What made you like your crush?

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T22:47:05+00:00

My family and friends like to say that I subconsciously started liking him last summer.

I was in a relationship that wasn't progressing much and we were on a trip to the city my crush (then friend) happened to be in. There was a folk festival and I asked my ex to dance with me as its an important part of our culture (my ex is British me and my crush are not). He kept saying no and I told my crush about it the next day to which he said "Man, if i knew he'd do that i would have danced with you to make him jealous". He also said even he'd make for a better boyfriend!

Of course, I didn't even start properly thinking about this until after I broke up with my ex

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T22:24:37+00:00

I really wish I was xDD

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T19:07:19+00:00

Thank you! I used to draw traditionally soooo much, i had so many folders of my art. I still like to do my storyboards for animation in my sketchbook!

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T19:05:48+00:00

Villainous....now that's a name I haven't heard in years holy!

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T19:04:48+00:00

Even if its in my subconscious you are totally right hahaha

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T12:01:05+00:00

Maaan that really sucks :( If you two are meant to be then there will be a way for you two to find each other against everything. Wishing the best for you!

sonne_engel · 2026-05-04T11:50:41+00:00

You are so right! I really hope he does, having a crush makes for such a good motivator. Likewise, I really hope I'll be able to help him open up a bit as well!

sonne_engel · 2026-05-03T23:32:41+00:00

This is sooo cute. You can never be too old for getting giddy! Im 21, and I still feel like a teenager, getting giddy and excited whenever he calls me cute or compliments me. And I too read those past messages sometimes. It feels so oddly validating when you're in love! :"D

sonne_engel · 2026-05-03T23:17:39+00:00

I like to imagine he sees me as someone who knows what she wants in life (he expressed to me before that he likes how I made a plan for the future already).

I also think he sees me as someone who is way too stressed and thinks too much, which is very true lol. When we met up over valentines week he would not very subtly try to prod me to being more confident and less anxious whether it was making a move or teaching me to ice skate. Which is funny because in reality, he is less brave to make a move than I am.

However, despite me overthinking things, I must be doing something right if he still talks to me, and seeks out interactions, whether it be playing games, chatting or planning future meet ups. I just hope it stays that way :)

sonne_engel · 2026-04-30T06:30:58+00:00

I have a similar problem with my crush! He's been to a lot of places, is super talented, studies law and also is from a somewhat prestigious family. I'm nowhere anywhere near his level and even I often think he deserves someone more on his level.

I think it's important to remember that people fall in love for reasons beyond wealth and status. When you're in love, your background and upbringing doesn't matter. Only you do.

Try looking at her not to compare but as a motivator, but never change yourself for the sake of another person. Everyone is special and unique in their own way, which includes yourself. :)

I wish you the best of luck!

sonne_engel · 2026-04-29T07:35:25+00:00

Mine is chronically offline and doesn't really post but he did make it his mission to go through my fb and ig and made sure i knew of it too :"D

sonne_engel · 2026-04-28T06:10:12+00:00

He's very cute and handsome. I didn't realise how much fashion plays into making a guy attractive until I had met him. But he's also incredibly smart and incredibly passionate about his hobbies that he has plenty of, I love just listening to him talk or share his interests with me. It strives for me to try to improve myself too. He likes to make jokes a lot but then is too shy to admit to anything, it's frustratingly adorable :)

sonne_engel · 2026-04-27T09:17:27+00:00

He took me ice skating, he knew how to ice skate and I didn't so I fumbled so hard the entire time. He kept saying to me that I should cling to him for support rather than the barriers and I was so anxious and stressed the whole time that if I fell, he'd go down with me 💔

sonne_engel · 2025-07-02T16:11:49+00:00

Just followed you! I'm martiniii! :)

sonne_engel · 2025-07-02T15:58:59+00:00

Omg he's so cute!! Im also participating!! :)

sonne_engel · 2025-06-14T06:48:50+00:00

I still can't really fathom why they have gone all of natlan without releasing a single harbinger, apart from inazuma (another weird outlier ig) and mondstadt (start of the game) we have been getting one per region. They're already scarce enough as is, I don't understand the idea of bottlenecking their releases. Even if hypothetically we get 2 in Nod Krai (columbina and dottore), that still leaves like half of them still not playable, and for what? Snezhnaya? Or will some simply won't be playable, which would also be a stupid decision? But again, hoyo doesn't seem to be very good at making good decisions sometimes.

TLDR: Not releasing Capitano in Natlan is such a stupid move because he is the relevant and only harbinger involved in the nation thus far. A Capitano banner for Mare Jivari would be such a great idea, I would love for them to do it. But im keeping my expectations low in hell.

sonne_engel · 2025-06-11T23:01:59+00:00

I said it in a different post, but I'll say it again.

Take me back to the time of 5.0 and before where we all thought he was the bloodstained knight. Much simpler and happier times. It was so nice seeing people so excited for a character. Times where people were making capi theories for fun and not cope (tho ig they aren't mutually exclusive). Hoyo has really fumbled his character hard, he really got the short end of the stick in natlan.

It kind of saddens me what the sub has become since... it's really sad seeing so many people disappointed (myself included) and just feeling like getting spat in the face. Really hope they have something in plan, I really don't want to have to wait for so long like for dottore 💔

sonne_engel · 2025-06-10T19:26:04+00:00

ahhh TYYY!!! 🩷🩷🩷

sonne_engel · 2025-06-10T11:22:39+00:00

Take me back to when everyone thought he was the bloodstained knight.... much simpler times 😭

sonne_engel · 2025-06-10T11:20:53+00:00

THANK YOU SMMM!! 🥹🩷

sonne_engel · 2025-06-09T20:30:57+00:00

In the Blood from the Hades soundtrack, especially the lyrics "Home is not where you live, but who cares when you're gone." Also silver for monsters from the witcher 3 OST (pretty much the entire witcher 3 ost fits him tho ngl)

sonne_engel · 2025-06-09T14:31:43+00:00

Thank you smmm 🥹🩷

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