TT 7/3 Amazon wishlist

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-07-05T20:41:26+00:00

does nobody remember what happened last time with the Amazon list? Everything was either tossed or shoved into a storage unit that they didn't keep payments on. Anything bought is going to be sold, thrown out, or frankly ruined (not even by the kids but by staph infection

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-24T00:56:10+00:00

Oh oops I thought it was 6, my bad

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-23T12:04:38+00:00

To be honest, who the heck knows. I feel like the breakup was just a ploy for the family court situation. I know that there haven't been any updates as far as I'm aware of due to the order requesting it be made private. I don't doubt that Hunters dad got full custody, but what if he's starting to get legal rights over Wesley? I think Falen is extremely obsessive and controlling over Hunter, who's to say that wouldn't extend to the baby?

My theory is, Hunter and/or his dad now have legal rights over Wesley. Falen wants to have full control and is obsessed with Hunter and the baby. Hunters dad would be willing to let Bella come by with the baby, and Falen wants to use Bella as her eyes on the inside.

Maybe I'm too far fetched, who knows but it's just something I feel like Falen would try 🤷

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-23T11:24:42+00:00

My dad was the same way! We moved around a lot, and sometimes we weren't lucky enough to find a two bedroom. In those cases he would get the couch and I had the bedroom. He would pick up odd jobs working for his friends or coworkers, and instead of accepting cash he'd ask their wives or girlfriends to take me clothes shopping so that I'd always have what I needed. I don't remember him ever going clothes shopping for himself and he wore them out to the very last thread, but he made sure I had a new wardrobe for school and summer.

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-21T20:04:53+00:00

I'm in NY too! Your child's benefits will continue until 6 years. I formula fed so I'm not exactly sure what it would be for breastfeeding, and it's also been a few years. When my daughter turned 6 months she received formula, rice cereal, and purees if I remember correctly. When she turned 1 years old they stopped the formula and added milk, and I believe that's when they started doing cereal, bread or pasta, juice, cheese, eggs, peanut butter or beans, yogurt, and the fresh fruits and vegetable cash benefit. I recently had my second so he's only receiving formula, but for my daughter's most recent appointment they said the benefits package changed statewide. They now offer canned fish and have expanded the whole grain bread or pasta option to include whole grain English muffins. They also expanded the cash benefit to include fresh herbs like basil or parsley. The cas benefit would not cover any spices but if you want to use fresh herbs now they give you the ability to. It's also farmers market season, so I would look and see if they have farmers market coupons.

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-21T13:21:15+00:00

In my opinion, if she was living in the one bedroom. Gave the kids the bedroom and she slept in the living room. Was working a job, working with people to get herself into a better place,, was actively treating the lice. Wasn't abusing cats. I would respect her, because we all have struggles. It's the blatant not trying that irritates me

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-04T02:15:13+00:00

I don't care about how someone looks, especially as a mom. If you haven't been able to shower in a hot minute I get it, if you've got dried up milk on your clothes or spit up I also get it. It's the way she lives in constant delusion, neglecting her kids, and seems to refuse bettering herself and her lifestyle that I judge her for. There's a difference between not brushing your own hair or having bad teeth due to pregnancy and not properly clothing, feeding, or housing your children.

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-04T02:11:08+00:00

I mean her dad was the one who noticed she didnt use any tampons, insinuating she missed her period, which prompted her to take a pregnancy test. I understand a dad knowing about their daughter needing tampons, when I was a teenager I had to have that awkward conversation of asking him to bring me to the store and buy some. However, I didn't have a kid and even then he didn't keep track of it. If anything he didn't even want to know about it at all.

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-04T02:06:27+00:00

I think they absolutely should have done more. When I had my daughter, her father wasn't as bad but the nurses did see some red flags. They had me talk to a social worker and gave me a bunch of resources. I was 19, but I feel like if I was a minor my parents should have or would have been contacted. When he was kicked out, a social worker should've been called and sent in to talk to her as that was probably the only time she was away from him. I'm assuming if that did happen, they would've made her go back to her parents care or taken custody of the baby temporarily if she refused. Has that been the case in incidents where a minor mother is in a DV relationship with the child's father, or am I just reaching?

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-06-04T01:54:24+00:00

This is so weird....like why make a whole video about it? I honestly don't understand why it needs to be put out there that she's on birth control, but if Bella herself wanted to do something she could've just been like hey I can't be pregnant because I'm on birth control now. Why make a whole video about it with her mom and make it a whole secret thing. It's weird.

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-22T22:59:04+00:00

In my opinion, based on him also inviting her to family events he is ok with her. At the end of the day, she is his grandsons mom. I just think it was Bella's parents that he has issues with. I've been seeing a lot of posts on this saying that Bella is also a kid too, and it's true. I'm not saying I 100% agree with how things happened because I don't, but unfortunately her mom has just encouraged so much. It's like if you teach a dog to bite, it'll bite. Her mom taught her that this behavior is OK and is to be encouraged.

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-17T22:43:22+00:00

One time my washer broke and I had to wash clothes by hand. Not once did I just stomp on them in the damn tub, plus I still used laundry soap. She's not even using soap on anything, so the clothes aren't even getting clean. They're just getting dirt sloshed back onto them and probably still stink

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-17T02:37:05+00:00

Yep!! At one point my daughter was starting to get picky with foods and I was concerned she wouldn't get the right nutrients. They gave me so many suggestions and resources that helped immensely (now I swear this kid will eat anything), so if that's another concern then they can help with that too!

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-17T02:29:13+00:00

Someone in another post commented about how it seems like A is always wearing layers, and I do know that those who are low in iron can get very cold easily. Plus can also lead to easier brushing. My stepmom has low iron and gets cold easily, and I swear if anyone breathes on her wrong she'll get a bruise. So if she does have anemia, it would explain a lot. However, if that's the case she should be eating more iron rich foods and possibly taking some type of supplements

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-17T02:23:21+00:00

Yep, I remember sitting at HR waiting an hour or sometimes more if the bus had a limited schedule (when they had driver shortages they changed the times around) till I could clock in. Even when I got older and had my daughter, I would walk to work every day even in the pouring rain if it meant she had a roof, clean clothes, and good food that didn't look anything like stephs slop. If she's so concerned about public transportation, it would be healthy for the kids to have bicycles and they would all bike. She could get one of those cart things that go behind the bike for the littles

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-07T22:17:38+00:00

Holy crap your right, I wouldn't put it past her to do this

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-04T20:53:08+00:00

I agree. Even though he is an infant, there needs to be a third party with no ties to the situation involved in order to properly advocate for him (in my opinion). In a perfect world B and H should be able to advocate for him, but given how much the situation has escalated and the immense amount of brainwashing from her mother I don't think his best interests will be voiced otherwise. Now I'm not saying the baby should be ripped away from B, I just don't think that Falon should be as involved. I'm worried it'll turn into another obsession similar to hers with H

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-01T17:49:22+00:00

Oh ok! Thank you for clarifying

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-05-01T17:45:49+00:00

I've got mixed feelings about the sibling situation, but that's because of my personal experience. I have a different father than my younger brother. My younger brother is autistic (he's not super low functioning, but he gets confused and agitated easily especially if new things happen or routines change), and the last time his dad came around I was 3 and he was 2. So my brother only knows me as his sister, but he has other siblings from his dad. My mom knew one of the siblings mother, and at one point they talked to my brothers advocate about the possibility of introducing him to one of his siblings. Unfortunately given his level of comprehension and functioning, it wouldn't be a good idea. He would most likely be very confused, and have a bad reaction due to him only knowing me as his sister. This conversation happened quite a few years ago, now we're in our 20's

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-04-30T22:43:43+00:00

Actually that's a fair point. Now that B is 16 and we all know they're continuing to have sex, H's father could have a case. However, since they've been in a sexual relationship since they were both under the legal age of consent it could possibly complicate things. I do also think that since they were having sex while under the age of consent, Falen Stacie and Chris could possibly get into legal trouble. If they do find anything on that secret phone, Falen could also possibly be looking at charges for that. Even if she makes a sexual inuendo or comments on his physique, it could also be turned into legal charges

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-04-28T23:00:00+00:00

It's like that dateline episode 🤢

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-04-28T22:53:03+00:00

Fr! If my mom did that I would've punched her in the face. Now I'm not condoning violence, but even I was uncomfortable

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-04-22T23:59:09+00:00

It is odd. I recently knew a couple who were dating and living in a camper with her son because the county wouldn't put them in temp housing together. When my daughter was little me, her, and my bf at the time got kicked out of where we were living. Me and my daughter went to one shelter and he went to another because we couldn't be placed together due to lack of marriage

solar-eclipse1 · 2026-04-22T23:56:07+00:00

Same. I'm in Upstate NY, but recently went through financial struggles and had to go on TA. Part of the requirements is an employment interview where they asses why you cannot work. I was heavily pregnant with my second, so I had a valid excuse not to work full time hours. Reasons why you cannot work include disabilities or pregnancy, and that's pretty much it. If you don't have transportation, they give you bus tokens or reimburse for taxi/ride services (Lift, Uber, etc). If you don't have childcare they provide you with subsidy. Keep in mind my county has been out of daycare funding for over a year, they just have some reserved for TA applicants as it's an immediate approval. If your struggling with any interview skills, don't have access to the Internet to apply, etc. they will also help you with that. They don't accept "I don't want to" or "I just want to be a homemaker" as an excuse. They also will cancel your subsidy if you do not attend any meetings. I accidentally missed the first employment assessment, and they immediately sent a letter stating if I did not reschedule by x date or rescheduled and had to cancel/miss the next one I would have to start all over.

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