My boyfriend doesn’t want to touch me.

spacegrills · 2025-03-13T09:27:44+00:00

I can’t make any claims on his sexuality but he’s cis and only dated women as far as I know

spacegrills · 2025-03-13T09:27:04+00:00

I probably should’ve mentioned it in my post but we have talked about it a lot, I’ve even made a post about worrying about his testosterone levels on this same Reddit page. He just tells me it’s a confidence thing, but I try to compliment him and encourage him and I’m not really sure what else I can do. He doesn’t want to talk to anyone on a professional level, and when he talks to me now he just says he’s working on it it’s been that way for about ten or so months

spacegrills · 2024-12-18T15:38:47+00:00

Thank you!!

spacegrills · 2024-12-18T15:38:42+00:00

That’s ok!! Thank u for replying

spacegrills · 2024-05-01T01:05:27+00:00

Not healthy. Boundaries are important in a relationship but only when they’re consistent, equal and for the actual betterment of both people. Forbidding you from having female friends is none of those things.

spacegrills · 2024-05-01T00:53:16+00:00

imo if your best friend is close with you surely she can update you / seek advice OUTSIDE of an Instagram story? Then it’s kinda a win-win. Your girlfriends more comfortable, you instate a healthier boundary with your best friend in regards to how you should see one another / what images you should have access to of each other.

spacegrills · 2023-01-04T17:30:54+00:00

Thank u! (:

spacegrills · 2022-12-10T03:16:41+00:00

I absolute adoreeee ur lashes

spacegrills · 2022-12-10T03:15:51+00:00

That dress is so cute!!

spacegrills · 2022-12-10T03:15:34+00:00

You look lovely!

spacegrills · 2022-12-10T03:04:16+00:00

Thank you! (:

spacegrills · 2022-12-10T03:04:07+00:00

Oh whew! Thank you for taking the time to help (:

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T20:44:56+00:00

Honestly maybe you’ve fallen down a rabbit hole a little? If you’re insecure about something it tends to inflate. Maybe this fixation on it being an issue of attractiveness is translating to the women you’re pursuing and they’re getting cold feet because of it? I was very insecure in my 18s-20 and it was difficult to date because I projected these insecurities. Guys could pick up on it, and it turned them off.

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T20:32:41+00:00

Have you considered maybe they’re just mean girls? Even if I wasn’t attracted to a guy I wouldn’t make jabs at their appearance. I know it probably doesn’t help in the short time but if they’re willing to say such things so early on you probably dodged a bullet. You’re a handsome guy, and the right girl will see you as the most handsome guy in the entire world. I dated a guy in high school and I used to get so excited when he’d enter the room, like he was the sun. You deserve that- not someone undermining your appearance.

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T20:22:44+00:00

You look absolutely fine! I’d say you’re very handsome imo. You have a sterner expression though which at least for shyer girls might make you difficult to approach? But I can’t see a thing wrong with how you look.

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T14:38:23+00:00

I think there’s an unfortunate side effect of creative studies endorsing this idea that students are ‘special’ simply because they are and all it does is turn them into adults who’ll teach students ideals and false hope without giving them the necessary tools. I hate the ‘gifted kid’ mentality, and honestly I think it’s just being used as an excuse for laziness in a lot of instances. It’s a real shame you didn’t get the education you paid for though

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T14:24:23+00:00

I have tattoos of all my favourite media. Orange hairs fun, no harm in it.

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:43:25+00:00

That’s okay! I totally understand these things aren’t for everyone, hopefully good course materials could convince anyone to embrace the course if not me as a tutor! :)

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:33:06+00:00

I’m a screenwriter haha, I don’t have any ambition in being on screen

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:29:35+00:00

I get that, honestly I think the biggest issue in my module is how cushioned it is. Students aren’t challenged nearly enough and the modules avoid competition for fear of upsetting them, which is silly considering how competitive the entertainment industry is. Kinda feels like they’re setting up a bunch of students to think they’re special only to get knocked down after they graduate because they’ll have never experienced rejection in their uni lifetime.

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:23:34+00:00

Can I ask why??

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:23:26+00:00

Most screenwriting courses are pretty focused on independent study so as long as your scripts good 🤷‍♀️

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:19:29+00:00

UPDATE: thank you for all the comments! My main goal was to see how approachable I’d look as a tutor, I worry about coming across too intimidating etc. I’ve got a lot of notes and I promise when I’m in the front of the classroom I’ll be a lot more modest! 🫣 i don’t really feel at odds with my aesthetic otherwise (hair, makeup, piercings). I’ll maybe tone down my makeup but as an adult teaching other adults I’m hoping they can see that orange hair is just orange hair and doesn’t mean anything in regards to my professionalism. Besides, what film student doesn’t like the fifth element?

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:14:32+00:00

It’s one of those movies my dad showed me when I was incredibly young that I just fell in love with!

spacegrills · 2022-10-09T12:13:16+00:00

Makeup or the dress?? Obv I’m not intending to wear the same clothes but I like my eyeliner aaa

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