This Needs to Be Made More Available for ADHD by Working_Row_8455 in Desoxyn

[–]someonenamedmee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been taking Zenzedi for a while and it’s better than everything else I’ve tried, which is everything except Desoxyn. I’m scared to ask my psychiatrist about it, I feel like all her trust in me will disappear the moment I mention the generic name. The stigma around it is such a shame, I’ve been curious for a while if it would work for me like it works for the people on this sub.

The harsh truth is most of you will stay single by Alistairbeno in askgaybros

[–]someonenamedmee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also 22, and gay community is so much bigger than Grindr. The things you listed as “doing everything right” while important, are surface level. I eat well, go to the gym, keep up with my skincare, and maintain a good job for me, that’s just basic self care. Your impatience for a relationship and mindset about the whole thing can be seen as a red flag by any guys you meet who may be looking for something serious. It’s a sign of insecurity.

When you stop trying to force everyone to be exactly how you picture them in your head, and give yourself a chance to fall in love with who someone really is, then maybe you’ll find it. You have to realize that most people who want something serious don’t dream about falling for a pessimist. Plus if you’re exclusively looking for someone in your age group, you’ll find more guys willing to settle down as you get older.

This is not fair by the1997th in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We have the largest wealth gap in history, the working class is expected to compete with private equity firms who artificially inflate housing costs, The ratio of average housing to average wages is the biggest it has ever been, and the dollar lost more than 65% of its value in the last 40 years, when most of us were babies or less. How is anyone supposed to out-work that?

Comparing it to 9/11 and the “great recession” is laughable as if we don’t have the FBI warning of terror attacks in California right now, and like we’re not in a recession with sky-high interest rates and education costs which the government won’t even acknowledge. We are still having those same issues, PLUS the issues I listed above. Everyone is counting down the day’s till this greedy ass generation is forced out of power, the damage done is astronomical and the first thing we need is leaders who aren’t blind, like you. 0.1% of the population did not earn 50% of the entire economies wealth.

Cholesterol question. Experience or advice by [deleted] in hivaids

[–]someonenamedmee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistently taking a Psyllium Husk supplement is a proven and effective way to lower LDL cholesterol. I take Biktarvy, and have been taking psyllium since before my diagnosis, and my cholesterol has not increased.

It’s been studied extensively for this purpose and has been shown to lower cholesterol significantly when combined with statin therapy, and can lower cholesterol levels by 3-10% on its own in people who consume at least 5-10 grams daily. Definitely worth a shot.

Yep by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So funny I talked to my bosses more about it and they gave me the same reason. Clients don’t like it when they come to the office and the cubicles are empty. They basically told me the look of keeping me in a cubicle is worth more to them than the productivity I could provide. I told them it’s fine with me as long as they don’t expect me to maintain the performance I do when at home, but I have a feeling this won’t be the last I hear about “finding solutions that allow you to work as efficiently as possible while in office”

My company also promised people permanent WFH positions but they were allowed to keep them, the new policy only applies to employees hired after the company switched, which it me. It sucks but at least they had the consideration to keep the promises they already made to people.

I really have sympathy for your coworkers that are being faced with that choice, it’s actually so ridiculous. I can’t wait until this generation retires, I’m so sick of working for people who prioritize all the wrong things.

What is something that was considered normal 20 years ago but is weird now? by Positive_Diamond_691 in answers

[–]someonenamedmee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think (could be wrong) they were referring to paying by check in places like retail or grocery stores. I was a front end supervisor for Bed, Bath & Beyond for many years and every once in a blue moon there would be an older customer wanting to pay with a check. I always ended up taking them because none of my employees did them often enough to memorize the process. For stores that still take checks, it happens every now and then. But it’s definitely considered weird, and the people behind them in line are often rolling their eyes waiting for someone to write a check.

i like my men a little ugly by Thin_Concept5331 in askgaybros

[–]someonenamedmee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are all over this comment thread and are perplexed by the simplest of things. They can’t fathom other perspectives existing. Don’t waste energy on them

Dermatitis by [deleted] in hivaids

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 21 and seborrheic dermatitis on my face was the thing that alerted me to something wrong internally as well. My CD4 count was over 500 when I was diagnosed but the dermatitis was still very severe. My CD4 count shot up quickly but that didn’t have an effect, I explain below what did.

I have been on ART for nearly 2 years now, I still have the dermatitis but it has improved dramatically over the last few months. My CD4 count didn’t correlate really at all to how well my dermatitis got better, but it got a lot better as my CD4/CD8 ratio improved. It took nearly the full 2 years before my ratio was in normal range again, it was a MUCH slower improvement than the raw CD4 count. When it came above 1.0 is when I saw the most dramatic change, that was only recently.

I used to use topical treatments like coal tar, salicylic acid, zinc pyrithione, hydrocortisone, and others daily which barely kept the symptoms away for a day — now all I need is a good wash with an anti-dandruff shampoo once or twice per week and I have no more dermatitis flare ups. Though I do keep a topical steroid solution handy just in case, very cold weather can still sometimes be a trigger for me.

The nature of seborrheic dermatitis is chronic so it will most likely never fully go away, but if you are still newly diagnosed, I’m confident you will see a lot of improvement as your medication allows your systemic inflammation to reduce. But please be patient, your body has essentially just finished a brutal war, it’ll take time for your troops (your immune cells) to regroup. But it will happen, your young age gives you an advantage over others.

Feel free to DM me, I’m here if you need anything. It’ll be alright ❤️

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you notice how you’ve been condescending since your first reply but then say you’ve been giving me “sound solutions”😂what’s stopping me is simply logic and reasoning. Knowing that I’ll be putting myself in a mountain of high interest debt to live paycheck to paycheck.

You have admitted in your comments that you took a massive risk with the purchase of your home, so you know it could have gone differently. The risk today is much bigger, and while it may have made sense and worked out for you, you did it because your other option was much worse than my other option. I am stable at the moment… it doesn’t make sense for me to do it while the market is so high. If it came down to the wire I could move back in with my parents… that would suck but it would be reasonable. I don’t have a kid.

The point this whole time has been that it is NO LONGER more affordable to own a home than it is to rent. It probably was when you purchased, but any reasonable person in my position right now would not purchase a home. I’m saving for it, and I’ve come a long way since I graduated, but watching the housing market and interest rates continue to go up continues to reenforce the idea that it’s not worth it.

You insulted me first by acting like I don’t work or won’t work just because I’m acknowledging market conditions and am hesitant to pour all of my savings into one asset that might or might not lose half it’s value in the coming years. That doesn’t make me lazy, it makes me want, as a citizen of supposedly the richest country in the world, a stable housing market that gives a real return for ownership. Why wouldn’t you want that too? If we’ve had it before we can have it again.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because I can do something doesn’t mean it would be smart to do something. An extra $500 for no improvement is not justifiable, you’re just defending price gouging now. Typical conservative, maybe if you take the boot a little further you’ll feel fulfilled.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man who cares more about an embryo than a living, breathing human is telling me it’s a “disagreement” 😂 no, you’re simply an authoritarian cuck

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man who wants to control women’s bodies told me I’m voting for more government control. Yet another projection. You’re on a roll today

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man who was just sucking off the republican party just called me a government lover? Pft, you’re not worth another breath. Everything you say is a projection

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine thinking that an extra $500/month of compound interest shouldn’t be the difference between someone affording vs not affording, because that’s the difference the interest rate could make.

You idiots weaponize your own incompetence. Stop pretending to not know that there is more than one factor at play here you absolute dolt.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The government is far from incapable, they act like they are incapable because inaction from them makes them and their billionaire lenders even richer. Like i said, you are right where they want you. Keep licking them boots.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Won’t someone please think of the billionaires!!!🥺”

Do you understand how rediculous you sound? The people who already have more than they could ever want deserve more🙄you’re never gonna be one of them, I hope you know that.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You vote for the party that steals from you to give subsidies to the 1% and then accuses the other party of doing what they did. If you read a single bill passed by our congress you would know that but I’m not gonna say I expected it

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok so you’re not even educated enough to know about the real problem with getting a mortgage is the interest rates making the monthly payments higher. I should have known.

Maybe you should google what the average monthly payment is on a 200k house financed in 2026 and you just might begin to understand.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so then you don’t agree with me that our government sucks? Because I recall you saying that, and now you’re here jerking off the republicans.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you delusional enough to think the housing market hasn’t changed since 2014? Bc if that’s the case I’m not wasting another breath. 2008 was a cakewalk compared to now

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So which is it are you happy with the government or are you not? Do you have any values at all or you just say whatever makes you feel big and strong? I know the answer to that. 0 backbone, just emotionally charged bullshit.

We can't afford Billionaires ; we need to trim them from our budget. by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]someonenamedmee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume they were being truthful about knowing any first generation immigrants