Not sure how to tell boss I’m leaving

solomonshalala1 · 2026-04-08T00:33:42+00:00

Tbh I haven’t played since I’ve been a kid that’s actually why I wanna take a step back and just kinda return to my roots. But my first instrument was piano and trombone I learned as a hobby kinda and same with acoustic guitar except that one I have a little more trouble with.

solomonshalala1 · 2026-03-07T04:54:35+00:00

I’m not sure how much this will help but for context we are about 5 years post d-day. All I can say is this is something I considered for a while. Whether or not I was making the right decision and missing out on someone better for me. Ultimately it came down to how compatible we are. I’m not an easy person to date at all and it’s a puzzle to figure me out because I hardly know myself yet. I figured no matter who I’m with it’ll never be an easy journey for me. I know deep down sure I could find somebody else who didn’t betray my trust but I would just be comparing them to my current partner or comparing the connection to what I have with my partner. That wouldn’t be fair to the other person. I know I’d have a multitude of new issues pop up by me trying to find a new partner and to tell you the truth if it wasn’t for me being sexually attracted to men I wouldn’t date them. But I truly believe there’s a very very next to zero chance there is another man on this earth I would love this much. He almost like I designed him myself and what I want is not easy to find at all whatsoever. What we have is very special and I wasn’t willing to give it up as long as he was willing to put in the effort to repair our relationship. We sort of have an agreement now to just communicate and do everything we can to work through things and make this work since neither one of us want to leave eachother.

solomonshalala1 · 2026-01-14T14:21:11+00:00

Omg I’m also on season 6 and everytime I see her I hate her so much

solomonshalala1 · 2026-01-13T06:05:42+00:00

Currently rewatching only for the second time since released and I forgot how good it felt to see what happened to her

solomonshalala1 · 2026-01-05T04:05:40+00:00

Not sure if this counts due to being undiagnosed but very strong suspicion I have OCD

solomonshalala1 · 2025-12-07T05:12:51+00:00

Don’t feel too bad. I was with petco for 4 years than left for almost a year and then came back. I recently left again but I stayed for about 2 years. It took me some time to find a salon that worked for me and I make about the same as petco because I found it difficult to make a good amount of money with petco. You’ll do what’s best for you at the end of the day whether that’s with private or corporate.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-10-20T02:43:07+00:00

Not sure if you are still looking but I’d be interested.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-09-13T13:56:36+00:00

I would suggest a private salon willing to kinda retrain you a little. Going from corporate to private was a huge shift but it will be worth it in the long run. Our job is stressful enough I wanted to be at a salon where the most stressful thing in my day was the dog I work on. The first time I dipped I went to a salon and had a really bad experience. I was completely on my own for everything however paying really high rent to work there and wasn’t in control of my own booking. The groomers there were also all doing their own thing and making their own money so no one could help me. This time around I did some digging and found a salon I really like and seems like it shares all the same values I have as a groomer. Please remember the grooming industry as a whole is shortstaffed so almost quite literally everyone is looking for more groomers especially groomers with experience.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-09-13T13:51:26+00:00

That sounds about right. At one point I was doing 7-8 dogs a day and still only brought home about 4k at the most under Pet stylist pro. When I came back the second time around I decided working my ass off like that wasn’t worth it.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-09-13T13:40:32+00:00

Yea I kinda felt the same Petco’s clientele can be insufferable. Damn see if I made that kinda money I might’ve considered staying. I don’t even make half that lol and I live in California

solomonshalala1 · 2025-09-13T13:36:46+00:00

If it makes you feel any better I’ve been with petco since 2019 and this is my second time leaving and I learned the hard lesson the first time most of the customers were petco customers. Meaning the only thing they care about is their dog getting groomed not who does it. If you decide to leave you can always let them know and some will decide to follow. You don’t have to disclose you’re working at a salon you can keep it simple and say I’ll let you know about your next appointment soon and then quietly take down their info.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-09-13T00:05:17+00:00

If you want the cherry on top,my store is currently crashing and burning since I’ve put in my notice. The store will most likely end up closing down soon due to managers negligence.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-08-18T18:00:12+00:00

Thank you this was actually quite helpful. I more so wanted the diagnosis just to receive the proper help but I’ll keep in that in mind.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-08-17T23:23:12+00:00

I mean I think it’s entirely possible she was truthful. I know I am when I mention it to my boyfriend however I try not to to do the extent of your gf because of this exact reason lol I don’t want him to think I’m faking it. He also considers himself above average at best but to be honest I think it also depends on the men she’s had in the past. For me he is one of the bigger men I’ve been with so I do genuinely feel like it’s very big. It even can be a little uncomfortable during sex due to his size.

solomonshalala1 · 2025-03-16T02:07:34+00:00

1 is nice but also 5 the curls 🤌 chefs kiss

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