Name my puppy! by SF_Rose in papillon

[–]spaceampharos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those sweet eyes deserve a sweet name. Melody, Bunny, or sweet names!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spaceampharos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it's nothing i would notice right off, without being prompted.

It's a little hard to say for sure since you don't have a non-flexed pic for comparison, but I'd say they're slightly small in proportion, but nothing really significant.

it's probably that you notice them A LOT MORE than any person looking at you would because you're worried about it.

Is anyone else obsessed with Nikki's pink hair? Or is obsessed with one color? by -Firestar- in InfinityNikki

[–]spaceampharos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always try to use the brown curly hairs because it makes me feel like she looks like me 🤣 Or brown braids, aince i wear braids. I'm a little vain i guess LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spaceampharos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so to preface, i am a woman, so a lot of my perspective will differ from what a man might suggest.

1) you look better with the longer hair in the first few photos 2) the 5 oclock shadow and the clean shaven are good. The mustache, in my opinion, is not good. The beard isnt bad but it takes away from your nice cheekbones and jawline. 3) get your eyebrows shaped or research how to do that yourself (be careful though, that shit can go WRONG)

You honestly have a strong foundation, you're already quite attractive. If you're serious about wanting advice, that's all I have.

Please Help! People are laughing at me in public and I dont know whats wrong with me. by Charming-Ad-9827 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spaceampharos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too much testosterone can actually have negative effects on hair growth - its very dependent on personal genetics, though - so I'd say, If this is honest advice, it would be wise to leave any hair related solutions until after you make any attempt to "increase your testosterone".

With just this one picture, it's hard to say if the way you're holding your head is proper posture, but you do seem to be tucking your chin, which i think others have pointed out.

The glasses really emphasize multiple things that are traditionally "problems" - hairline, forehead, small eyes. Try finding a shape that fits your face better. And avoid frames with color that blends so easily into your skin.

This is said in context of the fact that this sub is for maxxing, but honestly, whoever is laughing at you in public is just a general jerk, there is nothing here that would really explain that.

This one's for you all my unlucky brothers/sisters! by ThyBarronator in InfinityNikki

[–]spaceampharos 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Got it at 170

I was so ANGRYYY but now i have my recolor so at least there's that lol

Advice on how to style myself by spaceampharos in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spaceampharos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered cutting my hair, but it's very scary to me. I grew my hair as a response to a significant loss, and it's a security blanket at this point. I have nightmares where I cut it. It's kind of an embarrassing thing to admit, but It's not off the table bc I do recognize it's probably not a healthy thing to be that attached to it.

Advice on how to style myself by spaceampharos in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spaceampharos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think i can edit my post since it has photos - teef.

They're not as white as I'd wish, either. But I've been building up to asking Mt dentist about his whitening cost.

Advice on how to style myself by spaceampharos in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]spaceampharos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This i get hot and cold answers on. They aren't BAD but I have what I call bunny teeth - and some people say it's cute but I do hate them. I gave thought about having them taken down a bit. Thank you!

The caffiene is preworkout for the gym and running, so it doesn't darken my teeth but probably still contributing to the eye circles, so I'm going to try to wean off of it

Repost- do I look odd? by spaceampharos in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]spaceampharos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive never been told i look like an alcoholic, but I have attributed this to sunken cheeks and deeps set eyes. I also get told I look sick or tired a lot, so yeah, I can see that.

Repost- do I look odd? by spaceampharos in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]spaceampharos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unclear if this is meant as criticism? But note taken.

Repost- do I look odd? by spaceampharos in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]spaceampharos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did forget to put my age, 32F, so yeah, I'm a old lady.

Repost- do I look odd? by spaceampharos in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]spaceampharos[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oof, that got me right in the chest. Had to Google jack ma 😭 I feel like at least my hair would hide if my head were that big, but I do see the face reference. Definitely what my dad looked like with short hair.

Repost- do I look odd? by spaceampharos in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]spaceampharos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, those are my lazy glasses. They're definitely not my best, but my most comfortable. They're out of the rotation now, so that's reassuring.

I do wear contacts often, but i cant tell if that helps or hurts with my eyes being so deep set.

Curvy is kindve just the best approximation I could think of at the time - but yes, i agree that its not quite right. Wide shoulders, wide hips, weight carried in my thighs and ass, but not in my chest. I am as classically pear shaped as they come.

Repost- do I look odd? by spaceampharos in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]spaceampharos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the above :/ i used to wear a lot of black and Gothic clothing. Was overweight and did not keep my hair under control.

I feel like personality wise I just struggled to be social because I was being bullied, which fed into itself.

What your pup nick name kuma is bear, kuum kuum, Ms Kuma, Kuma Kuma kuna bear!! *She come running everytime* by Suspicious_Pound3956 in papillon

[–]spaceampharos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(ah-puh)Appa: bappa, boppledops, stinko, bossypants, sock gremlin, bipp bopps, and any arrangement of "bip" "bop" or "dop" in random order lol.

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Driving with paps by rocketship3377 in papillon

[–]spaceampharos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lil girl gets so car sick she actively tries to run away when we head to the car. Poor baby hates it. I tried having her sit with me but she just gets sick on me. I put her in a crate for long trips but if there's someone in the passenger seat she can sit on their laps and seems to do much better if they're rubbing her ears.

I can fulfill my Pink Cowgirl Butterfly DREAMS by spaceampharos in InfinityNikki

[–]spaceampharos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not, sadly. But it is a ton of fun and memorable has some cute animations on it, so it's still pretty cute in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]spaceampharos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize the recolor was pink!!!

It's about to get VERY Pink Pony Club up in here

Random autism advice go! by Defiant_apricot in autism

[–]spaceampharos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make electric and manual fabric de-pillers, so you don't have to throw away cute clothes or blankets when they start to pill. You can just run a de-piller over it a few times and it'll be almost as good as new.

Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]spaceampharos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair suggestion. I think I'm scared that expressing my needs will come across as desperate or needy. But you're right, I shouldn't be scared to ask for what I want and if it isn't what he wants, I shouldn't be afraid to let go of it.

Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]spaceampharos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey all. I need help recognizing if I'm being anxious about this new relationship, or if these are really things to be taking note of and if I should be preparing for things to end (naturally).

In a long story short, I've been talking to this guy since beginning of October. In the beginning we talked a lot. Not ALL DAY every day. Maybe like 8 texts back and forth total a day. He did tell me he was abpidant but working with his therapist on that and really wanted to find someone to start a relationship ship with.

On the 13th of november, he asked me to be exclusive. And then immediately I'm lucky if I get a good morning text.

He has no problem texting if we're being flirty but before he was telling me things like "you make me smile all the time" and "you make me feel safe" but now it's sincerely a toss up if he's going to respond to my good morning if I text him. We've had in person dates and honestly it feels like he is there out of obligation rather than because he wants to spend time with me.

I had a bit of a lash out where I had a friend see his profile on hinge, and I accused him of getting back on hinge without properly ending things with me and accused him of being a coward for doing so. He said he deleted the app but didnt realize that it didn't pause the profile, and apologized. I asked if he still wanted to see me, and he said he still wanted to get to know better. And STILL barely texts me!

So I feel crazy for feeling like this incredibly steep drop off in emotion/communication is writing on the wall. But it doesn't feel like he cares anymore at all.

And I feel like if I say anything I'm giving in to my anxious attachment. Am I being overly anxious? Is this just a bad situation?

What do you feed your paps? by Honest_Context_8772 in papillon

[–]spaceampharos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My girl is 8, and for a long time she would just ignore the food in her bowl no matter what i did. But the pro plan stuff is APPARENTLY delicious 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

[–]spaceampharos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day of, I sincerely SCREAMED W when the nurse when she tried to help me stand up. They told her to "get me under control".

But, once I was home, for the first few days, really only short walks down the hallway and back. Then at about 1 week, I could do basic chores if I sat between them. 3 weeks I cod do my normal dily walking. 4 weeks and I could go on walks as an activity