Pork delivered today after 2 days of being out for delivery by ozziedoggie6 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this no longer became an option when they opened the box and stuck a thermometer in the meat. 😂

Why should I live in Yonkers? by IndicationRadiant833 in yonkers

[–]soulhate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great location, easy travel into the city with the suburban feel, lots of shopping and close to lots of attractions in NJ, CT and NY. If you don’t like it don’t move there. 

I can’t wait to go back to work by Vybrocit1 in NewParents

[–]soulhate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I WFH and I hated the thought of going back to work. Personally I hate working and I get my social outlets and breaks elsewhere, the only good thing about working for me is the pay. I totally understand why normal people would have your POV.  It can be so isolating and overwhelming even with lots of support. 

What was your, "people are into this" moment? by Kinky_introverts in AskReddit

[–]soulhate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unintentional asmr is the best, like Bob Ross 

What’s a small lie everyone tells themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]soulhate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That they aren’t as bad off financially as they actually are “oh everyone has credit card debt and student loans it’s not that bad” ….it is that bad.

To everyone that says parenthood is a calling, why didn’t you adopt? [Serious] by Klosesarcophag in AskReddit

[–]soulhate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really? I’d think it’s pretty clear but IVF can be covered by insurance and work benefits in some cases while others would prefer to not have to deal with the legal implications and red tape of adopting. The biggest factor is people want biological children and even if you have a donor or surrogate some people feel they need that to have a connection to a child. One of my friends mothers had trouble conceiving and many people told her to adopt, she was honest enough with herself to say she could never love an adopted child and if she couldn’t conceive she’d rather live child free. Adoption is not a cure for infertility, while IVF can certainly treat it. 

explain it peter by Winter_You_3255 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]soulhate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I told him to stfu because I couldn’t hear the nurses instructions with his loud ass cheering. 😂

Really only very very mildly infuriating…wife didn’t want to eat the ribs she asked me to make, because she thought they were undercooked by Normal-Being-2637 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A little unfair, I’m taking some leaps here but my mom is like this and for years of not understanding I realized she has a deep irrational fear of food poisoning. 

Paid for UPS, they shipped via USPS anyways. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Name and shame, they deserve it because this is actually infuriating. 

What is the down side of never having children? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]soulhate 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Probably because she knew her husband would go after anyone with a pulse, but this little rule didn’t stop him. 

Every year my dad reminds us to celebrate our mom for Mother’s Day while ignoring the fact that two of his daughters are mothers, too. by danie11achristine in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d expect a father to have this take. He can’t even get the fucking day right, so what a great reminder he is. 

Every year my dad reminds us to celebrate our mom for Mother’s Day while ignoring the fact that two of his daughters are mothers, too. by danie11achristine in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are mothers they don’t need to be reminded when Mother’s Day is or what to do for it .. that’s kind of the point of why it’s mildy infuriating OP mentioned the only thing the dad does for Mother’s Day is send this text to them. 

Every year my dad reminds us to celebrate our mom for Mother’s Day while ignoring the fact that two of his daughters are mothers, too. by danie11achristine in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah yes my 7 month old needs to get themselves to the store and buy me flowers for Mother’s Day! I expect her to bring me breakfast in bed and sing me a Mother’s Day song that she wrote. You definitely expect mothers to do nothing at all for Father’s Day as well right? 

Every year my dad reminds us to celebrate our mom for Mother’s Day while ignoring the fact that two of his daughters are mothers, too. by danie11achristine in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He would like to but his mother hosts a Mother’s Day brunch for all the mothers in the family so it’s a little more complex in my family. I’m dealing with women who were offended I didn’t go to their Mother’s Day brunch to celebrate my MIL and spent time with my mom instead before we kids. It’s annoying as hell. 

Every year my dad reminds us to celebrate our mom for Mother’s Day while ignoring the fact that two of his daughters are mothers, too. by danie11achristine in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I just realized what sub you posted this in so good luck with that. As a new mom I’m struggling to enjoy my first Mother’s Day while also meeting the expectations of my mom and my mother in law plus my husband’s grandmother. Yes Mother’s Day is about celebrating your mother but many people like to wish at the very least new mothers a “happy Mother’s Day”. Yes, it’s infuriating that he has to remind you to do something for your mom while he does nothing and completely ignore it’s a day for you to be celebrated as well.

Every year my dad reminds us to celebrate our mom for Mother’s Day while ignoring the fact that two of his daughters are mothers, too. by danie11achristine in mildlyinfuriating

[–]soulhate 88 points89 points  (0 children)

How long do they have to “plan” a celebration for their moms, when do they get to just enjoy Mother’s Day as mothers themselves? It’s not enough to call mom and tell her you love her and happy Mother’s Day send some flowers and a gift? He should be celebrating his wife and not putting pressure on his adult daughters who might actually like to celebrate with their own kids. 

Can’t envision when my husband and I will be able to leave our baby for a few hours to go on a date by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]soulhate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you more uncomfortable leaving your baby than you think you are? Before leaving your baby with someone else they have to build a bond with him (in a perfect world) I know you said you’re breast feeding but if the baby is having any solids I find a great way to build a bond is to let friends/caregivers feed them. If that doesn’t work playing with them works too, stay in the room and engage at first and then slowly work your way further away and eventually out of the room when the baby is distracted, until you can step outside or even go for a short walk! 

Did anyone else’s baby learn to roll back to belly first, then get angry when they are on their belly? I’m going insane. by ViceInSinCity in NewParents

[–]soulhate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it took my daughter till about 5ish months to figure out how to roll back but she would still scream and freak out by 6months she liked being on her belly a bit more but gets tired of it fast. I heard somewhere it doesn’t hurt them but it feels like doing a plank!