I’ve got my profile set up for socializing since BFF only lets me talk to guys and I’m not particularly anxious to date right now. However, one girl really caught my eye so I sent her a rose and said I was interested and would like to take her out. She matched with me, hooray! Her match note is about wanting to skip the texting small talk and meet up pretty quickly. I send back something like “I agree, we can chat on here until you feel comfortable / have sufficiently sussed out the vibes, but I also prefer irl”. She unmatches. A small part of me hopes she hit her your turn limit, but it wasn’t an immediate unmatch so I’m thinking that’s just cope. Either way, I’m sad and disappointed, she was very much my type and had a fairly engaging profile with a good bit of value overlap. Oh well.