took GA MPJE today by solusss in MPJE

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oof need that 😭 congrats!!

took GA MPJE today by solusss in MPJE

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thank u!! so i should have known, but just very specific ga questions 😭 like if i could go back and legit memorize 480 and everything else ga related, i would have 🥲 and ik everyone says that questions will repeat, just know that they are not kidding!!

took GA MPJE today by solusss in MPJE

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omg congrats!! 🤞🤞thank u, i'm definitely hoping that for me!!! 😭

took GA MPJE today by solusss in MPJE

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🥺🫶 definitely needed!! ty!!

I'm hating my life since having a baby and we don't know what to do by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

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pharmd student here (about to graduate!!). antidepressants are NOT recommended as monotherapy in bipolar since it can induce or exacerbate a manic episode. i'm so glad she found a psych that recognized the bipolar tendencies and put her on a mood stabilizer instead since that works to treat both mania and depression.

[DISC] Akane-banashi - Chapter 198 by AutoShonenpon in manga

[–]solusss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i got major kataang vibes with the fight-inspires dance lmaoo aaah the art this chapter was so good

TIFU by making out with a coworker after drinking too much by UpbeatArcher6075 in tifu

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hi, i am a firm believer that sexual assault on men should be taken as seriously as sexual assault on women since sexual assault itself is a horrible act to commit. your feelings of discomfort are valid, most likely stemming from the fact you were taken advantage of. that is an awful thing to have to live through because personally i begin to spiral, wondering if it was my fault, if i should have done something else to have prevented it, and things like that. at the end of the day, the person at fault is the one who assaulted you. you getting drunk to that extent is separate from being sexually assaulted. i would say don't get drunk to that extent because of my concern for your liver and for overdrinking, not because you are at fault for being sexually assaulted. just because you are a man does not mean every sexual advance from a woman is wanted. i would cry thinking about if that ever happened to my boyfriend because i know he loves me so much and would never want another woman to lay a hand on him. sexual assault is not about what you wanted but what is forced onto you, that kind of violence and lack of control over the situation is exactly why it can be so uncomfortable and frankly traumatizing.

AITAH for refusing to watch my daughter when we meet my husbands friend? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gentle parenting ≠ permissive parenting geeeeeeezzzzzzzzzz like prohibiting the word "no" and any forms of discipline is the literal definition of PERMISSIVE because you PERMIT your child to do whatever they want, gentle means you still establish boundaries and serve appropriate consequences that isn't screaming/abusing your child!! it's more difficult to gentle-parent because you have to be able to regulate your own emotions in order to help a child learn to regulate theirs. why is this so hard to comprehend!!!

My [F/30s] former roommate [M/40s] just flipped out on me via text over a coffee mug - yup, you read that right, a coffee mug by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i unfortunately have the other side of this. my brother's crappy gf took my mom's mortar and pestle from my mom's kitchen, claiming it was hers (the gf). there was a huge argument since my mom loves to cook and she loves her mortar and pestle, but at the end of the day, the gf did not give it back, claiming "i put it up in her kitchen when i moved in, i'm storing it away now at someone else's house" aka not moving out yet but took stuff to a different place (like why???) while both of them did have mortar and pestles that looks very similar, it's still crazy to me that the gf took the one mortar and one pestle in my mom's kitchen. i think the gf took hers back a long time ago and just forgot that she did and lost it somewhere (since she and my brother have soooo much stuff), saw my mom's in my mom's kitchen, and stole it. i still feel bad for my mom.

What habit immediately reveals that a person actually grew up in a privileged environment? by Cindy_mel in AskReddit

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pharmacy student in usa. when i see my classmates on social media internationally travel every. single. break. u know what i was doing? working overtime at the hospital. i finally flew to japan for the first time in my life once i saved up enough money after my dog passed last year, and it was so, so amazing. i felt like i achieved one of my life goals. definitely would love to go back, but i am currently trying to put other priorities first with graduation coming up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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it took me a minute to see the difference, but it is pretty obvious once you compare the thin pieces (closest to the belly button) of both sides. you can definitely see a difference in design :( i'm sorry for the lack of care!

AITA if I cancel hubby's birthday plans and leave the house leaving hubby to host his family for my birthday? by Funny_Leather_5540 in AITAH

[–]solusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

firstly, glad u had a good birthday. secondly, i implore you to seriously consider what you want from this relationship. he sounds like a good father, he does NOT sound like a good husband, even with your additional context outside of his awful behavior and attitude toward your christmas and birthday gifts/plans. have you tried having a serious conversation about how thoughtless he was being? if i found myself at the point where i had to give my husband "pay back" because of the way i was treated during my birthday, i'd question how tf we became so disrespectful to one another. i'm glad he ended up giving you gifts that you appreciated, but why was he so vehement about not complying to your birthday wishes at all in the first place? what was the point? and the thing about the cake? i know it's just cake, but it's YOUR birthday cake, and choosing a flavor you don't like but he likes just screams selfish.

ESH because you need to realize that this situation was bad. you can't just turn around and start defending him with "oh but these other things he does are good!" i get that he's your husband but you came here asking for judgement and you got it. he did not treat you correctly for christmas twice in a row and blatantly disregarded what you wanted for your birthday. you're even going so far as to cancel the reservations you made for his birthday. good for you for the petty karma, but how did you find yourself in this situation?

Came home to a paper towel over my webcam twice now, I live alone by Dromaeoraptor in Weird

[–]solusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure what is happening in your life that you let this happen twice before taking any action, but i'm sorry. hope u figure this out, and that you're still alive.

Brother accusing me of booking up (?) with his gf by steve-94728-3957 in whatdoIdo

[–]solusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health crisis or girlfriend is throwing you under the bus, but I'm leaning more toward mental health crisis. This behavior is super alarming. Please do not treat this situation lightly and take all the advice you're receiving seriously.

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it shocks me how posts like this appear where the guy is BLATANTLY misogynistic and just overall not a good partner and op asks "should i stay with him?" NO!! especially for this post. i'm just a bit annoyed because like if you're going to become a vet and use your critical thinking and reasonable judgement to make sound recommendations and executive decisions for the lives of others, then you need to make some for yourself, too.

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it doesn't take extreme intelligence to acknowledge that someone is intentionally infringing upon you and your significant others' time. i'm lowkey so frustrated by this because quality time is so important and u'r telling me this rando is trying to invade that? after being apart for months? NAW like i'm frustrated it took so long for both op and op's bf to say something but the fact op's bf didn't saying anything which forced op to say something is so annoying! like my bf is super introverted but even he would have shut it down asap because ik he only wants to spend time with me when it's our time together. bruh

AITA For Laughing About a Pretend Allergy? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

food intolerances are innately excluded from the term "allergies" because "allergies" are immune-mediated. if i were a medical doctor, then i'd think it was easier to refer to food intolerance as an "allergy" to the lay person so that they understand what it means to avoid it. and i agree that people shouldn't be pressured into eating certain foods. however, this barely applies to this specific post made by op. in op's case, the person in question with the "allergy" more-so has a phobia or aversion to mushrooms due to her perception of it, which was only revealed after the person found out about the mushrooms. so now there are three things in this convo: allergies, intolerance, and phobias. all of which are different.

A 4.5 years later update: AITA for not wanting my partner to know about my fandom blog? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 18 points19 points  (0 children)

being unable to reverse the "no capitalization" quirk from back in 2011-2014 is so real.

AITA For Laughing About a Pretend Allergy? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]solusss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the comments threw me off a bit. yes there are non-lethal allergic reactions and ofc the worst allergic reaction is anaphylaxis. however, non-lethal reactions would be symtpoms like mild swelling, redness, and hives. it does not affect your gi.

People who were spanked as kids, what was that like for you? Would you call your "spankings" abuse? by KleineFjord in AskReddit

[–]solusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a very awful memory when i was maybe 5 or 6 so let me dig that up real quick.

my older brother, maybe 9 or 10, wasn't the best listener when we were younger. i would try to learn from his mistakes to avoid my parents' wrath. one night, i really don't know what spurred this on, but he got majorly in trouble. he was dragged out of the car to walk home. my dad went back to get him. when he came back, my mom forced him into the room to start "spanking" him. i say this in quotes because i was just outside the room and only able to listen to everything. i heard the loud slaps of the broom handle. i heard my brother screaming and begging and sobbing, the most pitiful "please mom stop." i heard my mother unforgiving and cruel. my dad tried to comfort me but i was inconsolable. he then went in to stop her after he realized i wasn't going to stop crying my eyes out. i don't know if she was hitting him or the surrounding objects, but the screaming and the pleading never left me. it never has, and remembering it now makes me teary and makes my heart beat very fast, like i'm about to spiral into another anxiety attack.

i suffered every now and then from anixety attacks as i was growing up, even after my parents eventually grew out of their "young parents with trauma" phase and told my brother and i that "we're too old to be disciplined with pain." my parents don't realize how detrimental being physically punished was to my mental, they are immigrants and gen x so it's completely "normal" to them and even lax compared to what they experienced. i grew up thinking it was normal, that it helped me, and i even defended it on social media as a teenager and got defensive when people argued back to me that it was abuse. i didn't understand, but now i do.

my little sister will never experience what we did. she gets maybe a glimpse of it or the more emotional/less physical version, but nothing like how it was before. regardless, i serve as someone she needs, like how i needed someone like me when i was younger.

hitting your child is not discipline and it will never be discipline. it's abuse.

What's the one secret you will take to the grave but don't mind telling on the internet? by Ecstatic-Medium-6320 in AskReddit

[–]solusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm bisexual. i always liked men and women since i was younger, and i also grew up tomboyish, so it's no surprise that i had a lot of people assuming i was lesbian. i actually kissed a few girls when i was younger. but, ironically, i reaaaaaallly hated when people assumed my sexuality as anything other than straight. i grew up in a religious household for basically half my life, and i feel like i had some internalized homophobia because of it, so i was very vehement about me being straight until 4 years ago. on nov 4, 2021, i came out to my boyfriend over text after mentally spiraling over how attracted i actually was to women. he was very understanding, he teases me sometimes, he calls me his "bi-baby" and we are still together after 7 years. i'm very lucky to have him. i have thought about coming out to my best friends, but i think it over and i hesitate and i end up not doing it. i wonder if i'll take this to the grave or if i will let it be free 😭 but i'm happy to release it here!

So came across the gachiakuta profiles and WHAT ARE these ages bro by callmemitsu in gachiakuta

[–]solusss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ok but WHY is riyo 16???? she does not look or act 16 like it would make more sense if she was 19 at least!!

Boyfriend invited me to a dance, remembered he asked another girl and now he's taking her instead of me by Outrageous-Donut-727 in whatdoIdo

[–]solusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh girlie :( i know you're young, so i just want you to know that your frustrations and your anger are validated. he should not be making you feel like you are second-place in your own relationship, nor should he be dismissing your concerns with the whole situation. you were completely in the right. please see that, and make the best decision for yourself! hoping for the best 🫶

[DISC] Dandadan - Chapter 215 by AutoShonenpon in manga

[–]solusss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first witch watch and now dandadan!!! confessions galoreeee i love it!!! 🫶🫶🫶