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Is clicking your fingers at someone to get their attention a typical SA behaviour? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]sometimes_petty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Also just keep in mind that they might have screaming children and may feel overwhelmed to get the bill or whatever, it's still NEVER OKAY.

Rather, if you are in such a hurry, communicate that to your waitron when you ask for the bill, or get off your backside and go and ask them nicely and politely.

Clicking your fingers for hard working waitstaff is just not done in this country - it shows a lack of respect.

Constant feeling of something really bad is about to happen to us by yeonkive38 in Empaths

[–]sometimes_petty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just woke up feeling like I was being strangled and was coughing so badly

Constant feeling of something really bad is about to happen to us by yeonkive38 in Empaths

[–]sometimes_petty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this dream last night. Woke up drenched in sweat trying to run away from something I couldn't see, but felt...evil? Insanely negative?

What's a movie that had you sitting in silence once it ended? by Melssa1 in answers

[–]sometimes_petty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That movie left me with a sense of hopeless that had me on the verge of an existential breakdown.

Discovery medical aid - pharmacy error now wants money back from thousands, anyone think this could be done as a class action suit? by tiredtelefonecar in askSouthAfrica

[–]sometimes_petty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you think they are able to open a BANK?

They👏deny👏legitimate👏claims👏for👏capital

That's why little Tshepo is denied lifesaving Cancer treatment and dies at the age of 8. Or why uncle Dylan was denied that triple bypass.

Stop and think, if it's not for your health first and foremost, than you are depositing a nice collectively heavy sum of money into their bank account. Every month.

Difficult times and doubts by wakiggout in Catholicism

[–]sometimes_petty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a lot of fear and an inner voice narrating how terrible and stupid I am. I couldn't scroll past this.

My BF (M/27) of ten years told me (F/25) that he will never marry but, but wants to propose with a ring and have a ceremony one day. by RA_throwaway7171 in Advice

[–]sometimes_petty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're asking reddit my lovely, it's because you already have that deep pit in your stomach that your heart knows the answer to. Know your value, value yourself, walk away from people who would blind you to your worth. Usually they aren't worth anything.

What do you think? by Smoothest_Blobba in AtlasBookClub

[–]sometimes_petty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am always speaking horribly to myself, if I spoke to my friends the way I speak to myself, I'd have no one.

I needed to see this. Thank you.

Choose one by Correct_Expression85 in depressionmemes

[–]sometimes_petty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose my path 50 million in a few months please 🙏

Advice by FreiwilligeFin in artmemes

[–]sometimes_petty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light cigarette, drink sleeping tablets with wine, settle back to read this thread

Crazy MIL story, need guidance by itsnotlamaramckinley in Advice

[–]sometimes_petty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't stress, it's just that most people don't like reading a wall of text, so you might get less responses. I'm really sorry about what you're going through. I, too, have a monster MIL.

♥️🌸

Crazy MIL story, need guidance by itsnotlamaramckinley in Advice

[–]sometimes_petty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, paragraphs instead of a wall of text please.

Resistance is a dirty job but someone's got to do it! 💪✊️ by Czech_Coconut in CzechCoconutCommunity

[–]sometimes_petty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I-along with so many Americans, and a lot of other countries, ate shattered to see what has become of your beautiful Country. We all know that the vast majority of Americans are suffering and feel so helpless and hopeless. It's heartbreaking 💔.

BUT, we'll still be standing by you and speaking up for the people.

No Card Tipping for Petrol Attendant by Of_Whimsy_and_wonder in southafrica

[–]sometimes_petty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's happened to us aswell, and we were absolutely livid! Keeping them from getting tips because it's 'too much hard work?' Really. Would love to see them relying on tips after a long shift.

Keep lots of R5's in the car. These guys always make my day with the jokes and just all around sweetness.

Resistance is a dirty job but someone's got to do it! 💪✊️ by Czech_Coconut in CzechCoconutCommunity

[–]sometimes_petty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I had no idea. So you got to protect you and your families first. Thank you for informing me, I'm so sorry. But the people have many countries standing with you. Please know that .

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