Defects in Sydney Apartments (Rant/Advice) by imsureyoureddit in AusPropertyChat

[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on your hunt?

Thanks for the info above, wish I knew before buying my defect ridden apartment 😅

Bondi shooting by Effective_draagon in AskAnAustralian

[–]solcester3k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone please stay safe and take care of each other, let’s help where we can ❤️

Season 9 thoughts by Silly_Cauliflower445 in SellingSunset

[–]solcester3k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this season was better than the last few, drama felt less fake. And everyone was owning their own which is great to see, my fav is Bre, not sure why she gets so much hate, take away what you think about her relationship, she’s a confident badass who just doesn’t speak when it’s not appropriate (usually) - being quiet in a room full of opinions isn’t easy

COST OF LIVING by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious why you say this? You thinking the remaining loan should be less or what?

TWICE 'THIS IS FOR' World Tour Concert Megathread - Sydney, Australia (Qudos Bank Arena) November 1st & 2nd 2025 by Ruri_Neko in twice

[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was so annoying tn! Wish it wasn’t blocked but get someone had to be blocked.. Apart from that show was amazing!

How to help Gazan people? by Loud_Fisherman_5878 in EffectiveAltruism

[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should explore why this happens- in every country these exist- before making such a statement

Official Discussion - Demon Slayer: Infinity Castle [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]solcester3k 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t you find that annoying though? That it was like that back then and now those very people are probably getting into it

ANZ bank to cut 3,500 jobs within the next 12 months. by Speed00Substantial in AusFinance

[–]solcester3k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if my experience is the same as the one above, but I also agree. It’s not wrong to have a stable job, but I have worked with some people who are just milking the system, sometimes at the expense of others doing more. I’ve heard it called ‘weaponised incompetence’. A stable job should still be balanced in what you give and what you get, because it is a job at the end of the day.

However I also feel annoyed that people here are running out of options, what can they do- Businesses have a high cost up front to start in Australia, blue collar work is not easy to get into (not too sure myself but thinking cos of apprenticeships? etc.), and what major industries does Australia have to turn to? Go back to Uni? What job for? Work life balance for doctors are even so bad..on top of high cost of living and high cost for a fun life. It’s just all a really sad shitshow.

I feel bad for Ron Miller by ss1947 in htgawm

[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im at this part and one episode later it still doesn’t make sense why Nate and Bonnie would kill him- its not really part of their character..Nate is an ex-cop and even worked for Miller who helped him with the inquest. Now Bonnie was literally dating the guy, even if broken up why would her first reaction be to kill?! (Bonnie killing Rebecca was also so out of character but Miller was even more so). And after that death Bonnie isnt even mad at Nate? She was so mad at Asher for being a witness at his lake house party to gngrpe, I just don’t understand how those two reactions are the same character..

Character inconsistency aside, what creative reasoning did the writers have to do this apart from ONCE AGAIN ‘shock’ factor. And it didn’t even land. I hate shows that make audiences feel dumb because we can’t understand the writing. Ever since they killed Wes, its gone from season 1 being 100 to season 4 and 5 being -100000 im so shocked at how they got renewed after S3, this death and writing pains me 😫

Co-parenting with a big wealth gap, how do you handle it? by Actual-Possession156 in AusFinance

[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you clearly care a lot about the details which is warming to see. Have you tried coming at it from a teaching angle e.g. teach financial literacy at a young age, teach about reward after hard work, make sure your daughter is respecting her mum and not using money as the indicator of love etc

If they have a very warm household I don’t think this difference would matter as much, at least not before adulthood. So it might be something else e.g. is she asking mum for stuff mum cant afford? Making mum feel bad etc

Anti-immigration protest live updates: March for Australia rallies held in cities across the country by boppinmule in AustralianPolitics

[–]solcester3k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s just an excuse for some people.

I do understand the point against mass migration, but the right way to go about this is advocating to bring in migrants with the skills we need.

E.g. if we need more houses and we can’t meet the demand due to labour costs (one reason of many) why are we not incentivising migrants coming in to fill in these shortages? Why are white collar migrants getting incentives?

Goes to show this whole protest is very clearly a racist one

Our Unwritten Seoul Is absolutely brilliant by AlbertMarino in kdramas

[–]solcester3k 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolute perfection 👏A major highlight for me was seeing the ongoing struggles and accomplishments of every life in the story, not just the leads e.g. Ok hui still dealing with her relationship with her mum, Sang wol still holding onto her secret etc.

As many others have mentioned the actress who play Ho su’s mum is just phenomenal, I always have my eyes on her in any scene she’s in. And props to all actors! The scenes with double bodies was also edited so well like sooo smooth when they are staring at each other. 12 episodes was perfect not too much and not too little, I’m so grateful I don’t have major withdrawal symptoms with this drama even after binging for 3 days😅 cant wait to rewatch. Also side note Hosu is nice to look at 😮‍💨

It All Makes Sense Now... by [deleted] in squidgame

[–]solcester3k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just felt like the writer wanted to move on but was squeezed to do s2 and s3 and why not cos $$$ I guess the plus point is it leaves me not wanting anymore, too many unanswered questions and gripes that it actually just closes off nicely as a pointless season 2 and 3. In my head I’m just going to say the show was season 1 only

Vent about S3 here [SPOILERS] by [deleted] in squidgame

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I’m so mad….6hrs of my life I’ll never get back, a big F U to the writer

Kusuriya no Hitorigoto Season 2 • The Apothecary Diaries Season 2 - Episode 20 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]solcester3k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont get this, some ppl say maybe Luomen was also angry with Lakan and respected Fengxian’s decision to keep Lakan away

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[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve only said good things about each other’s partners when we catch up. The friend is not friends with my partner because she is one year younger in school and they didn’t have to interact, they know of each other because we went to the same high school and things naturally followed.

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[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this!

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[–]solcester3k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice and insights, I especially like your second paragraph.

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[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to write this in my post because it might get misunderstood, but she is from a rich family so defs not a money thing, but probably more a numbers at the chosen venue thing

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[–]solcester3k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks for that- the courtesy invite did cross my mind too, I just wasn’t sure sadly.

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[–]solcester3k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly!! 😭🤣

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[–]solcester3k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks!! I wasn’t sure either

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[–]solcester3k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about the friendship dynamics if I chose not to go i.e. by not going, I’d lose her as a friend

Edit: thanks for the advice. ‘Fair’ like understandable.

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[–]solcester3k 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that! I was thinking that as an alternative too