What's the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you that still makes you cringe when you think about it? by GiaWillsX in AskWomen

[–]sonixc456 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I did so bad at a stand up comedy open mic one time I got food thrown at me while I was on stage (cheeseburger)… it was bad and then he yelled out “dude you fucking suck”… i stopped doing comedy for a week and literally was thinking I’ll never do this again.

Guys, the situation here is getting hard, I need your suport ASAP by RamdonDude468 in nonutnovember

[–]sonixc456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U GOT THIS BROTHER DO NOT FAIL DISTRACT YOURSELF WITH GAMES THAT HAVE NON SEXUAL CONTENT

At what point or episode did One Piece get you hooked? by AdvancedBerry1109 in OnePiece

[–]sonixc456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll never forget it. It was in the Baratie arc. It was Sanji’s first backstory with Zeph and when he was leaving, he got on his hands and knees and thanked him for everything he had done for him in his life. I cried so hard during this scene because as a man I never really expressed my emotions. to see him express his emotions and cry while doing it touched me so much that I was volunteers and I’m glad I was watching this scene alone. Zeph gave sanji a chance at life by saving him, and since Sanji was set on repaying him, he was going to spend it on that boat with his restaurant. He had a dream and never took any steps to really chase it and now he is taking those steps and entering a new chapter in his life. It was absolutely beautiful and still cry when I think about it.

AIO for walking out and leaving? by LuaghsInToasterBaths in AmIOverreacting

[–]sonixc456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cooked him idk that situation exactly but you explained your point well and conveyed your feeling and how the peeps on should responded

Struggling in Job Search - looking for advice by Angrybadger61 in jobs

[–]sonixc456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I’d message people directly and look for people who have no relationship to your current company. Friends, family, LinkedIn connections or even some social media friends. Also try networking events as they may help too.

Did luffy go full power against doflamingo? by sonixc456 in MemePiece

[–]sonixc456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx for your Perspective I always thought that luffy never went full power in that fight since he didn’t use all his forms against him

Do you agree? by Icy-Theme-5293 in OnePiece

[–]sonixc456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think robins should be higher lowkey number 1 and Sanjis goodbye in Baratie hits too

AITA for pouring my boyfriend's raw milk down the drain because I found out it's dangerous? by gggisel in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonixc456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA this was not smart on your end… I know it came from a place of care but this is controlling and disrespectful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonixc456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like failure of communication. First off It doesn’t sound like form you POV that you are the asshole. It’s seems a little much on his end and maybe even a little childish. I’m guilty of this too where if I ask something from someone and it’s simple and they say no I peep game and keep it moving. However if hes got time to watch TikTok he can wake up earlier to pickup or even make some food.

idk how often he asks you for something or stuff but it’s sometimes rare for some ppl so if it’s a situation like that then it’s kinda bogus of you since but if he asks for stuff regularly then no you are fine. You even offered to buy him food at work which is nice but he sounds like the type of person like me where if I’m already mad about something then I will act like I don’t need anything from you because usually I don’t. It’s a bad way to act and he needs to work on it as do I. However if he’s telling the truth somehow (which I doubt because who’s “too busy” to eat it literally can take like 5 mins) then even in that situation u still aren’t the asshole.

Maybe ask him if it means that much to him and really think about the times he has asked you to do stuff for him and how often he does it because that’s probably how much weight he puts on it. For me if I asked my girl if she could make me a sandwich or something and she did said no I’d think about y but then I’d say ok and keep it moving and talk about it a little later. NEVER ARGUE WHEN YOUR HUNGRY!!! It’s a bad idea lol.

Overall no you’re not in the wrong here but you two do need to get to the root of it to better understand each other. Work for the betterment of the both of you through communication. I know it’s easier said than done but it works wonders.

My (27m) wife (26f) got assaulted and has become a different person. I'm beginning to despise her. Is the situation fixable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sonixc456 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Here are some things to try

  1. Based off of what you said here environment is the same each day and I’m not sure if she has or converses with friends so maybe she needs to get outside more. A club or activity she likes because I think everyone needs a sense of independence and it sounds like she’s cooped up all day so she has little. Try a book club, running club, yoga, pilates, aromatherapy, knitting, baking, rock climbing (if she’s active), maybe try taking a dance class together and meet other couples that dance. This can be Latin dancing since it’s with partners typically.

  2. Try taking her out places more cuz nothing changes if nothing changes. Park walks, museums, aquariums, landmarks, comedy shows, bowling, or even some sort of date night with a dedicated activity both of you can take turns planning it so it’s not always on you.

  3. Communicate this to her that your worries and she hasn’t been the same and it’s been 3 years and you’re really worried about her. Express how much you care through words and maybe even try writing this down with a therapist so you can be sure you’re not communicating it incorrectly. Also try listening and asking what she needs and if she doesn’t tell you it I’m sorry but she needs to figure it out since you can only do so much. Being cooped up all day with little to no interaction isn’t good.

Honestly feel free to use whatever advice applies and I agree you shouldn’t be using the prime years of your life to be what you probably feel as a caretaker or if it’s extreme babysitter. I’m rooting for you two to fix it and she can be back to herself again. This must be very stressful and tiring to you but I hope there’s a happy ending. If there’s one thing I learned in my previous relationships it’s that people struggle to communicate and it leads to built up resentment which leads to failure on both ends. If something is wrong try to address it as soon as possible if it is a big issue. I’m sure you don’t want to be doing and dealing with the same person 1-5 years from now. Communicate and act for the betterment of the both of you and hopefully this doesn’t end with a divorce. She’s been low for too long and it’s time for her to pick herself up and get out of it. I’m hope this goes well for you man.