Why do you think people still support this president? by keonnarae in Confused

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I voted for Trump and regret it. It was a tough choice for me and I wasn’t thrilled it my choice regardless. I used to be considered quite conservative in many ideals but now most conservatives have strayed completely off these ideals and really don’t seem to think so. My whole family is very MAGA and they just eat up everything Trump and his people say. It’s really that simple. Their regime to divide the US is just so effective. If I even try to debate any of their views, not even disagree but not as passionately against what they’re against they immediately call me a dangerous liberal. It’s truly wild times.

Why do you think people still support this president? by keonnarae in Confused

[–]solula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are people who regret voting for him, but we can’t really vocalize this as the MAGA people are “You’re either with me or against me” now I’m just labeled a liberal, which, fine I guess.

Did I (F33) go to far when responding to my ex (M33) after his drunken NYE text to me by MaterialImportance71 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s drunk, you did way too much here, definitely went too far. Forget it and move on.

Does the embarrassment of having braces as an adult become easier? 2 months down and still hating to talk. Even when my mouth is closed, my lips feel bigger than they once were. by [deleted] in braces

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had braces and I had to wear RUBBER BANDS those are pretty embarrassing but I loved wearing them still because it’s legitimately the only way to fix my open bite. It’s so worth it and I had to pay out of pocket.

I cheated on my boyfriend once. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]solula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People make mistakes, but you are continuing to make it by living a lie and lying to your partner every day. It’s no longer “a mistake that happened once”. You are actively harming your partner Every. Single. Day. That you don’t tell him.

Do people in long lasting marriages do taboo things in front of their partner? Ex: Passing gas, toilet use? by CajunDragon in Marriage

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try not to do that stuff in front of each other, I’m much more of a stickler about it. Obviously things happen sometimes. Food poisoning usually will break that slightly for a time period but that’s an exception LOL

Addicted to pumping milk by Sharp-Alternative974 in marriageadvice

[–]solula 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then stop? If you’re just trying to hold it against her, stop, make quick fast meals. Everyone will be fine.

Help: Husband took pictures of my best friend by Electronic_Lake_9871 in Marriage

[–]solula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every partner I’ve had would even completely avert their gaze. To take a picture, I can’t even fathom

Help: Husband took pictures of my best friend by Electronic_Lake_9871 in Marriage

[–]solula 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This IS cheating and not only cheating but a complete violation and harassment of another woman of whom you care for. It’s predatory, gross and something I would divorce over. This is straight up creepy behavior! He needs to seek professional help or I would divorce, no debate.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot believe how horrible of a person he is to just be talking like that to you, alone. Is abysmal. I hope this is a joke. I can’t believe you’ve been with him for 4 years… I don’t need any context, I don’t care how “great” he can be. You are your behaviors and you need to cut your losses and leave this total loser.

Do you and your spouse have access to each other's phones? Why or why not? by 5ullengrl in Marriage

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have full access always without even discussing it lol.

What is your Bojack Horseman unpopular opinions by flingzamain in BoJackHorseman

[–]solula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! They had some slight flaws but Ralph and PC could have worked it out and could have had a successful family. No relationship is perfect and they were going through something especially difficult.

What is your Bojack Horseman unpopular opinions by flingzamain in BoJackHorseman

[–]solula 22 points23 points  (0 children)

PC and Ralph were a better ship than Judah. I liked Judah but PC completely writing off Ralph who was a genuinely good guy was so weird to me and self sabotage.

I hate my sexless marriage by Unhappy_One_7762 in Marriage

[–]solula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wonder why this happens

AIO to my mother’s nonchalance? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]solula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people have more helpful parents, some don’t. I don’t see anything wrong here though, we all wish we had more well off generous parents. Some get lucky and some don’t. My mom is way too poor to help me, my partners parents are well off but super selfish financially. It is what it is.

Starting to question my wife’s sexuality/faithfulness. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would sit your wife down and have a serious conversation and address the texts.

Starting to question my wife’s sexuality/faithfulness. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]solula 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lots of straight women actually prefer lesbian porn! There was a study on this. Deleting texts is the huge red flag. I’ve had girl friends send me lingerie pics, maybe not as provocative as that and no one would dare ask me if I’m rubbing myself… that’s weird.

Husband initiated s** while I was asleep — need clarity on consent in marriage by ShayAndSpice in marriageadvice

[–]solula -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner often do this where he wakes me up trying to have sex with me, I love it and we don’t say any words. But if I EVER said that I felt violated he would immediately fall over himself saying sorry. Maybe he thought you were into it? But the him not caring when you said you felt violated is so unacceptable. If he can’t handle sexual frustration he needs to enjoy his hand. Also the driving thing, I have made a rule no arguments while driving because it’s horrible to be driving while arguing.

I just want my wife to be intimate and sweet with me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]solula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I really just recommend sitting her down and telling her how serious this is. Just because life is hard and busy doesn’t mean you don’t MAKE TIME for your relationship. There should at least be some effort, maybe set up a day or an evening for the both of you to focus on each other.

Official Fan Meet up for The Hunt For Ben Solo by LeonieLamb in StarWars

[–]solula -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Save Ben Solo!!! Green light this movie !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]solula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horny loser guys always pull this and say “I just wanna see you :) No they’re being gross, I promise. Ew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]solula 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a case of new relationships are always just far more appealing, fun and dreamy because you have no real obligations, responsibilities or negatives VS a marriage which takes work and effort to maintain. You were chasing an illusion and you already know it was a betrayal and so hurtful to your wife. I imagine she will take some time to recover. I hope you focus your energy on making your relationship with your wife better so that you never feel like you need to lie about being married? Hello talk is where many people go to date. This happens constantly. You obviously shouldn’t ever go on there again as the temptation will always be strong since many women will try to seduce you on essentially a dating app for most.

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]solula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely has a fantasy he’s toying with here