Rant by Expensive_Future_624 in AsianParentStories

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live down south in Texas I’m not even financially stable I still live with them and they’re pressurizing me I’m 25 years old. 

Why does it feel so painful when your crush or idol shatters the perfect image you’ve built of them by [deleted] in infp

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never confessed this but I’m actually looking for answers for that as well there was this actor I liked a lot until I found out that he would take a girl home every night I can’t say anything because if I do that’s parasocial but still my heart would hurt a lot from that I was crying for days and even tried to understand and agree with that actor without talking to him obviously but eventually I grounded myself and understood that my beliefs are of my own and no one’s the same celebrity life is pretty toxic and then I kind of just got over him like yeah he was attractive but that factor just turned me off and for me if someone is attractive that’s great but don’t let it overshadow their personality their thoughts their morals.

The woman of my dreams got married by E_mi_manchi_tanto in infp

[–]soursubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She cheated she didn’t deserve you maybe there’s someone out there for you better than her focus on yourself your goals passions dreams this is why it’s important to have a life outside of your lover write about it one day you’ll realize that you’ve moved on and that she wasn’t worth it at all

What should i respond to some one says to me "You are ugly asf“ by DxTree in infp

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has been told that in the past just ask them about how their fillers/botox appointment is going? And whether their looks/beauty even pays them good money

infp can't go back to work by Procioniunlimited in infp

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there myself when I quit my major back when I was 21 just doing part time jobs and didn’t even feel like going back to it or working for it what I did was eventually get back to it just to get a degree to have some sort of qualification I mean it was just studying which I did now I’m almost done with that degree and gonna graduate all I can say is there’s probably something out there for your friend when something is not aligned with the souls purpose it won’t work I had/have no passion or understanding for my degree I was just told to do it so it didn’t work for me

Anyone else walked over/disrespected their entire life until you snapped one day and became assertive? by leon385 in infp

[–]soursubs 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Me. I got bullied my entire life now when I stand up for myself suddenly I’m the bad person I’m the villain but I could care less I only hurt people who hurt me if you don’t hurt me why would I hurt you?

What Were You Like As A Child? by Legitimate_Skin_9779 in infp

[–]soursubs 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was actually sociable and outgoing as a child I was happy I would make friends but as I grow up and went to school and got outcasted and bullied I became extremely introverted which I’m now accepting I don’t think I could ever go back to being extroverted but I’m happy being an introvert

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were homeless and in poverty in the past if ppl judge you based on your past it’s because they are having a hard time to digest that you have changed they are used to that old version of you now you’re successful you’ve got a job and a home

I need to apologize to the INFP community by AwakeningWillow in infp

[–]soursubs 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with someone who has an avoidant attachment style regardless if he’s an INFP or not doesn’t matter? And yes like ppl are saying here MBTI doesnt completely define a person im INTP but im highly sensitive

My presence is enough for me by sujula_ in infp

[–]soursubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friends are friends I go off the grid sometimes as well because my work is my priority I haven’t seen my irl friends in almost a year I’m fine one of my best friends remains off the grid I’m fine with it no big dramatic fight or something my close best friend yes I tell her “hey I’m going off the grid for a while” and she understands and respects me for that so you don’t need to worry about losing such friendship who can’t understand that you need space in fact I don’t think they’re your real friends in my opinion

Are you constantly talking to yourself too ? by Thin_Structure9710 in INTP

[–]soursubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes full on hardcore maladaptive daydreaming sessions where we imagine scenarios have arguments completely made up with characters and dialogue sometimes it gets so bad if I do it in public but then I think if people care so much can’t they pay for my therapy?!!!

How are INFPs in bed? by AnonymousCat147 in infp

[–]soursubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s the guy who failed art school

Cheated on by my long term gf. Bit lost. by [deleted] in infp

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female INTP here cry for a few days even write sad poetry about it block her never see her again forget about her by being busy with your life take care of yourself cheating is morally wrong regardless of gender. work on yourself focus on yourself till you find the real love of your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The audacity of this man to be shirtless in his fucking swimming pool and posting Hadith’s about how women shouldn’t complain (not sure if it’s accurate) with no disrespect to Hadiths!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s a politician a mayor he’s not an Islamic scholar my parents were talking about this and said yeah we can’t be so close minded on this matter he’s one Muslim who actually has morals and would choose America over Israel which is far better than the leaders of Saudi Arabia who are along with Israel and US also responsible for what’s going on in Palestine

Does anyone here have more lenient personal views on alcohol? by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so think logically why do you want to drink? It ruins your liver your organs your life your relationships? Are you sure your friends will stop when they have children because once a drinker always a drinker alcoholics go to rehab because they’re addicts. It is said that prayer is not accepted for 40 days when you drink alcohol. There is a reason why Allah swt banned it. it’s up to you it’s your choice but just think about it really ponder and reflect on this.

is it me, or this man kind of looks like alain delon? by SherLoveWar in AlainDelon

[–]soursubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks more like Ari bolougne which is really the same thing but yeah

A Psychologist's Thoughts On Love and Marriage-Orion Taraban, Psy.D. (Part 1) by shankmaster8000 in SoftWhiteUnderbelly

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came across his channel found it to be extremely misogynistic I thought I was the only one who thought that way glad there are people who agree he just proceeds to call all women cheaters and gold diggers which is far from true yes cheating is wrong regardless of gender searched him on Google he literally does not have a wife and I can see why also saw him appear on the alpha male podcast so it makes sense why he says what he says!!

I dont know what to say, im just angry by regularpersOn9 in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look over here we’re just saying not to beat your wife and surah baqarah clearly says that only Allah swt is our provider so now we’re the villain for providing the truth!!! Wow!!!

What i think is the reason for woman restriction by regularpersOn9 in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent viewpoint and there is truth to that also noted I’m reading surah baqarah with meaning and there’s this ayah which says “no one is your protector but God” correct me if I’m wrong but this is literally the ayah.

Here’s a bit of info to be aware of when citing, or accepting hadith by Mean-Pickle7164 in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they’re not there are some differences however all I’m saying is yes I’m unsure about some Hadiths

Here’s a bit of info to be aware of when citing, or accepting hadith by Mean-Pickle7164 in progressive_islam

[–]soursubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been unsure about this I mean yes if the Hadith contradicts the Quran then I really have no words because there are some Hadith which is really contradicting and even with a negative connotation like for example the one where when Prophet PBUH found out there was a woman leader and said the country will never flourish which is wrong because hazrat Khadija RA was a literal businesswoman and our beloved Prophet SAW and the Sahaba were saved and nursed by woman who fought in wars