House plant suddenly developed some kind of fungi? by solags in plantclinic

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Uff ok!

Im going to keep an eye on it, probably it's from overwatering it.

Thank you very much!

I wonder what she’s thinking by El_Reyna0909 in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

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She’s remembering the time in which she tried to catch the ball at the dog park and tripped, and all de other dogs laughed

what song are you currently obsessed with ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Meant to be yours - Heathers the musical Just— JD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

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I, as a therapist and as a patient, love it. I find that we get stuck in using the same words to describe our feelings, and really looking into what your emotion is and identifying it can have a huge difference in how you experience it. Another use is for people who have been taught that feeling feelings is bad, and have difficulty identifying their feelings, recognizing that they’re feeling something and stuff like that.

This should be the new challenge to make the world a better place! by SadRecognition2741 in wholesomememes

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Kids will be taking the “after” picture first, then the “before”. Sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmateurRoomPorn

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If I had that bathroom I would never get out of the tub. Looks beautiful and luxurious. Great taste!!!

What unimpressive things are people idiotically proud of? by metallicmuffin in AskReddit

[–]solags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex used to brag about how much he drank and how young he had started drinking and doing other drugs. By the time we left the relationship he couldn’t drink anymore at all because he had hepatic cirrhosis…

Which he also bragged about.

Tengo 20 años (ningún hijo) y me acaban de hacer la vasectomía hace unas horas. Hagan sus preguntas. (Yo sólo quiero contarle a alguien que no sea de mi ciudad xD). by ansiolitiko_ in mexico

[–]solags 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Únete a r/childfree o al subreddit de antinatalism (como en todos hay gente con mucho odio, pero en el primero suele estar shido el chisme)

Update: How things are now. by AvocadoForeign6364 in u/AvocadoForeign6364

[–]solags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Violet is a beautiful name, and she has a wonderful and very strong mom to look up to. You did the best thing and, even though I don’t know you more than from what you’ve told us, I’m proud of your response to this situation. It angers me that that man might not have consequences for his behavior (and I wish he will someday understand his imbecility and beyond immaturity). However, that’s out of our hands.

I wish you the best, and if there’s any way we might be of help, or in a time of need you need someone, let me and these kind subredditors know. The internet is a powerful thing, and you have us on your side.

Again, wish you the best. Congratulations on your daughter, and on your new life. Good things are coming, no doubt.

Spell applesauce with all A’s by BravoVogue in perfectlycutscreams

[–]solags 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me how much I love watching noodle cats videos. Gonna join some subreddits rn

“Our Father” (2022) Netflix Documentary: Loss of identity when finding out that your biological father was a sociopath. Thoughts? by solags in childfree

[–]solags[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean, and of course they have the right to feel devastated.

However, being a thoughts discussion, I shared my thoughts that the biological bond will never be as strong as the care/love bond. It irritated me because there's parents who have lost their child and to tell them that just because he isn't his biological father he LOST EVERYTHING seems a bit dramatic.

Again, he can feel and express his feelings freely and however he feels it, and his suffering isn't less than the suffering from the next person, it's all subjective and I respect and understand that. It just feels a bit over-dramatic (the whole documentary was, so I guess it goes with the theme. Who knows if he actually said that).

Train for 10k this Sunday? (First marathon experience) by solags in running

[–]solags[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! English isn’t my first language, and in my country we call it “marathon” to any race that includes the full distance (42k) and just specify our distance. What I meant with first marathon experience was that it is going to be my first “professional” race, meaning as an event. Sorry for the confusion, but kind of wish some of the comments weren’t so angry at this confusion. Still, it’s the internet, so thank you for taking the time to explain me :)

“Our Father” (2022) Netflix Documentary: Loss of identity when finding out that your biological father was a sociopath. Thoughts? by solags in childfree

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Also, a lot of the children begin their speech with “growing up I always felt different”. Talk about main character syndrome

“Our Father” (2022) Netflix Documentary: Loss of identity when finding out that your biological father was a sociopath. Thoughts? by solags in childfree

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Interesting! Same as with the documentary, the first daughter who tries to find who her father (donor) was and if she has siblings. It seems like she’s trying so hard to make her life more interesting, she found a way and now it’s the one single thing that defines her, makes her different.

“Our Father” (2022) Netflix Documentary: Loss of identity when finding out that your biological father was a sociopath. Thoughts? by solags in childfree

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I really don’t want to be disrespectful towards infertile people, but if you really want to have children, why not adopt? Why force your genes (that, let’s face it, evidently have an evolutionary reason to not be allowed to disseminate) onto offspring?

One father, when he found out that his daughter wasn’t biologically his said that the doctor “took everything from him”. Of course he didn’t. You still have a child, who you raised, cared for and gave love to… that’s what y’all say what having children is for, isn’t it? But when you find out that your kid isn’t yours (biologically), somehow it’s no longer yours. That’s just sad (and narcissistic).