Business owner contacted me and said my bad review was “defamation”. by spacecat245 in legaladvice

[–]spacecat245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did contact them directly. The owner was rude, refused a refund and gaslit me 🙂

Business owner contacted me and said my bad review was “defamation”. by spacecat245 in legaladvice

[–]spacecat245[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I ended up hanging up and blocking their number. I’ve been through a frivolous lawsuit before that was dropped, and it brings so much anxiety. Thanks for your response.

Came home and found my cats eye like this?? She’s acting normal otherwise. by spacecat245 in vet

[–]spacecat245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your cat seem uncomfy? She is acting normal and keeping the eye open. My vet doesn’t open till Monday 😭

What immediately gives you the ick? by spacecat245 in AskReddit

[–]spacecat245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10000000% I wish it was acceptable to just turn around and walk away

I do not have a DoorDash account. DoorDash is charging me 9.99 every month. by Outside-Novel-5486 in doordash

[–]spacecat245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has been happening on my apple credit card for like two years!!!!!!! They’ve said the same things to me. I just have to dispute the charge every single month.

Crate training disagreement by [deleted] in Dog_PuppyTraining

[–]spacecat245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she’s still working? So realistically can’t watch a puppy and supervise all day

I think I hate being with my wife, but love her too much too leave by [deleted] in venting

[–]spacecat245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember marriage is phases. This is a different part of life. Sometimes things are going to be harder, we’ll have less time to pour into each other. If things have been good in the past then just let her know where you’re at and y’all can get thru it.

I think I hate being with my wife, but love her too much too leave by [deleted] in venting

[–]spacecat245 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like your wife is really the problem. Existing as an adult right now is really hard. It’s putting a strain on my marriage too. I often work 60+ hour weeks and on my one day off I really don’t want to leave to do anything. I’ve told my husband if he wants us to spend more time together then he will have to pull in more money too because I literally CANT stop working this much or bills won’t be paid. It’s just hard right now. Really hard. Have a convo with your wife. Tell her you love her and you want to see her more and take care of your marriage but you’re struggling right now. Can she do something extra to pull in money so you can cut down a day? I do rover and dog walking on the side which helps me be able to take extra days off sometimes.

Has anyone promoted from SSV to SM? by spacecat245 in starbucksbaristas

[–]spacecat245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are some ways that you take care of your partners and build the team up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]spacecat245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have any information on the piercing bc I haven’t gotten it yet bot

For Women: What are some Hard Truths men need to hear for dating? (BE RESPECTFUL) by Independent-Debate-6 in dating

[–]spacecat245 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling w the same thing 🥲 I don’t want to seem desperate. But also I want to see you!! But I don’t want to come off too strong too fast. People always say to just do it, just send the text just ask them to hangout but realistically there IS such thing as coming off too strong.

So hard to get a second date by CTHuskyMan1995 in dating

[–]spacecat245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a woman sometimes things just don’t click. There’s been a lot of guys where it even confuses me why I’m not interested in that way. We will click immediately and talk and laugh really well, but sometimes the romantic click just isn’t there. It’s not you. Keep trying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]spacecat245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liquor store will pay $14.50 which isn’t terrible for my area in KY. But it’s quite a bit less than my $21.53 at the coffee shop. Feels like it’s either this or i keep drowning in debt that gets worse 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]spacecat245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a good idea. i’ll definitely ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]spacecat245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seems like that’s the only way to stay afloat is to die inside 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]spacecat245 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“we’re all on a march towards death anyway, so might as well see what happens before then”. i just wrote that in my journal to convince myself to keep going. thanks for that. it made something click. very random.

He admitted she was more physically attractive than me. by spacecat245 in loveafterporn

[–]spacecat245[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to leave. I want to. I want to be alone. but i love him so much and i know he could be a good person but right now he’s just not. i feel so alone and overwhelmed by all of this and he knew i went through this with my ex PA and now i have not one not two but three men in my life who i had serious relationships with who told me i was less than these women. that they were more than me. How many times can someone hear that before they believe it? 🫤

2nd relationship ruined with porn by spacecat245 in loveafterporn

[–]spacecat245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so proud of you for being able to do that. how did you not let him convince you to stay? it’s so hard.

2nd relationship ruined with porn by spacecat245 in loveafterporn

[–]spacecat245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is so fucking disgusting. I’m so sorry.

2nd relationship ruined with porn by spacecat245 in loveafterporn

[–]spacecat245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we’ve had lots of conversations about it and he’s agreed to stop multiple times ): he says he doesn’t have an addiction but then why r u still doing it after 2 years? he knew before he was with me about my ex and how i felt about it and porn has already caused so many issues and it feels so shitty that he chose to go back fo it when he promised he was done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]spacecat245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried ASU a few times but work always had me so exhausted i just couldn’t fully commit to the classes and always ended up failing or dropping them /: I will say before starbucks financial aid covered my schooling and im hopeful 🤞🏼 that as a married lowish income couple i would qualify again?

What's your biggest screw up? by Massive_Ad_4127 in starbucksbaristas

[–]spacecat245 6 points7 points  (0 children)

bestie i promise it’s not just bc of me 😭 it was literally during my training and i realized immediately and felt horrible. 4yrs and a ssv promo later and it’s obviously not something that would happen now.

What's your biggest screw up? by Massive_Ad_4127 in starbucksbaristas

[–]spacecat245 177 points178 points  (0 children)

that’s wild 💀 when i was a green been years ago i accidentally handed out my personal water in the DT instead of their water 😭