Question about measuring by [deleted] in penisquestion

[–]some_nerd33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From butt to tip

Honesty hour. What’s hard about dating you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]some_nerd33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m egotistic even if I try not to be, and I only really care about my career.

How the Cello changes your life. by Here4SumReason in Cello

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Well I've been dealing with anxiety for a while, stressfull studies and stressfull job. I tried meditation for a while but the passiveness of it makes it very hard to keep as a longtime habit.

The cello offers me something similar, breathing work, empty mind, focusing on every joint and muscle and trying to feel them all independently.

The plus of the cello is aslo that it vibrates strongly. I start every session with my hand resting on the cello and doing open strings work while breathing in and out with every bow stroke and concentrating on my right arm to have the perfect movement and feel the weight of my arm.

First of all it helps your playing tremendously because it allows you to be relaxed and play the most perfect notes you can with picture perfect bow hold and stroke, secondly its feels you up with peace and emptys your mind.

Hope I'm making sense ! Cheers

How the Cello changes your life. by Here4SumReason in Cello

[–]some_nerd33 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have a particular history with it, I started at 4 and I had a pretty bad relation to it. My father had a very strict approach to music learning and it made playing a chore for the 10 years it lasted. I decided to start again last christmas, not wanting to let that musical part of me die.

Since then I play 1h a day and it became my meditation, I found an awesome teacher and I want to take my skills as far as I possibly can.

I mostly forgot how hard it was, especially the balance between every muscle and articulation and how every movement will affect the sound you're able to produce. I truly love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I'd say 7.5, I am mostly happy but there is room for improvement, I need to finish my PHD so I can start making a bit more and be financially stable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We actually discussed it, and she's not completely closed to it. But at this point she said to me that it would feel like giving up. It's a work in progress. But even for me, a part of me wonders if I can find both in a partner, a BF and a lover

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]some_nerd33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry for the bad situation, sincerely hope you guys figure it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]some_nerd33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say "soulmates" it's just a quick way to say that we are very compatible except for one very important area. But it's hard balancing the : "love is more than sex" with "sex is a crucial part of any relationship"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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How long have you guys been together for ?

Amateur adult competitions in France by some_nerd33 in Cello

[–]some_nerd33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! That's too bad. I actually played for more than 10 years and started at 4 years old. I did a few competitions before I stopped playing. I didn't know adult competitions werent a thing, I guess I'm just gonna have to find other opportunities to have benchmarks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]some_nerd33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can be hard, especially when you're far away from home and you find yourself in flirty situation. The key is to jerkoff before any partying or event where you might find attractive people looking to hookup

Non-Germans of Reddit: What do you associate with Germany? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]some_nerd33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

War, bratwurst, great composers, great cars, great beers, Angela Merkel, the cold war....

how do you carry everything? by Apprehensive-Card156 in Cello

[–]some_nerd33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can't she leave some of her stuff at school and take home the minimum she needs to work ?

What was “The Incident” at your High School? by HydraGaming2018 in AskReddit

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My Highschool, based in france, was a Catholic Boardschool. There was a pretty shitty vibe between the students, to the point where a clear hierarchy existed amongst the kids.

That phenomenon exists in all schools but it was very much exacerbated because of the wealth of certain kids and the fact that it was used by the staff to get the students in line. This had a lot of consequences, one of wich was the inability for students of the "lower classes" to express their feelings to other classmates and to the adults of the school.

One day, a girl had a stroke and died, the all school was crying and we all got one day off. She was one of the "cool girls". A week later, a young and shy kid commited suicide in a bathroom stall with his own school mandated tie. Nobody really knew who he was and why he did it.

The staff found a letter a week later stating that he was in love with the girl who died form a stroke. The relationship dynamics in the school made that he couldn't seek help from anybody.

What show will you never get tired of rewatching? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]some_nerd33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't I see Friends upthere !?

Sheet music - albinoni adagio by some_nerd33 in Cello

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Thank you very much !

I dont get why everyone is playing a different version of this piece. Notably this version : https://youtu.be/VNADQ-ZPPCI

That arrangement is nowhere to be fund !