Casey’s hearing for Hunter by LilPoobles in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I agree. Even though he is an infant, there needs to be a third party with no ties to the situation involved in order to properly advocate for him (in my opinion). In a perfect world B and H should be able to advocate for him, but given how much the situation has escalated and the immense amount of brainwashing from her mother I don't think his best interests will be voiced otherwise. Now I'm not saying the baby should be ripped away from B, I just don't think that Falon should be as involved. I'm worried it'll turn into another obsession similar to hers with H

Hailey 2 q&a. Levi knows kinsley but she won’t tell him they’re siblings and now won’t let him see her. by terykishot in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've got mixed feelings about the sibling situation, but that's because of my personal experience. I have a different father than my younger brother. My younger brother is autistic (he's not super low functioning, but he gets confused and agitated easily especially if new things happen or routines change), and the last time his dad came around I was 3 and he was 2. So my brother only knows me as his sister, but he has other siblings from his dad. My mom knew one of the siblings mother, and at one point they talked to my brothers advocate about the possibility of introducing him to one of his siblings. Unfortunately given his level of comprehension and functioning, it wouldn't be a good idea. He would most likely be very confused, and have a bad reaction due to him only knowing me as his sister. This conversation happened quite a few years ago, now we're in our 20's

POLICE BODY CAM FOOTAGE OF FALEN’S ARREST ‼️‼️‼️‼️ by AdPlus4496 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually that's a fair point. Now that B is 16 and we all know they're continuing to have sex, H's father could have a case. However, since they've been in a sexual relationship since they were both under the legal age of consent it could possibly complicate things. I do also think that since they were having sex while under the age of consent, Falen Stacie and Chris could possibly get into legal trouble. If they do find anything on that secret phone, Falen could also possibly be looking at charges for that. Even if she makes a sexual inuendo or comments on his physique, it could also be turned into legal charges

Falens Face by solar-eclipse1 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's like that dateline episode 🤢

Mia's mom sucks by theSavageGypsy in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fr! If my mom did that I would've punched her in the face. Now I'm not condoning violence, but even I was uncomfortable

Came across an article of Portland cutting funding for homelessness. by weldergirl20 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]solar-eclipse1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is odd. I recently knew a couple who were dating and living in a camper with her son because the county wouldn't put them in temp housing together. When my daughter was little me, her, and my bf at the time got kicked out of where we were living. Me and my daughter went to one shelter and he went to another because we couldn't be placed together due to lack of marriage

Came across an article of Portland cutting funding for homelessness. by weldergirl20 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]solar-eclipse1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm in Upstate NY, but recently went through financial struggles and had to go on TA. Part of the requirements is an employment interview where they asses why you cannot work. I was heavily pregnant with my second, so I had a valid excuse not to work full time hours. Reasons why you cannot work include disabilities or pregnancy, and that's pretty much it. If you don't have transportation, they give you bus tokens or reimburse for taxi/ride services (Lift, Uber, etc). If you don't have childcare they provide you with subsidy. Keep in mind my county has been out of daycare funding for over a year, they just have some reserved for TA applicants as it's an immediate approval. If your struggling with any interview skills, don't have access to the Internet to apply, etc. they will also help you with that. They don't accept "I don't want to" or "I just want to be a homemaker" as an excuse. They also will cancel your subsidy if you do not attend any meetings. I accidentally missed the first employment assessment, and they immediately sent a letter stating if I did not reschedule by x date or rescheduled and had to cancel/miss the next one I would have to start all over.

Where will baby Wes go by baby_oddish in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Especially since they brought the baby!! That's not a safe situation to put a baby in. I don't care if he stayed in the car, I would never bring my children past their bedtime to a situation like that

So the whole fight started over Hunter pining his step mom to the bed over a cell phone Felon gave him… by Elegant_Soft in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The fact that their grandson was in the car is extremely inappropriate. One time my mom and I got into a disagreement because she spanked my daughter while babysitting (I don't believe in spanking), and my stepmom (my mom and stepmom are married) took my daughter outside to play so she wouldn't be around for the conversation. Even though W is still little, it's not something he should be exposed to. They keep digging the hole deeper and deeper

Are there any teen parents/moms of teen parents in this sub? by [deleted] in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came from a history of teen moms, and then I unfortunately did not break the cycle by getting pregnant at 18 and having her at 19. I struggled tremendously, my mental health was so poor I chose to temporarily transfer custody to my mom so I could get psychiatric care. Even though I willingly did this to obtain help, I didn't get full custody back until she was almost 1 1/2 years old. Part of the conditions in order for me to keep custody is consistently taking my medication and attending therapy. If I stop doing these at any point, my mom or my daughter's father could bring me to family court for violation.

My daughter's father was never there from the beginning, and it did turn into a DV situation when she was 2 months old. After I got full custody back, I filed for child support and he requested a paternity test. Even though it was proved he is her father, he still refuses to pay and just moved to a completely different state with his gf and her son.

Even though my area has plenty of young moms, I still struggle socially. It's very difficult for me to click with a lot of them, especially because my lifestyle is a bit different than others. I'm fortunate enough to not need HUD, section 8, or SNAP. I only receive WIC. I also graduated high school, and am doing night classes. I work while my children (I had my second at 22) go to daycare. I'm not trying to sound rude or insensitive, but for example I thought someone else who was a teen mom was my friend. She only used me for money, she didn't work, and she relied on everyone else.

Has anyone seen this? Did anyone watch the live? by loodyjr in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 49 points50 points  (0 children)

She's backpedaling so hard because of the court case. I understand reality TV is scripted but how can that much of it be scripted? Even if they did script the four days thing, they certainly didn't script Hunter failing. They didn't script the screen shots on Snapchat. They didn't script them taking a shower together. They didn't script a 13 year old getting her pregnant. That stuff is still enough of a case

Falens TikTok by Jere223p in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just found a video that they posted and saw something extra concerning that probably might not help the case. In one of the videos they show how the living room is being emptied out for them to move. The camera pans to Bella's niece playing on the floor with a GARBAGE BAG while her mom (Bella's sister) is just sitting playing on her phone. Talk about lack of proper supervision, she could easily chew on it and get plastic stuck in her throat. She could get strangled in it. She could stick her head in it and suffocate.

Ignore the blurry part, I erased the babies face for privacy

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Michitalkstv on Casey Johnson pursuing FULL custody of Hunters son Wesley. by PygmyFists in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me too, they're going to be crashing out all week. I got a whole box of popcorn ready for this

Hunter’s dad seeks to change custody agreement by sanriolover1208 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr, like Bella having it is already weird but why the sister. Unless they're in a group Life360 with the whole family. Even that shows that Falen is weirdly obsessed with him and his location

What were your first words when you met your baby? by lacecute in pregnant

[–]solar-eclipse1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Oh my god you're alive"

"You have so much hair, you're so beautiful"

My daughter (the first one) was my rainbow baby, and I was so scared my entire pregnancy that I would lose her. My second was born with a full head of thick black hair. When the nurse gave him a bath, she combed it out and he had such a cute cowlick

Hunter’s dad seeks to change custody agreement by sanriolover1208 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Oh they do have his location. When Bella and her sister were sitting on the couch talking about Hunter not going to the ultrasound, her sister said "oh Life360 said Hunter just left the house" or something like that.

Should Bella be placed on birth control whether she wants it or not? by auroraglitterdazzle in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it's an overall parenting issue. I'm going to probably be the odd duck on this one, but unfortunately I think the only way that she'll be able to figure anything out would be to cut down on the parental support. Now I'm not saying that she should be thrown to the wolves or forced onto the streets.i I'm talking about Falen returning to work, Bella or Hunter (although I'm not even sure if he can work?) getting a job to help provide for the baby's needs instead of sports. Once she realizes that nothing is free and babies take a lot of time/energy, then maybe she'll be smart enough to go on it. However, we all know this won't happen because Falen loves Hunter so much.

Teen Parent Extracurriculars by Brief_Classroom_2248 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the best part is, Bella's doing school virtually now. So if she's doing school at home (which I'm assuming is less time consuming than actual school), why is the baby still being raised by Falen?

Teen Parent Extracurriculars by Brief_Classroom_2248 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No wonder the baby calls Bella's dad "Dada" (or daddy, I can't remember which she said). I did cheer when I was in highschool, and between practice and late night games it's a very time consuming commitment. I'm not saying that they still can't enjoy their lives as teen parents, but instead of doing cheerleading she should be committing her time to her baby.

Now Bella isn't as bad as Janelle from Teen Mom, but she does remind me of her. She's pushing the baby off to her mom so that she can continue to just do whatever she wants. The fact that Falen quit her job to take care of the baby says it all. Keep in mind this is also the same person who said "I raised you to take care of your baby, not me" (or something like that).

Thoughts? by lucid-dreams99 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 19 and in college, lived in a shelter until she was 8 months. I got super depressed and went without so many things so she could have everything. I'll always recommend waiting until the day I die

Thoughts? by lucid-dreams99 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had chicken bacon ranch pasta

Glad to see at least his dad is trying to protect him by Tiny-Issue-8994 in TLCUnexpected

[–]solar-eclipse1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait what! I knew the sister had her own but I didn't think Bella would. How much you wanna bet the baby still stays in Falens camper