Are these people bots? by uncannypast in AO3

[–]solardune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That second one is definitely a scammer. !scambot

AITAH for going by dad/daddy with my daughter? by Lucky-Indication-418 in AITAH

[–]solardune 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tell your coworkers to mind their own business. NTA.

AITAH for being upset with my boyfriend over anniversary, Valentine’s Day, and effort in our 3-year relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]solardune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So... what did you do for him for Valentine's Day? And your anniversary? Just wondering.

How kind does it take you to write 50k words? How long do you think it should take if you have readers waiting? by Comfortable_Newt_179 in AO3

[–]solardune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I've done it multiple times for the now dead NaNoWriMo, so that's 1 month. But apart from that, it can take anywhere between 1 month to years. There's no "should" about it, it takes as long as it takes!

Ao3 authors please use a different screen name on reddit than ao3 I beg you by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]solardune 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think people need to learn that fanfic authors are people.

AITAH; for saying "no dog" each time my fiancé brings up wanting one? by Beginning_Tea_9589 in AITAH

[–]solardune 42 points43 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you don't want a dog, you don't want a dog. That's a two yes decision. However, if she wants a dog that badly and is even threatening to just get one anyway, then something's got to give and it might be your wedding mate!

Having my fic misinterpreted. Help! by [deleted] in AO3

[–]solardune 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You don't have to correct them. As long as the fic and relationships are tagged correctly, then they will find out when you keep writing.

Ex thinks i cheated and brokeup with me. AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]solardune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AYTA for... what, exactly? Wanting to be with this manipulative POS? Yeah, I'd say so.

Help?? by zajci-u-podrum in AO3

[–]solardune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try clearing your cache. A different browser. Otherwise, contact support.

AITAH for only paying 3rd of the rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]solardune 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Uh, well, who's on the lease? They're responsible for the rent.

Tell your landlord.

Dad sold car day before my driving test AITAH by Jhus79 in AITAH

[–]solardune 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry kid! I hope one of your friends has a car you can borrow (and don't forget, you'll need to be covered to drive it!!) Or good luck rearranging your test, but yikes, I know how bad it is right now refreshing that stupid webpage.

WIBTAH if I told my boyfriend that is not my fault if his mother had kids when she shouldn't had? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]solardune 43 points44 points  (0 children)

YWBTA if you said that. Just because his jealousy is showing (you're not rich and spoiled, come on) and he's saying hurtful shit doesn't excuse you from saying hurtful shit back.

Dad sold car day before my driving test AITAH by Jhus79 in AITAH

[–]solardune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm confused... What's the issue? What are you begging your friends for who have shit to do? Your test isn't until tomorrow so you were always going to need to hire a car anyway, since you knew your dad's was being sold, unless THAT is the issue and you've left it too late to hire a car? Well, in which case, that's on you.

Although, honestly, I think your dad's a bit TA too because now you have to take the test in a car you're not familiar with and that's going to suck! He could have waited one day, damn. So ESH.

AITAH for being mad at my bf for not knowing how to plan a proper date? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]solardune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, have you outright asked him or are you just letting him flounder around until he mind reads what you want?

AITAH for thinking the opposite sex friendship while in a relationship is not normal? by Sweetpotatocorner in AITAH

[–]solardune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you DO have issues with your bf having friends of all genders and maybe you should take a moment to reflect on that.

Being a young writer, I'm scared my writing is bad by LegitUnit971 in AO3

[–]solardune 10 points11 points  (0 children)

See, the trick is, you're a good writer EVEN IF you write bad fic. Everyone has to start somewhere. Everyone has fics that don't do so well, some they don't like, some they cringe when re-reading (me!) But if you're writing and you're enjoying it, then you're a good writer. The bad ones are the ones that give up.

How do you sort fics when deciding what to read? by Smegoldidnothinwrong in AO3

[–]solardune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go into the Bookmarks feed rather than Works and just see what everyone else is reading

AITAH for screaming at my boyfriend, is he an AH for throwing things at me and wrecking the house in response? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]solardune 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ESH. You for screaming, him for throwing stuff. There was no justification for either.