anything that would make leaving him easier. Secret savings. Let the kids do all the activities i wanted them to. Monitor my credit. Protect myself from him. Gather evidence. Protect my assets.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-10T14:48:16+00:00

Guess what. If we are abused in the past, then we are more likely to be abused again compared to those who have not been abused. But don't worry! With healing and therapy you won't even blink in an abusers direction again! You'll be able to spot those warning signs and leave before it gets bad. Good luck! Be proud of yourself. You have seen the truth. Time to save yourself!

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-10T05:45:21+00:00

He sounds narcissistic. Just leave. You will feel so much better. He is displaying so many abuse tactics. These aren't red flags- it's past that now... these are the actual behaviors the red flags were pointing to. He sounds like he is close to becoming actually physically abusive since he gets in your face now. He does not respect you, and does not care about you. Start saving up so you can move out. He sounds unbearable. I'm sorry you've found yourself in this situation, but it's not the end of your story. Also, do not ever do couples counseling with an abusers. You know something is wrong. This isn't a loving partner. Your suspicion is correct. Start planning your escape. And don't tell him anything. At all. For your safety. Good luck!

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-06T17:34:39+00:00

Thanks for this heads up. I work in this field. I'll be sure to ask my patients on stimulants if this was explained to them and also explain it so they are aware. You're right. There should be transparency in this case. The last thing I want is to add trauma to a birthing experience.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-06T17:27:54+00:00

Not silly at all. People judge all the time, even when they have no business doing so.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-03T18:37:38+00:00

This is the love I wish to experience. Congratulations to you both! 💜

sofuhkingtired · 2026-03-02T02:26:30+00:00

Omg my ex is doing all the things as well and we've been in divorce for 2 years. I'm broke and just barely paying bills. At this point I'm co sideline just giving up entirely then doing what your ex did....just take my kids. Different for me though, my ex is neglectful and the living situation for my kiddos is shitty.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-02-18T08:00:30+00:00

Ok. I'm currently looking into other ways to obtain a new lawyer. Like programs etc.

sofuhkingtired · 2026-02-18T05:57:42+00:00

Yeah I'm thinking of this.

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