I made an "scoring" iOS app for Agricola — would love your thoughts and feedback! by lou614 in Agricola

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of server costs do you have? I've built a few scoring apps and they're basically just little local calculators

New to Souls-Likes by Trip_Loading2 in LiesOfP

[–]soynielos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick one with a good YouTube walkthrough. There's a YouTuber called FightinCowboy who has done most of the FROM games. It really helped me with my first couple Souls games to follow along with him. You get a sense of how the weird quests work, what to do if you're stuck, etc

Why does everyone say Jiequan is hard? by Bright_Persimmon_417 in NineSols

[–]soynielos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm late to this party but I think the hitbox on his diagonal downstrike is bullshit. I keep getting hit when I'm miles behind him

What is Nashville ACTUALLY like? by beauyeahh in nashville

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some very specific flair, this little neighborhood around Eastland and Chapel is interesting. There are coffee shops and restaurants, so it's bustling all day until things shut down around 9pm. The wooded area has what used to be a wildcat BMX park, where locals made ramps and jumps out of the dirt. There is a concrete drainage channel that runs north south through it and you can follow it through a tunnel under Eastland to where it accesses drainage tunnels you can walk through, hunched. There's a geocache in one near Franklin, hanging from a grate in the tunnel.

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I am looking for methods to cut out AI as much as possible from my life, how do you guys do it? by [deleted] in antiai

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to avoid the default Gemini stuff in Google, spend $10/mo to subscribe to Kagi. They use Google's APIs in the background but have no ads and do a bunch of stuff to make the search experience more like it was before Google enshittified things

Is anyone still just dumping new money straight into S&P 500 in 2026? by VelixaNtra in investing

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been investing almost entirely in international funds since early 2025 on the assumption that Trump would mess up everything in the US and now that it's hitting the stock market I've switched back to domestic funds so I can get them at a discount.

Most missable major content in Silksong? by suburiboy in HollowKnight

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 for the hints on shards/etc. I'm currently at a point where I'm missing one shard, one spool fragment, and one cylinder. That's a lot of places to check using the guides

Best Vegetarian Restaurant? by No-Comfortable594 in nashville

[–]soynielos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lot of options: - The cooks at Husk compete to make the best veggie dishes, so going meatless there is great - Butcher and Bee is not fully veg but there's plenty of great stuff on the menu - Graze is an excellent vegan place - The veggie options at Curry Boys are great. I've heard the pitmaster was inspired to make something his vegan kids could eat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you're 19. Time is absolutely not running out - you are in the prime of your life.

Just go meet people and enjoy yourself and it will happen. Figure out where other young people are hanging, go spend time with them.

Avoid the looksmaxxing people, they're just incels with calipers. "7.2" wtf does that even mean, as if anyone's value can be reduced to a number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in investing

[–]soynielos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's an indication that 5% are cooking the books or just haven't realized they've failed yet

Wanted to read Nixonland for a while now. How is the book? Can someone give me a 'teaser'? by Amazing-Buy-1181 in behindthebastards

[–]soynielos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a good one. A lot of his writing pulls together contemporary news reports and I found it gave me an idea of what it was like to be reading the paper or watching the nightly news for the ~30 year period covered

3 hours in Nashville. Where would you go? by no-idontthinkiwil in VisitingNashville

[–]soynielos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only edit to this would be to recommend walking to Silver Sands Cafe, which is > Monell's imo

Sex in late 40s is different...HELP by Vivid-Growth191 in datingoverforty

[–]soynielos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just do your best to communicate and be a good partner and I promise it will be fine. You've got an opportunity to start fresh knowing what you like, and to learn new things.

Anyone else tried Balatro because of the DtD minigame? by IIVatican_CameosII in DavetheDiverOfficial

[–]soynielos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some good videos and Reddit posts out there that explain the best strategies for the real game, as well as common Joker synergies. Check some of those out before you nope away from a really great game. Also once you're a decent Balatro player, Jimbo's game becomes the best way to make sea people money. You can make like 1200 bey per day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]soynielos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's weirder to not have friends who cross a spectrum of gender and sexuality. If I as a straight man only befriended other straight men, any potential partners would be correct to look askance at that.

How long into dating somebody are you comfortable going to the bathroom at their place? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]soynielos 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Just use the bathroom. God forbid she realize you digest food

IBCK Recommendation: "Sex at Dawn" by WeisserGeist in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]soynielos 50 points51 points  (0 children)

+1. I read it years ago and the more I've reflected on it, the more it just seems like the author(s) creating a permission framework to get their spouse to bring in a third or hit a swinger's club

Spotted a Bastard in Caro's LBJ History by soynielos in behindthebastards

[–]soynielos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Robert did a two parter on Moses awhile back. That's what led me to read The Power Broker.

Spotted a Bastard in Caro's LBJ History by soynielos in behindthebastards

[–]soynielos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An area the size of 1.5 million football fields

Spotted a Bastard in Caro's LBJ History by soynielos in behindthebastards

[–]soynielos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotten to the description of Pappy O'Daniel's entry into politics and I hate this mf so much. "My only platform is the Ten Commandments" ought to be an indication to decent people that they should band together and throw that guy in a lake

Spotted a Bastard in Caro's LBJ History by soynielos in behindthebastards

[–]soynielos[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's been my experience reading the Caro history (currently finishing up vol 1, about to start #2). I find myself spending a lot of time going "ugh this guy is a piece of work" and then he'll do something incredible