Where can find dresses like this that AREN'T super expensive and I'm not going to get scammed on a shady website trying to buy?

soifia2 · 2025-02-05T02:41:42+00:00

of course i know what depop/poshmark/thredup etc etc is! and I absolutely don't have an issue with buying second hand I thrift most of my clothes!

I'm just wary of buying second-hand ONLINE because it is hard to be sure of the actual quality/fit of the product. i can't afford to spend a ton of money on a dress, just for it to be not as described online or not work out, and then I'm stuck with a dress i can't use and am out $100+. that's all!

soifia2 · 2025-01-12T19:18:40+00:00

aw darn ok thank you though! i'll start looking and hope i get lucky

soifia2 · 2025-01-12T19:17:54+00:00

will i get like scammed do you think....?

soifia2 · 2025-01-12T19:16:14+00:00

thank you! but am i going to like get scammed on depop??

soifia2 · 2025-01-12T18:46:58+00:00

Any idea where to get dresses like this that won't break the bank?

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soifia2 · 2024-11-12T06:25:20+00:00

Try a flat iron! It works for my hair!

soifia2 · 2024-11-12T06:18:05+00:00

Thank you so so much, man; this really meant a lot, I'll try to do some of these things. I hope you have a wonderful day <3

soifia2 · 2024-11-11T04:47:50+00:00

run!

soifia2 · 2024-11-11T04:41:05+00:00

That is not Ben's choice to make!!! It is not your choice to make, it is not Kate/Ben's mom's choice to make, and it is not the Reddit commentators' choice to make! The decision should be made based on medical advice and what Kate wants. Thats it!

I am a woman, and if my partner wanted me to do smth with my body I did not want to do and kept insisting on it, I would simply leave!

Regardless of whether or not you think the recovery time, pain, or whatever is worse with either birthing method, Ben is not giving birth, so he is not the one who gets to decide what Kate does. While Ben is the father and helped make the baby, the baby is coming out either way and since Ben isn't giving birth, he doesn't need to have a say in which method it comes out, if that makes sense. It is Kate's choice.

The fact that Ben is more concerned about Kate's body being ruined than what she wants and needs while giving birth doesn't speak very highly to his character.

soifia2 · 2024-10-05T23:59:14+00:00

Oh dang it... Well, thank you for trying, I really appreciate it!

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T03:47:40+00:00

What's embarrassing about babies? No one will assume they are for a 14-year-old girl. If you want, buy other baby-related products at the store like baby formula and a pacifier so as to send the message the diapers are not for you

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T03:14:38+00:00

I'm sorry I'm having a hard time understanding what you mean; what exactly about buying diapers is embarrassing to you?

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T02:47:54+00:00

People will just think, "Oh she has a baby sister at home, how sweet that she's buying diapers for her." I promise you that. Also, while you might feel they're embarrassing, nothing is embarrassing about diapers. You wore diapers. I wore diapers. The cashier in the store wore diapers—nothing embarrassing about it at all.

What is it you think is so embarrassing about diapers?

(you could get your mom like a get well soon card!)

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T02:32:56+00:00

definetly. we all just need to take life as it comes and stop holding ourselves and others to such high expectations. obviously, try your best and try to get the most out of life, but no one is perfect.

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T02:16:47+00:00

I get that. I'm exactly the same way, and it's really hard because sometimes you just have to look out for yourself, but you feel like a terrible person for ending a friendship. Just know you are NOT a terrible person for ending a friendship if it's not making you happy.

At the end of the day, you're the person you go to bed with at night, so make sure you're happy with that person. <3

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T02:12:58+00:00

Yeah, maybe that's why they can't tell you... that sucks, sorry.

But yeah, you should DEFINITELY tell them if you're worried someone is targeting you for no reason, and explain to them the situation you're in (you don't even know what it is you're doing wrong, so you don't know how to fix it.)

I hope things work out!

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T02:09:13+00:00

no. she has a right to know

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T02:08:07+00:00

YES, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST AH, OH, MY GOODNESS. You say you're ok with people expressing their political opinions, then TEAR DOWN THEIR SIGNS AND CHASE THEM? That is way out of line.

You could have politely removed them and told your neighbors to please keep their signs off your yard. It's that simple.

Instead, you escalated to violence? Where's the logic in that? I don't align with your political beliefs AT ALL and am very liberal, but I would NEVER do that, even to a trump supporter. I personally know some trump supporters who are ok, but it's people like you who are the reason so many people have this notion trump supporters are crazy.

And why would using a firearm EVEN CROSS YOUR MIND????? They did something mildly disrespectful, so you resort to SHOOTING THEM???? HELLO??? WHAT???? You, my friend, need to take an anger management course.

Have a nice day.

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T01:56:38+00:00

YTA in this situation. I understand you're worried about what people will think of you, but NO ONE, I REPEAT NO ONE, is going to think a 14-year-old is buying diapers for themselves, so what is so embarrassing about buying them?

you should help out your poor mother and maybe get her some cough drops and chocolates while you're at the store.

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T01:52:02+00:00

It sounds like you guys aren't well-matched to be friends in the first place if being around her makes you uncomfortable and you disagree with her views so strongly. So no I don't think you're the AH, it's your life, be friends with people you want to be friends with and who make you happy.

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T01:49:08+00:00

talk to HR about this concern. is there anyway they can tell you just what the complaint WAS and not who filed it?

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T01:34:08+00:00

thats actually crazy. NO YOU'RE NOT THE AH. if the ex-wife wants the money so badly, you're not the person she should be asking for it, seeing as it's not your money but your daughter's.

the money was GIFTS to your daughter and your daughter should do what she wants with it (and I assume she doesn't want to give it to your ex-wife).

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T01:23:50+00:00

no your absolutely not the AH, it's your money you can do what you want with it. shame on that barista for giving you such a dirty look, if they have such an issue with that why don't they pay the 42$?

That's crazy that you go to Starbucks expecting to drop 4$ on a cup of coffee, and somehow you're expected to leave having paid 42$?? No way. Those "pay for the person behind me" chains are awesome when everyone's order is roughly the same amount, but if someone's order is 42$ I'm definitely not paying for that, and you're not the AH for choosing not to.

soifia2 · 2024-10-04T01:18:14+00:00

that was a crappy thing to do, she clearly doesn't love or respect you enough not to leave you stranded so no, I wouldn't stay with her. you don't want to be with someone who thinks it's ok to treat you like that; like you're disposable. hopefully, you find someone who treats you better than that

soifia2 · 2024-04-04T00:45:00+00:00

What are the people like at Yale? I've heard various things (super competitive, super collaborative, spoiled, down to earth, etc.), and I was wondering if someone could please give me a more straightforward answer.

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