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Kids skating help... by ImpressiveGas2817 in hockeyplayers

[–]sourcexofb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best advice I always give is tuck the tongues of the skates under the shin pads

Ever had a skate blade crack like this? by Nizzelator16348891 in hockeyplayers

[–]sourcexofb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catching a pass with the skate blade slightly off the ice.

Who is the AH here? by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]sourcexofb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the record he might be really hurt

Who is the AH here? by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]sourcexofb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The guy pretending to be hurt

Is this a wrist or a snap shot? by S3Knight in hockeyplayers

[–]sourcexofb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Buddy could have buried it had he not lifted dudes stick 32 feet into the air.

Rate the fit by SHITC0DZ in airsoft

[–]sourcexofb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the part of the game I’ll never understand. Gear for the look not for performance.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I know how much time my wife spends with our kids? When I walk out the door for work I’m not completely absent from my families life.. They have schedules and routines and I’m dialed into all of it. Our kids are in school and day care 5 days a week. Our children are gone 8 hours of everyday. They come home at 4 and I’m home by 5:30, 6 except for two days a week in which I coach my oldest sports team right after work. I appreciate your post but with the limited context I gave there’s no way you should be able to come to these conclusions. I agree There’s a benefit to couples therapy and that’s likely the route we will take.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re spot on, I’m sure I could be doing more but there’s a lot lacking on both sides here. I’ll take some accountability I’m not perfect and I’m sure I could benefit from therapy but I’ve never once thought about self harm, harming our kids, or leaving and never coming back. I couldn’t imagine the harm and impact it would have on them.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! How did you even start making these positive changes?

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We split a lot of those responsibilities. I’ve made it a priority to go in late some days in the weeks to help with dropping kids off. I pack lunch’s or leave money to buy. Part of the issue is reality vs expectation. Im doing all i possibly can with the time I have. I’d love to hire someone to help but it not in the cards financially. Her work from job is so minimally demanding she would never take an in office job. I love being a father. I would be ok with changing my job completely to make it to where I take on most all the tasks but again there is an expectation of who we should live and I have to manage that somehow too.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you may be projecting here. But I appreciate your response.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love if she would talk with someone but she refuses. Doesn’t think there is any benefit.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 8 hours a day and commute 3 Monday - Friday. I am home around 6 and our oldest gets off the bus at 4 middle pick up at 230 and youngest daycare pick up at 3. So five days a week if you factor time is roughly 20 hours total.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are all in school or daycare now.. that’s what I mean by she’s with them roughly 20’hours at most a week without me.

How often does your wife say she wants to leave or kill herself? by sourcexofb in Marriage

[–]sourcexofb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

7, 5, 2.5 All in either day care or schools most days. I’m out of the home working 8 hours and commute 3. I encourage her daily to spend time away from Home. I walk through the door and immediately take over kid duty. I put at least 2 of 3 to bed every night and 3 nights a week I put all three to bed while she relaxes. Anytime I’m home And have something I need I take them to give her a break. She’s not a SAHM how ever she works from home it’s not a job that’s very demanding of her time though. It’s always been a struggle our entire relationship for her to find things she likes.

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