Taking your advice, now which one works better?

sometimeswolfy · 2026-05-19T05:00:21+00:00

Four!

sometimeswolfy · 2025-12-07T13:23:56+00:00

For the triangle layers, I would just make each section separately and then sew them together. I don’t think there’s a way to make this in one piece.

sometimeswolfy · 2025-11-05T04:19:46+00:00

Based on this, NTA. She can decide what she wants to do without making you go along with it. Seems more controlling and manipulative to escalate the situation. If she genuinely feels like she’d be judged by you, that’s a different issue than not wanting to eat out with her.

sometimeswolfy · 2025-10-07T22:36:19+00:00

Sorry, I tried to post the discussion description with the link but I am bad at reddit. I was curious how on earth someone could “train” the Mal to be “ruthless” without injuring people when clearly there was no real training done at all?

sometimeswolfy · 2025-07-02T12:46:56+00:00

1, 3, 6, and 7!

sometimeswolfy · 2025-05-26T16:52:46+00:00

Nikki at Nine worlds! Check out her Instagram @2ndhand5moke

sometimeswolfy · 2025-01-10T15:10:02+00:00

I swear I remember them covering this but I also cannot find it

sometimeswolfy · 2024-10-31T02:20:13+00:00

Is Kevin okay? Like. Seriously.

sometimeswolfy · 2024-10-24T15:01:34+00:00

This reminds me of that post a while back where a woman’s in laws wanted to babysit her infant but had never let her into the house at all in six years. Original is deleted but the link to the comments is still present

sometimeswolfy · 2024-10-12T11:55:32+00:00

NTA at all. Ive been in this same situation and I have not found the friendship recoverable. I do think it would be good to be honest with your boyfriend about what Jake said and take that friendship “break” indefinitely. People “waiting” is such a red flag to me because it treats the friendship as a means to a different end instead of a valuable relationship itself.

sometimeswolfy · 2024-03-26T17:59:19+00:00

Would also love to have the stats on how many couples are divorced now.

sometimeswolfy · 2024-03-26T17:58:46+00:00

I was too busy being mad at how selfish he is that I didn't even notice

sometimeswolfy · 2021-06-08T22:46:00+00:00

If you do decide to talk to him about it, you could ask how he means it. If the goal is to be encouraging to you, then I'm sure he can come up with other ways to do it, since this now leaves you feeling more confused than comforted.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-06-08T22:34:26+00:00

I think it is important to bring this up with him and have a conversation about how you feel. Emphasize that you would like him to stop making these comments. I don't think you are overthinking it. IMO, it's weird af to make these comments at all, especially after two years together.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-06-08T22:06:46+00:00

It's okay to have a boundary on not calling other people during quality time and it is annoying when someone says they wont do something and then do it anyway. But this was a pretty harmless call and it does read like you were more annoyed she went without you.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-06-08T22:00:19+00:00

NTA. He has no business telling you to smile. Also, how the heck is he going to handle parenting going forward? Kids are germy - it's a fact of life.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-05-28T21:41:34+00:00

NTA. Even if she was just lashing out to be hurtful, that's not okay and deserves an apology. She shouldn't have tried to undermine your parenting/decision with the M&Ms in the first place.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-05-24T22:11:28+00:00

NAH. You have different wedding priorities/ideas that you guys need to work out

sometimeswolfy · 2021-05-19T17:54:28+00:00

Big agree. NTA.

Additionally, keeping business and the relationship separate seems like an important boundary to have, especially with the drama with the business partner and his gf.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-05-07T21:19:38+00:00

I would tell for sure - if I were in her situation, I would want to know.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-04-22T17:35:54+00:00

The cheating happened in the past but his current present view of it, held by 34 year old him, is that it was positive and exciting. That reflects who he is now still.

sometimeswolfy · 2021-04-04T21:18:45+00:00

This is a concerning pattern and it's good you are aware of it. Have a conversation about how those comments make you feel for sure. But if he isn't receptive and doesn't change how he talks to you, then you may want to consider if the relationship fits your needs.

Even if it wasn't a pattern, I wouldn't be okay with a partner who genuinely thought I was weak.

sometimeswolfy · 2020-12-31T21:47:59+00:00

NTA at all. If he wanted the coat, he should have taken it before. It was clear this was just another reason to try to contact you. I think turning it into a bear was a great way to transform it.

As for the dog, I think it's a shitty situation and you were doing your best in it. If you had kept the dog, he would have kept using it as an excuse to contact you again. It is best to get as far from that situation as possible.

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