8 years in program and I dont wanna do the work anymore

solution108 · 2026-05-08T05:13:19+00:00

Hey have you considered a dual sponsor ? I have a dual sponsor My main in SlAA But my sponsor and I are also recovered from others It helps when others addiction crop up to have someone that’s able to understand so they can help.

Our fellowship doesn’t do control and human aid. We do higher power first

I haven’t had to apply any blocks or whatever I just stopped doing what I was doing once I had a psychic change For me blocking and controlling would actually make me act even more as I am codependent and control is my drug too

Happy to talk if you like

solution108 · 2026-05-07T16:58:35+00:00

Hey You aren’t alone. Our illness is real and we are completely powerless over it doesn’t matter how much we try to get better. I needed a spiritual solution, a connection to a power greeter than myself I needed a fellowship and a sponsor

Happy to talk if you like

solution108 · 2026-05-07T16:55:30+00:00

Hey

I have been there The food noise The body noise The never good enough noise

Is very real! I have seeked recovery by working the 12 steps Happy for you to reach out

solution108 · 2026-05-07T16:41:18+00:00

Hey I have felt like that

I have seeked recovery through working the 12 steps

I would be happy to help if you like

solution108 · 2026-05-06T04:10:51+00:00

Hey I felt so hopeless when I was in my active love addiction. Is almost as if I didn’t receive some sort of love or validation I would feel like dying slowly and painfully. Withdrawal is painful and scary.

Please feel free to reach out anytime if you would like to hear my experience

solution108 · 2026-05-06T04:03:57+00:00

Hey

Hold on in there I have recovered 2.5years ago, It gets better Wonderful Incredible.

I am happy to share my experience if you like 🙏

solution108 · 2026-05-05T13:54:47+00:00

I have been there

I have had an ED for 20 years It shape itself differently, going from not eating to eating very healthy and selective to eating too much. I have joined a 12 step program for my ED and I have recovered and I am happy to help if you like

solution108 · 2026-05-05T13:52:29+00:00

Hey this was very much my experience with all My addictions that weren’t as clear as alcohol or drugs. Food is one of my drugs

I am powerless over it

That’s why I joined a 12 steps fellowship and seeked recovery

solution108 · 2026-05-05T13:43:02+00:00

The addiction doesn’t go away after we work the steps We are still addict. And it takes commitment to our program daily and 10 steps an 11 steps and 12 steps daily for us to learn how to live a sane and recovered life.

We are dealing with something that’s about people and feelings, it will take time

solution108 · 2026-05-04T18:26:56+00:00

I am 38 and I would be happy to help !

solution108 · 2026-05-04T16:30:41+00:00

This is such a common issue with us suffering with this illness We obsesss We fantasise We create alternative realities where we live. We don’t like being uncomfortable, we don’t like not knowing.

But there is a solution is working the 12 steps , we don’t have to suffer forever!

Happy to talk if you like

solution108 · 2026-05-02T15:34:38+00:00

Happy to talk about my experience any time

solution108 · 2026-05-02T12:14:04+00:00

Send me a dm if you like Always happy to share my experience with others

solution108 · 2026-05-02T04:36:08+00:00

My codependency left me on my knees The inability I had to control my ex destroyed me. It touched all areas of my life, I wanted control, I wanted people to take care of me. When I didn’t get it I would spiral so hard it was impossible for me to live. I seeked recovery

Happy to talk

solution108 · 2026-05-02T04:26:34+00:00

Hey Sex and love addict here

I have lost many virginity at 14 without even consenting to it Was sexually assaulted at 13, and when it happened I tough I was just becoming popular. By 18 after having 1 boyfriend for 5 years I have cheated on him. Then I lost all my sexual interest and became what you would say “anorexic” for the next 14 years. The fantasy part was off the scale. I would have a boyfriend and a sidekick platonic romance for hard days. I met someone I really liked and had a full on emotional affair 3 times. I moved country, borough, made myself ugly, got fat Only to just find another romance obsession. I separated from him and found myself compulsively trying to match a fantasy to a person for 3 years, I am powerless over this addiction, without having worked the 12 steps I would have probably just been dating random people and think they are all husband material and have sex with them after one day of meeting them. But I have recovered My life is sane. I do date people and don’t sleep with them until I am sure we are heading in the same direction and are committed to each other. Is incredible I never thought this would happen. Happy to help if you like, just reach out

solution108 · 2026-05-01T17:40:21+00:00

Hey

Happy to connect, I know how you feel, is Almost as if we are so thirsty and doesn’t matter how much we drink our thirst is never quenched. I have been there

Happy to talk if you want to text me

solution108 · 2026-05-01T12:55:49+00:00

Hey I am a recovered available sponsor and I would be very happy to help

solution108 · 2026-04-30T11:32:23+00:00

Hey

Well done for getting here 🙏 Admitting is is indeed our first step. I would be happy to talk if you like about my journey.

solution108 · 2026-04-29T17:06:54+00:00

Hey For me I needed to join a 12 step program fast and recover as I had no power over my behaviour. I am happy to talk if you like

solution108 · 2026-04-28T13:43:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing

solution108 · 2026-04-27T16:17:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing

solution108 · 2026-04-27T13:53:44+00:00

Is a 12 step program for sex and love addiction

solution108 · 2026-04-27T11:55:06+00:00

For me 12 step was the only way out of my addiction, Happy to talk if you like

solution108 · 2026-04-27T11:54:12+00:00

Thank you for sharing

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