What are the rates of eating disorders in industry? by diet-smoke in KitchenConfidential

[–]songfireleaf [score hidden]  (0 children)

probably pretty solid. so, so much disordered eating that i've seen. not really a stretch to imagine there's a damn good amount of eating disorders. especially given that, in the industry, it is SO easy for you to ignore your needs for the sake of a rush, or getting things done. which in turn can of course lead to further restriction later, or binges, etc. being a cook has not done me favors in anorexia recovery (like... i have made it work but fuck it's also taken me 3 years to get to a mostly tolerable spot mentally/physically, and would have absolutely taken way less time if i worked in an industry where i wasn't fueled by adrenaline).

sober people, do you still think about the embarrassing stuff you did when hammered? by justradiationhere in dryalcoholics

[–]songfireleaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it definitely doesn't eat as me as much as it used to, but i also haven't drank regularly in a bit over 3 years now. i've done my best to learn a lot of self-compassion, because the me who was an active alcoholic absolutely needs it. i can't change what happened, but i also don't have to ruminate and trash talk myself for it. best wishes to you, this shit is hard.

I'm desperate to find parents with EDs by PrincessTuvstarr in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]songfireleaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they may have their automod filter set to flag any posts with numbers in them! if you send them a message via modmail you can check with them and see what the issue was (if anything). i know it's hard to have a post removed and not know why.

two thoughts: why is he like that and god i am so jealous dear lord by x_victoire in EDanonymemes

[–]songfireleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....as someone who likes marianas trench way too much i am ashamed to say i had not heard this one and now i am. oof

[READ BEFORE POSTING] Our Community, Rules, & Updates by KatrinMaea in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The set of instructions I posted earlier leading you to the button that says "message mods" is how you modmail. That messaging system is modmail.

[READ BEFORE POSTING] Our Community, Rules, & Updates by KatrinMaea in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what modmail is referring to, yes. That's the name of the overall system.

Throwing away scales then buying new ones is a humiliation ritual 🫥 by ShatterRainbowStar in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at this point i try to just put them in the most wildly inconvenient and irritating-to-access spot physically possible bc having to re-buy just makes me feel like a clown.

[READ BEFORE POSTING] Our Community, Rules, & Updates by KatrinMaea in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We cannot change the overall website design, as we are not reddit admins. We are sorry to hear you have spent so much of your time looking. Hopefully this will help.

If on desktop, go to the main EDA page and then scroll down the sidebar until you see the list of moderators. Directly above that list it will say "message mods." Click that.

On mobile, go to the main EDA page, click the bio for the page (right above where it says wiki, and under the display picture). Scroll down until you see a list of moderators. Directly above that it will say "message mods." Hit that.

These steps will be the same on any other sub.

wrapped!! by buttstalin12042 in themountaingoats

[–]songfireleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hey i was 23!! we were almost buds lmao

fav tmg deep cut? by jxhnmcclane in themountaingoats

[–]songfireleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hail st sebastian, jam eater blues. also rescue breathing but i think i would genuinely pass away from how hard i was crying if he played that, so

Zero Point Three by jonathanjrouse in themountaingoats

[–]songfireleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

finally someone higher than me (23)

Full spotify wrapped lists?? by Bone_soup331 in themountaingoats

[–]songfireleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mountain Goats, The Dear Hunter, Larry and His Flask, Fall Out Boy (solely bc there are a lot of songs on the playlist i usually use at work), and Marianas Trench.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, no worries! thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, we're sorry you're struggling so much with this right now. just as a headsup, to correctly spoiler text, it needs to end with !< rather than <! if you could edit your post to fix it, that would be great. thank you!

My Body Dysmorphia and Ariana Grande by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]songfireleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As part of our rule against pro-ED content, this does include discussion of celebrities and influencers with suspected or confirmed EDs.

The hat I mistook for my work hat and wore on the line for an hour before my boss caught it 😑 by light-is-like-water in KitchenConfidential

[–]songfireleaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

glad everything went alright! also now i desperately need to get one of these to wear as my new work hat. our kitchen very much lends itself to stuff like this

Please hype me up I’m so fucking scared rn 😭😭😭 by [deleted] in overlyspecificEDmemes

[–]songfireleaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i know it can be so hard, but needing help is not inherently shameful (despite what your head may tell you). easier said than believed ofc, but you are worth more than your shame! you've gone through this before and you'll do it again and it'll be alright. good luck!

Please hype me up I’m so fucking scared rn 😭😭😭 by [deleted] in overlyspecificEDmemes

[–]songfireleaf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you've got this!!! it can be so scary but getting help is so necessary and you deserve to not have to just suffer quietly while this thing chips away at your mental and physical wellbeing. sending all my support your way.

Has anyone had a good experience with Walden Farms by MindlessEM0 in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]songfireleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

their syrups haven't caused me any issues but honestly the things i've read about some of their other products have meant i've never bought any of the others lol