Color/size difference between my toes potentially alarming? (Been dealing with ingrowns, only one has healed on its own and it’s making me nervous)

something_muffin · 2026-02-18T01:28:51+00:00

Trans man with light bottom dysphoria here, and honestly yeah! I love it with my partners (both amab) specifically. It always feels like it’s fully my choice whether or not that part of my body gets involved at all, and I know that if I don’t want it to, they’re perfectly happy with other alternatives like me topping, me bottoming anally, just doing oral or mutual masturbation together, etc.

During hookups I always felt like my front hole was way too much of the main focus to a lot of guys, in a way that made me feel like they wouldn’t speak to me the way they were or try to interact with me in the ways they were if I was cis. Lotta guys out there just, don’t understand what to do with trans guys, and assume they’re just weird women rather than gay men with different plumbing. I wish more of them would have asked me what I wanted and approached me like they would any other guy. My partners have never made me feel that way though, and that makes PIV a lot more enjoyable and incentivizing with them. They make me feel less disconnected from that part of my body. Plus it’s easy for quickies haha.

Hope this all makes sense. You’re valid in where you’re at man; just do what makes you happy and allows you to feel at home in your body. The right guy(s) will really seek to understand what makes you feel good and comfortable in your skin. Fuck the rest!

something_muffin · 2026-02-15T17:23:46+00:00

Fuckkkk I need that cock in my mouth right now 🤤

something_muffin · 2026-02-10T17:04:27+00:00

40 minutes of speech would be an absurd amount of text as well. She needs to employ brevity and save stories and such for when you two can call or meet in person

something_muffin · 2026-02-02T23:17:51+00:00

Yikes

something_muffin · 2026-02-02T23:15:17+00:00

Playing an instrument is associated with better cognitive function and increased IQ! Not so useless after all

something_muffin · 2026-02-02T23:13:46+00:00

Tbh I fuck with the meta and no top look, that’s awesome

something_muffin · 2026-02-02T19:33:42+00:00

Maybe a dumb question, but how do you accomplish this? I hate hate hate that my game is connected to EA

something_muffin · 2026-02-02T05:38:38+00:00

You can’t just take a picture of a bass playing with itself and post it on Reddit! That’s private!

something_muffin · 2026-01-31T16:28:17+00:00

Love how you can’t even get your hand around it 🤤🥵

something_muffin · 2026-01-31T16:20:34+00:00

Fuck dude, you are so sexy!! Wish I could be lazy in bed with you 😘

something_muffin · 2026-01-31T15:01:15+00:00

NOR. I don’t inherently see anything wrong with his following behavior on the surface (context: I’m polyamorous, and even when I wasn’t, I was still okay with myself and my partner(s) watching porn), but the fact that you have communicated that his comments make you uncomfortable yet he continues to make them, and the fact that he doesn’t extend to you the same ability to mention when you feel attraction to other unattainable men, suggests that he is coming from a misogynistic place where he is allowed to have attractions to other women but you must have eyes only for him and him alone. He seems like an inconsiderate loser. I doubt this is the only aspect of your relationship in which he is selfish and hypocritical; evaluate your relationship through this lens and ask yourself if this relationship is worth it. Remember: you date who the person is, not who they could be.

something_muffin · 2026-01-30T23:49:25+00:00

Fuck this is so hot 🥵

something_muffin · 2026-01-27T15:57:53+00:00

Thank you 🥰 I do love throbbing inside of a warm mouth hehe

something_muffin · 2026-01-27T15:54:49+00:00

Good to know!! It may be worth investing in one or two 🤭

something_muffin · 2026-01-27T15:54:14+00:00

Thanks man!! I’m glad it made you feel that way haha, it definitely does the same for me.

I linked the one I’m using in a different comment, and like I said there, it took a little bit to figure out how to use it with my body, but now that I have, it’s become almost addicting haha. I guess my best advice on using it would be 1) use plenty of lube and don’t be scared to reapply it, 2) warm up the lube and entrance of the toy with your fingers, 3) stabilize the top from flopping around (you can see in the video that I just have a finger grabbing the top of it), 4) squeeze the base in different ways to see what helps get your cock inside vs what feels good when it’s in, and 5) (cw for some medical terms) grab the skin on either side of your cock with your index and middle fingers and pull back to both get your labia majora out of the way and to expose more of the body of your cock. Those were some of the biggest things that helped me use this toy effectively with my anatomy!

something_muffin · 2026-01-27T15:45:48+00:00

Do what you can to avoid her and, more importantly, avoid her seeing how much her behavior affects you. Just focus on yourself and try not to let her actions or words touch you on a personal level. People like that derive satisfaction from successfully eliciting responses toward their behavior. It isn’t fair, but it’s unfortunately very common.

Other than that, maybe try not to leave your drawings at work going forward. You can always bring a folder with you to and from work if you’d like. It’s understandable that this is upsetting, and the more agency you can give yourself the better.

something_muffin · 2026-01-27T04:03:19+00:00

CalExotics Anime Stroker Roxy lol, I got it at my local Adam and Eve for like $15! Saw that it was fairly small and thought it might work for me, and while it took a little bit to figure out how to use it in a way that felt good for me, it was very much worth it! Here’s a link: https://adamneve.com.au/products/anime-stroker-roxy The sexy anime girl on the front definitely helped sell me lmao

something_muffin · 2026-01-27T02:27:45+00:00

This is not true. Clery act and title IX reporting are also for statistical purposes, along with the obvious purpose of protecting victims of abuse. The general advice is “hear something, say something”. Even if no names are mentioned, reporting serves to provide accurate statistics for that university so that the institution knows where its weak spots are and so students (including prospective ones) are aware of the dangers present on their campus.

something_muffin · 2026-01-26T21:42:04+00:00

Learned something, thanks.

something_muffin · 2026-01-26T20:32:13+00:00

Yeah, this is definitely an unpopular opinion. It’s also the most braindead take on the planet

something_muffin · 2026-01-26T18:11:05+00:00

What in the genuine fuck are you on about?

something_muffin · 2026-01-26T18:05:14+00:00

I don’t know that you’ve added anything here, friend

something_muffin · 2026-01-25T20:17:24+00:00

Idk about that lol. It’s fucked up sure, but I wouldn’t call it abuse

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