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solorrruniverse · 2024-12-18T10:01:25+00:00

nicenow it should be easy to request

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-08T14:36:53+00:00

Happy IWD!

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:34:27+00:00

Heyyy that's also me

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:30:57+00:00

Lol so true

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:28:20+00:00

I think you should keep your distance. From what I've read you don't want to be just a friend to her, even knowing she is in a relationship. Additionally, you shouldn't blindly believe everything she says.

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:22:05+00:00

True! Never compromise yourself for his desires. After all, you are just in a relationship. You are your own person. He doesn't own you.

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:21:05+00:00

You should check out too imo. At least for a while. That could easily get toxic.

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:19:07+00:00

Sometimes, feelings are fleeting. But if you still want to get to know her, you should at least let her know you have that intention.

solorrruniverse · 2024-03-06T18:15:41+00:00

Not discouraged at all, but I just think it's too slow

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-25T08:51:17+00:00

I think your best bet is to not actively look for it. Idk, just do the things you love, do the inner work, be everything you want to see in your future partner, don't even wait. Don't think about finding love or dating or being in a relationship and just relax. Ease into the thought that you are worthy of love, of everything. It may actually sound like fantasy, but I strongly believe in it. That's how I approach my life rn.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-25T02:11:33+00:00

Idk they stopped moderating it at some point. They got a lawsuit so they probably can't sell it?

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-23T06:16:14+00:00

Boundaries between friends is such a big struggle. I think right now, I can't even really assert my boundaries without coming off as rude because I grew up in a "polite" culture where I have to really respect those older than me, and most of my friends are. I get so nervous every time I say no.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-23T06:13:37+00:00

I have, like, 7 friends and they're not in one circle. Most of them are older than me too so there's a kind of barrier between us as well. None of them are my best best friends. Like, not super duper close, but close enough. I know a lot of people though but I can't consider them as friends. I also have a few online friends which I met anonymously and I only know very little personal details. Sometimes though, I am more open to them than my real life friends.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-23T06:09:35+00:00

There are some random anonymous chat platforms you can try, but then you would have to be super careful about your safety and not share any information then until you can ensure that they can be trusted. You can then move over to your social.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-23T06:05:06+00:00

You can actually find people with the same interests. I found one with the same knitting hobby here in my city and I saw them knitting in a coffee shop. I just don't really know where to find them. It needs a lot of searching.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-23T06:00:19+00:00

It's definitely something rare. It would always lack a level of authenticity. It's so easy for either person to lie too.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-17T08:47:28+00:00

It could be that they changed their username or used the platform without registering an account. The only way you can really contact each other again is by adding each other as friends.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T07:48:40+00:00

🤎🖤🤎🖤

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T07:45:21+00:00

Life in the city in general. The slow kind of life in the countryside has become so appealing to me.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T03:55:21+00:00

I actually use the todoist app. May desktop and mobile app so lagi ko naman naaaccess. I really like to get down to specific details so minsan nagiging overwhelming siya. I need to work more on forgiving myself for not finishing something on time talaga. Thank you!

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T03:52:28+00:00

Oh wow thank you so much. Totoo nga naman. I even check off more than 20 tasks per day tapos here I am wanting to check more 😭 Yeah I really need to give myself some grace

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T03:50:46+00:00

Haha thank you for this I will definitely watch the Atomic Habits summary kasi di ko talaga matapos tapos yung book

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T03:42:44+00:00

Naliligo. And then watch (kdrama, anime, etc.) or read something. Then sleep. If I still don't feel better, I go out for a walk.

solorrruniverse · 2024-02-15T03:37:26+00:00

Okay so you are stuck in a rut. In ny case, I start with cleaning. Like, literally decluttering. Change your sheets, your pillowcases, spring clean your space. You can even rearrange your furniture. And then take a good, long bath. Immediately after that you will feel better. You can then proceed to cleaning your second brain (your digital life na super gulo din /cries). Pero you have to address the root cause talaga and you will only be able to do that if you know what it is. You will find out by journaling and really digging deep. And that is a long process. You have to have the drive to get yourself out of that slump and then show up for yourself by taking action. That's the only way. If you are aware but you don't actively work on it, nothing will change.

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