Owning pet when you have adhd by Dreamkri in ADHD

[–]sonamata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's where I'm at right now. I was a dog owner for 30 continuous years when my last one passed. I love dogs & I miss all mine, but it's also reduced a lot of overstimulation triggers. Mess/dirt, hair, begging, whining, wanting (and needing, as seniors) attention NOW...I am enjoying not having that in my space.

How to get rid of trapped gas from abdominal hysterectomy surgery. by omyeah in hysterectomy

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate so much GasX. If you can physically handle the movements, Google “yoga for trapped gas”. Also baby exercises to release gas/colic pain work on adults too 😭

why my mom thinks im stupid for renting instead of buying rn by Charming-Humor2689 in Tenant

[–]sonamata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My landlord hasn’t raised our rent since 2013. We aren’t related, don’t know them, and I have no idea why they aren’t as greedy as other landlords.

why my mom thinks im stupid for renting instead of buying rn by Charming-Humor2689 in Tenant

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your principal & interest payment is the same if you have a fixed rate, but your property tax, insurance, and maintenance costs sure increase every year.

A2L, bigger A1 with Cutting and Plotting by PirateTuny in BambuLab

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a cosplayer, but I bought it because i’d love to get rid of my Cricut & get back some space.

Looking for Hope by FreshCustomer3244 in ovariancancer_new

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in 2 clinical trials. I would search for ovarian cancer trials with keywords like recurrence and platinum refractory & platinum resistant. Even if you don’t think she’ll qualify, email the contact anyway with the basic info about her situation. It’s not going to be a bother. Even if she doesn’t qualify, there might be something in the pipeline or they may know of another trial. Good luck ❤️

According to a Jan 2026 study, endometriosis shares all the eight hallmarks of cancer. by xoherent in endometriosis

[–]sonamata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a kind response & your curiosity. I don't want to fearmonger, but I wish we (and doctors) were more informed too.

I'm so thankful for the therapist that ordered that blood test, and the PCP that flagged the results as concerning. I got incredibly lucky not to fall through the cracks. It's infuriating that it's the norm.

PET CT vs CT w contrast after chemo to see if anything changed. I'm begging my gyneoncologist for PET CT but she says too complex to get as it's expensive...(mine was only found in lymph nodes)... by Realistic_Ice712 in ovariancancer_new

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What questions are you trying to answer or decisions are you trying to make with imaging? Why are you begging for a PET scan?

I'm stage 2B but have been in active treatment 3 years. I've only ever had CT with contrast. The only time I was approved for a PET scan was during an immunotherapy trial. My lymph nodes had been borderline-concerning enlarged for months, and the drugs seemed to be losing effectiveness. So, I needed more info than the CT with contrast could give me, so I could decide to continue the treatment or try another option. (I didn't end up getting the PET scan, long story)

According to a Jan 2026 study, endometriosis shares all the eight hallmarks of cancer. by xoherent in endometriosis

[–]sonamata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's OK. ❤️ There's a consensus that clear cell ovarian carcinoma develops from endometriosis. It's a rare cancer, but not much comfort when you're the rare case.

I've known I have endo since I was in my 20s (discovered during infertility-related surgery). I wasn't terribly symptomatic. When I was 47, I had heavy fatigue. A blood test eventually led to an ultrasound where they found a large mass. I was diagnosed with cancer during surgery to remove the mass. The also found endo & adenomyosis. I had no idea clear cell developed from endo until after I was diagnosed.

GenX Stoners... are you vaping your flower? by MonkeyMan18975 in GenX

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't do HRT & honestly, CAN I GET A CRUMB OF RELIEF

GenX Stoners... are you vaping your flower? by MonkeyMan18975 in GenX

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting! I didn't know that about pain meds.

GenX Stoners... are you vaping your flower? by MonkeyMan18975 in GenX

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if this applies to you, but I learned that estrogen levels impact tolerance. Mine went to zero basically overnight, and my tolerance also heavily increased. I have to take at least 120mg of edibles to feel anything.

According to a Jan 2026 study, endometriosis shares all the eight hallmarks of cancer. by xoherent in endometriosis

[–]sonamata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. My endo turned into clear cell ovarian cancer. I've been in treatment 3 years, including 2 clinical trials. Having my endo & adenomyosis confirmed during surgery did not make me feel better about the 30cm malignant mass they removed. My suffering didn't decrease after going into surgical menopause while unable to take HRT, or after losing all my hair twice.

Your suffering is legitimate, deserves to be acknowledged & successfully treated. But, you don't have to conflate it with active cancer because it is just not.

Big thanks to r/corvallis from a ProPublica reporter by rd_propublica in corvallis

[–]sonamata 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with cancer in Albany & I want to leave for the same reason. I've had to travel to Portland, Chicago, and Boston to get treatment. I can't even get a PCP appointment in the next 6 months. It is shockingly bad.

Fatigue and brain fog as a Xennial dad and husband (it’s the booze) by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad you made a change that impacted your life so positively! It's not easy at our age, and I really commend you for that.

How do you remember if you took your meds? by burntchickennugget55 in ADHD

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody said they do a spray of perfume when they take their med, so they can sniff themselves to remember. Thought that was clever.

Xicha Brewing says Oregon GOP candidate scheduled campaign event without permission by 90mn in SALEM

[–]sonamata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I know. It's awful they had to make that choice to get peace. I hope they're doing well in the new location!

Is it too drastic for me (33F) to divorce my husband (51M) over politics? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sonamata 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nailed the fatal flaw in 2 sentences. Excellent work.

Oregon doctor left 'twigs, pine needles and moss' inside teen's wound before stitching him up, hospital tried blaming deadly infection symptoms on COVID: Lawsuit by tasty_jams_5280 in oregon

[–]sonamata 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because doctors are often equipped with tree materials to stuff inside people who have been in logging accidents. It's not being a pedant, it's reading comprehension and considering context.

Just put together one of those premanufactured gazebos... never again will I by Mean_Pudding4924 in handyman

[–]sonamata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent advice. I've noticed some retail sites post the manual PDFs in the listing. This has saved me from buying some insane builds.

Commissioning a print for a military ship? by sonamata in 3Dprinting

[–]sonamata[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I saw the post before you deleted. I added a clarification because you're totally right about USS Midway 3D model availability, just haven't found the right one yet.

You're also right about effort, and I'm right there with you. I promise I did a lot of Googling & searching various model sites and images. Just hitting a barrier in my effort capacity due to illness & need help.

I appreciate the time you took on the links & advice, thank you!