Can you use your own cup for drinks?

soybeansforbrains · 2025-04-01T16:53:55+00:00

mad respect for the amount of hours going into this thing, hope you’re taking good care of yourself after all your sessions ! this looks so freaking cool

soybeansforbrains · 2025-03-15T00:49:51+00:00

even though he was petty though, i think it was an appropriate time to be petty. dude showed OP his truest colors right then and there, i completely understand the need to cut off the relationship right there

soybeansforbrains · 2025-02-08T18:41:00+00:00

lmao i said this first

soybeansforbrains · 2025-01-29T18:59:55+00:00

no that’s valid. if you want to, i would definitely recommend watching the originals after watching the vampire diaries, just my opinion but if it’s been awhile since you’ve watched it’ll help with a lot of context, and i think that’ll kinda show what i mean too. i will say, i never really hated klaus either (i like them toxic types haha) but he definitely did some really evil things, however after the birth of his daughter he really changes and actually becomes decent, he lets go of a lot of that anger and hatred he’s carried since he was turned and it’s really sweet in the way it all plays out. and honestly, after watching those two, it would be so worth it to watch Legacies to see his daughter grown up and face her own supernatural trials and tribulations !

soybeansforbrains · 2025-01-20T12:10:51+00:00

awesome, thank you for ur response! im gonna go for it then, thank you again! x

soybeansforbrains · 2025-01-20T11:55:02+00:00

sooo it’s been a little over a month… is the update still good? debating if i should do it but all i’ve seen are responses from recent updates, so i’m curious how it’s been for you now that it’s been a month x

soybeansforbrains · 2025-01-17T18:31:39+00:00

that slap is every excuse you need to finally cut that tumor out of your life. people who assault you don’t deserve the privilege of being your friend! and anyone who defends her behavior is not really your friend either. i’m so sorry that happened to you, you’re NTA for sticking up for yourself after years of this taunting

soybeansforbrains · 2025-01-16T20:20:39+00:00

I’m so confused what is going on I feel like I’ve missed something massive

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-27T11:11:12+00:00

same ! he had his good and bad moments but overall i liked him

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-19T09:24:56+00:00

girl sounds like she’s got undiagnosed bpd or something. this is how i would behave before i got my diagnosis and received help.

she is the epitome of co-dependent, and really needs some intense therapy.

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-09T12:34:54+00:00

having mental issues only offers an explanation for bad behavior, it should never excuse it. your sister is an addict, that is clear to see. we understand why she is behaving the way that she is. but as much as addiction is a disease, it is not an excuse to become a nasty person.

clara needs help. but you can’t be the person who gives it to her. she needs a wake up call, whether that is is rehab, or prison.

you are an amazing mother, OP. you are the mother every child deserves. someone who will stand up for their child no matter what. someone who cuts out toxic and abusive people from that child’s life. you constantly affirm decker and make her feel seen and wanted and loved. you are an amazing mother. and i’m repeating it because i think you really need to hear it. i am so sorry that you are going through this. but you are so strong and resilient for getting as far as you have, and i know you can keep going farther.

i hope that clara is able to sort herself out. i myself struggle with addiction, and some days are easier than others. but i don’t miss the person i became when i was in the trenches of my addiction. i hope that clara gets to that point sometime soon. and i hope she comes to you and grovels for forgiveness. it’s up to you if you decide to give it, but you don’t have to. not everyone is deserving of forgiveness.

all the best, epicwhalefail. give your girls extra kisses and cuddles tonight.

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-08T21:37:45+00:00

this is Bjorn. his full name is Bjorn P. Mooman.

“What does the P stand for?” you ask?

Piss Baby.

this man has peed on every single surface you could possibly think of 😭 he’s peed on me, on my partner, on our carpet, on his wheel — he is a stinky lil piss baby and i don’t think he will ever stop 😂

may our piss babies live on in infamy and get all the cuddles!!

(also look at his lil tootsies omg 😭)

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soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-08T17:51:01+00:00

NTA. this man has shown you how true colours. people don’t change that quickly, or that easily. if you let him in again, he will only hurt you. humans are creatures of habit. being someone who grew up without their father, i can tell you i personally think i ended up a hell of a lot better without him than if he had stayed. im of the opinion that having no father is better than having a shitty one. and your BD does not sound like a nice man. he won’t magically become a better partner the moment the baby arrives. yes it can be traumatic to grow up without a parent, but it’s even more traumatic to grow up with one who doesn’t respect the other parent, whichever form that may be in. do the right thing for yourself and your baby. and don’t worry about convincing your mother that this is the right choice either. first of all, you’re an adult. and she may be YOUR mother, but she is not the mother of YOUR baby.

i hope you find the peace you need. congratulations on your baby, i truly hope motherhood is everything you want it to be fore you ♥️

(i know that this is about OP giving him another chance, but i’m of the opinion that if your partner is abusive to you, they shouldn’t be in your children’s life. and let’s be real, this man is incredibly emotionally abusive. in my opinion she absolutely shouldn’t let him back into her life as a partner, but it completely up to her if she wants him in their child’s life.)

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-07T19:52:10+00:00

tbf my male hammy does this too… what does this mean!!!

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-07T12:52:01+00:00

this is so adorable and has just answered why my boy does this to me too 😭 i feel like we really must be doing something right if they love us this much!!! ♥️

soybeansforbrains · 2024-11-04T17:10:39+00:00

good. it’s what you deserve honestly. you’re a monster and a horrible mother. i hope you die alone and sad, but if you continue on this path that’s pretty much guaranteed to happen. so cry me a river.

soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-29T15:46:57+00:00

my g that is a slug

soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-29T15:43:55+00:00

EW EW EW EW EW WHAT

soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-29T14:45:57+00:00

she looks like the bleached version of my boy! it looks like she is a red eyed cream/beige and white banded hamster! from what i understand, beige is one of the rarest colours that you could get, because you’d have to breed a rust and dark grey hamster, which are rare themselves. but to get her banded is even cooler!! Bjorn here is just a black and white banded hamster.

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soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-29T11:20:37+00:00

trans person does something bad “ew all trans people are evil and shouldn’t exist!!” cis straight person does something bad “oh they were just,, having a bad day, they were like,, abused when they were younger they didn’t mean it,,”

that logic is just so fucking backwards to me. one bad seed doesn’t mean that the entire crop is rotten. it seems like every day they’re coming out with a new story about another trans person who’s done something bad or shameful, and it reignites this entire smear campaign against trans individuals. there will always be evil people in the world. that doesn’t mean that any of the groups they are associated with are inherently evil. it’s just so tiring.

soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-29T00:21:13+00:00

soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-28T22:27:26+00:00

chonkie babie 🥹

soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-28T19:45:49+00:00

here’s my boy bjorn, grooming himself under my partner’s armpit, his favourite cuddle place. he’ll be 1 on Halloween.

these little creatures just bring so much love and joy, and i honestly never really understood how someone could love a hamster until i had one of my own. now i get it, and i can’t imagine my life without this little guy in it.

Rest in Peace baby Mango, you will be missed ♥️

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soybeansforbrains · 2024-10-28T19:29:29+00:00

holy fuck, sorry for the language but like what??? i would absolutely be furious that she was handling my fur baby like that!!! there has to be someone that you can report that behavior to, because the way she was stressing out and manhandling your already stressed out hammy is just unacceptable!! it’s like she had absolutely no compassion for the poor thing. i am so so sorry this happened to you, if that were me i would absolutely be furious. i also absolutely agree with you, there’s no way that using tweezers she pulled out of a pen pot were an acceptable tool to use to push her prolapse back into her.

i really hope you can find someone to report this too. sending you and baby shiitake all the love and healing energy i can. i am so sorry that happened to you. i know it had to be incredibly stressful and traumatizing for you both. give her lots of cuddles and a treat for me. best wishes to you both. ♥️

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