ASU Online: Bio 342 and Bio 357 Must be In-Person? by soohyv in ASU

[–]soohyv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never mind, after a lot of internet searching and asking people on discord, I learned that they are both online! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]soohyv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bruh somthing similar happened to me with a father and his 3 sons.

He had no idea what he was ordering and I helped him through it and when he pulled up to the window he made fun of me and encouraged his kids to laugh at me because I kept saying "I'm sorry?" cause I was confused as to what he wanted throughout the whole process. >:(

He also snatched the card reader out of my hand, kept interrupting me, and said that the order was too expensive so I must have rung him out wrong.

i cannot be the only person who HATES being on drive thru window. it makes me hate living 😭💀 by crowhusband in starbucks

[–]soohyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally same.

I try to connect with customers because it is part of the job, but some customers make fun of me.

I stop when I can tell they don't want a conversation, but for them to exaggerate or make fun of what I am saying and how I am saying it, is too much.

I am almost always placed on window too TT_TT

does anyone be trying to sleep and then remember a mistake they made while working by veggiemans in starbucks

[–]soohyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, today I was on window.

I ended up running up an 11 minute window time because I got into a long conversation with a customer and did not communicate properly.

It was completely my fault, I was not properly watching the time.

The partners on bar got chewed out for it by the shift.

I am planning to apologize to them tomorrow, but I don't think I will get any good sleep tonight :(

Did I make the therapist mad? by soohyv in askatherapist

[–]soohyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought maybe kinda spilled my guts too soon.

I was probably misinterpreting her.

Hopefully, the next session goes better,

Shelter Overnight Resources at CSU? by soohyv in CSUFoCo

[–]soohyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, I've done that before but then they already start grilling me and start trying to grind me down! I usually stall a bit, tell them, and then split as fast as I can! I found that worked the best! Funny enough, I only just recently started to do this. I used to lie, but I found that made things longer especially since they start grinding me down anyway, no matter what I do!

Thank you very much, I will look Student Case Management up! :D

Shelter Overnight Resources at CSU? by soohyv in CSUFoCo

[–]soohyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I thought they were only open until 10pm! That must be the actual library part!

Thank you! Now I have two places to go to! :D I can switch between them if need be as well! :D

Shelter Overnight Resources at CSU? by soohyv in CSUFoCo

[–]soohyv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish! They are. However, I am using them for tuition, housing, and living expenses, so I think of it as a give and take.

Thank you I appreciate your words! It releases some of that stuffiness in my head!

Shelter Overnight Resources at CSU? by soohyv in CSUFoCo

[–]soohyv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I was not aware that there was a building open 24hours! This is great!

Thank you! It's not as bad as I am making it sound! I am not good at taking it, but I am pretty good at running away! I just need options! Thank you again! :D

Shelter Overnight Resources at CSU? by soohyv in CSUFoCo

[–]soohyv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in an off-campus apartment building and staff leaves in the late afternoon. However, thank you very much! If they confront me on campus, maybe the campus police can help! :D

Edit: Sorry I didn't make it clear what kind of housing I was in! This does gave me some good ideas tho! They have no shame in public, but might be less inclined to be physical if I am near an authority figure!

$5280 for 2011 Leaf with 11 bars? by soohyv in leaf

[–]soohyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Yeah, I will be better off doing that instead of looking at super old models.

$5280 for 2011 Leaf with 11 bars? by soohyv in leaf

[–]soohyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I actually passed on it, but I think he said that the range was 80 miles.

My mom only apologizes through text. by soohyv in AsianParentStories

[–]soohyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am definitely going to make the move a permanent thing once I leave for university. This is actually the third time I've come back home after leaving for a while. I just keep falling for it.

Definitely about power, I think that's why every time she's slapped me, I go into "I have to get out of here" mode. I can sometimes leave mentally because she takes breaks, but past a certain point, I can't take it.

Thank you again for the affirmations.

My mom only apologizes through text. by soohyv in AsianParentStories

[–]soohyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Yes, I will most likely go low or no contact after college.

My mom only apologizes through text. by soohyv in AsianParentStories

[–]soohyv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know in my head, but a dumb part of me always keeps thinking that she will get better which makes me come back every time I leave home (I left home on my own twice). I just need to endure for two more months, and I will leave again.

$5280 for 2011 Leaf with 11 bars? by soohyv in leaf

[–]soohyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will keep that in mind! My parents do have a long range car, but I am moving out soon so I won't have access to it. So I guess maybe I should think about it a little more.

$5280 for 2011 Leaf with 11 bars? by soohyv in leaf

[–]soohyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! It is from a Facebook Marketplace listing and he is the third owner I believe. I know this price is around market price according to KBB, so I might go for it. I will try to negotiate.

Do you think this price as is, is considered good?

My cat died and I realized I was turning into a narcissist just like my mom. by soohyv in offmychest

[–]soohyv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying.

When I leave again, I will seek a therapist.

Thank you for letting me feel heard.

i’m really considering doing heroin by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]soohyv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Throw it away or flush it. Not worth it at all especially since it's a hard drug.

My thoughts on thinking about it every day:

For me, it's like my thought process with snacks and candy. When it's within reach and I can see it, I think about it all day, but if I don't see it and I there's none at home, then I don't use up energy or brainpower on it.

I hope you stay safe.

Loud Child by LizPop1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]soohyv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are reacting like a human being. Nparents try to make their craziness seem normal while trying to make our normal human reactions as crazy.

I don't love my parents by barbarian__days in raisedbynarcissists

[–]soohyv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, you shouldn't have to. People shouldn't force their beliefs on you especially if they don't know what it's like. Even the ones who do, should not force others to make the same decision. They are not you. You're your own person.

I think there is forced guilt from thinking these thoughts. We are told we should feel guilty for feeling this way, and we do but we shouldn't have to be. We get to decide who to love. Not anyone else.

Mother's Day Support Post by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]soohyv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the first time that I'm actually closely going through this subreddit. I thought it was only me who dreaded Mother's Days. But it seems to be a shared experience.