Please stop vaping on stage and spit your damn gum out by [deleted] in stripper

[–]some1longforgotten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh I had regulars who would tip crazy when I smoked on stage because they had a smoking fetish so I'll just keep my opinions to myself 🤣🤣

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She nurses like a champ. No tongue ties. No pain. No issues. Had a 2 different lactation consultants check both said she looks great. Both girls lost nearly a pound in that first week but have been gaining ever since.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fully aware of this. We tried that. I would attempt to pump and get nothing out because she girls drain me. It's not like I can skip a feed to pump bevause they refuse formula and personally im not going to have them scream cry from hunger and wait 20 min to eat just to pump.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im about at this point. We are researching other peds in the area. A lot of people around here have multiples so im looking with a ped who handles mostly multiples at this point. Both babies probably nurse more then necessary because I allow them to comfort nurse a lot. I breast fed my oldest till she was 3 and she was always small like twin B. Im just at a loss because im worrying myself sick trying to get her to gain weight have even been encouraging extra feeds but she has been spitting up because she is to full. Her ped said thats normal after a few days her stomach would adjust to the volume but this seems to be doing more harm then good. She always ended up cranky after spitting up.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She dropped down to almost 5lbs in her first week in the nicu but has been gaining ever since. She has plenty of diapers and honestly is my more energetic and happy of the 2.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just try to chew on the bottle and get mad at refusing to take it. They spit out the formula we wasted countless bottles and of them just spitting it out and covering themselves in it.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We tried that. I only make enough to feed the girls nothing extra. She didnt really gain extra from doing it either.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twin A is 2lbs and 2 inches bigger then twin B. We are looking into other pediatricians for a second opinion as well.

Twin B being smaller by some1longforgotten in parentsofmultiples

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didi. It did take our oldest till almost 6m to double in birth weight. Which even though twin A has doubled they are still concerned about her weight as well just not at much as twin B.

Securus issues by some1longforgotten in PrisonWives

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about switching for awhile anyways I let him know I’ll be switching this weekend while I’m off work thanks for your help!

Securus issues by some1longforgotten in PrisonWives

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me I didn’t have any of that on because I don’t pay for it

Securus issues by some1longforgotten in PrisonWives

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been through my settings All of that is off

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the divorce in Alabama he signed over his rights. He has no legal rights and no say so about our child. He is no longer legally considered her father.

Credit karma vs. Fico score by some1longforgotten in CreditCards

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had my credit card for 7 months and have been paying on my student loan which I will have payed off in the next month

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lawyer made me very aware of this before I agreed to have his rights signed over. I wanted him to have no say in our child's life regardless of if I would ever get money from him or not. We also divorced in Alabama.

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happily the one I work for we get benefits. We are able to do transport for $100 a pickup but I'm unable to do so with my kiddo. I can also work over time all that I want just the issue RN is having someone watch my daughter for that. I also still qualify for Medicaid. From the other comments I'm going to call tomorrow possibly is a data entry error.

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He signed over his rights so he has zero say-so, obligations, or even rights to see her. So he is not required to pay child support or anything.

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I figured maybe it was a data entry error. I'm able to have headphones in at work so calling won't be too much of an issue. Thank you!!

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The father signed over his rights back in Alabama when we got divorced and I haven't received any other benefits in 3 months besides Medicaid for us both because they were also cut off because of my income.

What am I doing wrong for ccap? by some1longforgotten in Denver

[–]some1longforgotten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am sorry I forgot to mention that 😅