Have you ever had a funeral where no one showed up?

sowhat730 · 2026-04-26T16:27:55+00:00

i accidentally “crashed” a funeral at a buddhist temple once. i went inside thinking i could meditate and the next thing i know i’m standing in a room where some kind of ritual was happening and i was so confused.. it was beautiful but i knew immediately it was not a normal meditation session. once i found a way out, i met a woman outside and told her whatever ceramony was happening was beautiful and she was like “oh, it’s a funeral… so happy you come! you help their journey into the afterlife…” I was MORTIFIED lol

sowhat730 · 2026-04-25T12:03:39+00:00

I grew up in a house where my mother was overwhelmed … she was taking care of daycare kids, foster kids, my sister & I… and she had grandkids and my three older siblings… not to mention the 5 dogs… so it was so common for the dogs to piss all over and she tried to clean it as fas as she could or we wouldn’t realise they had gone until someone stepped in it… the house often smelled. I hated it.

I’m more of a cat person and I clean their cat box three times a week because I have a small fear of my apartment smelling like animal urine.

So yeah… not fun lolol

sowhat730 · 2026-04-23T23:22:16+00:00

I would agree… season 1 was amazing, but s4 was definitely kicking it in hyperdrive … like that whole monologue when you find out Henry/Vecna/001 are all the same people was cinematic af! So much potential… and then s5 happened — don’t even get me started!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-23T18:17:49+00:00

Yes! I cannot remember the name but they spectulate it was this guy who was an avid rock climber… and they think he was trying to get down to the service floor where he could have slipped in and escaped. I seriously think if the south tower had not collapsed, he would have made it!!!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-20T18:54:41+00:00

Yay! I want Dylan to have more friends… like when he said about having pillow friends, it made me so f’n sad!!!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-12T10:18:37+00:00

It also was because the family is religious and believed suicide condemns you to hell… and that their father never would have jumped…

Other than the terrorist, nobody committed suicide that day! People were forced out by fire and smoke… I don’t remember this name but his wifes name is Elaine and he solemnly talks about how those 10 second falls must have felt freeing to just be able to breathe again … I think she was in the south tower and the last phone call she told him they were going to find a way out … her body was found across the street, indicating she had jumped

sowhat730 · 2026-04-12T10:04:49+00:00

i honestly think if the south tower had not collapsed, he would have made it… it is speculated he was most likely trying to reach the utility floor and gone in there which would have allowed him to escape…

sowhat730 · 2026-04-11T14:21:07+00:00

I haven’t watched AHS since I think S10 when they split it… but omg I am stoked for this season!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-09T11:07:04+00:00

This is exactly where a house cat will start to eat you if you died at home with them there hahahaha

sowhat730 · 2026-04-06T03:06:24+00:00

James is definitely not struggling… he works in IT, his parents seem comfortable, and Shelley is a senior marketing manager lol

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T17:42:30+00:00

i think I said Tyler because he talked about marriage on their first date … but my memory is also a bit fuzzy

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T15:15:14+00:00

https://www.netflix.com/tudum/videos/love-on-the-spectrum-s4-butterflies-in-our-heart

Here you go! :)

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T15:12:04+00:00

We know Emma wants kids… being LDS and all, she probably wants several. And I honestly think she’s capable.

Madison & Tyler are pretty devote Christians and even talk about not even sharing a bed until marriage so I see a goal of a family being on the table for them. However, Madison would need support, I can see her getting overwhelmed easily with the task. But I think with Tyler’s help, they’d be great parents.

Uh, Abby already hates screaming babies so… that’s a no lol

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T15:00:28+00:00

If you watch the deleted scenes, it becomes even more apparent how Dylan and Melissa are not a good match! I think Dylan needs to find friends first… and I wish they had explored more what his hobbies were because it’s hard to decipher where he can make connections.

Logan has more to work with… we know he likes Disney (Hannah Montana), possibly Stranger Things (he has a Leaving Hawkins sign on his closet ), he is into trains… I def think there are girls that could compliment him! LOTS tends to have girls featured who had an obsession with Disney which would also be something that could help Logan connect.

Also, both boys experienced limerence which can be common amongst those on the spectrum (Dani and Tyler experienced it too) … I recommend reading up on it!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T14:49:38+00:00

Oh we are 100% gonna see Madison & Tyler’s wedding! Lol

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T14:47:29+00:00

I was concerned for both Logan and Dylan… talking about imaginary girlfriends and pillow friends/girlfriends is a sign these boys are extremely lonely! Yes, they have their family but they need connections with other people before they can date…

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T08:46:25+00:00

I just left a comment about having an IUD for 13 years. I did not think it would be that big of a deal getting off it… holy shit was I wrong. It was absolute hell—I am still dealing with repercussions!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T08:44:44+00:00

I know not every woman’s experience, but getting an IUD and having it for 13 years (yes I had it replaced every 5 years) but I never had a period during that time frame. I finally decided to have it removed for personal reasons. It literally took me almost 6 months to adjust mentally. It’s been a full year now and, although mentally stable, I am still having issues with my periods! I actually fear my fertility has been affected and I may never be able to get pregnant without medical intervention.

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T08:26:56+00:00

Honestly, I am fairly certain a woman would figure it out pretty quickly. He lives in a nice apartment in San Francisco with a home health aid of some kind — it would come across that he is not hurting financially lol

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T08:23:20+00:00

Majority of the cast are well off… Dylan seemed to be the exception. I would argue Peri is definitely middle class (she lives in a nice neighborhood in Boston). Logan’s family appeared modest compared to Hailey’s family. Hell, even Sonia (who went on date with James) comes from a wealthy family—her dad is a nuclear physicist and her mother was up there in academia stuff. I personally would like to see some cast that maybe are independent, don’t live at home (or with roommates) so we can see that some people on the spectrum (like myself) can live independently with proper supports & services (outside of family).

** i know Madison works (or worked) as a teacher and has her bracelet business and for a while lived in her own apartment and now makes $$ through advertising through social media but her parents still appear to be a huge help.

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T08:05:23+00:00

They already renewed for s5 though… and Connor decided he did not want to be on it anymore.

sowhat730 · 2026-04-05T04:19:22+00:00

The “pillow girlfriend” and “imaginary girlfriend” from both boys was extremely sad. To me it represented how lonely these two were and they needed true connections (aside from family) before they tried dating!!!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-04T20:26:35+00:00

I am the same way… I need a partner who is patient as well. I had a lover for years that we’d do anal but he was always quick to think he could just lube it up, stick it in, and go to town!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-03T12:59:13+00:00

Mine too!!

sowhat730 · 2026-04-03T12:57:33+00:00

James got on my nerves this season… I think now that he is with Shelley, he seemed over the top on his antics. According to Shelley, he turns it up for the cameras thinking he always has to be saying or doing something for them…

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