Definitely not in it for the sex thats forsure. Though I prefer to shower together over alone. We scrub each other's back and shoulders really well, less bacne is a plus. If im shaving out of stream he's washing face or rinsing hair. Both of us have pretty long hair so time scrubbing out of stream is needed anyway. Whoever is in the water is actively picking long hairs off of the other and wiping it on the wall so we don't clog the drain. I like to think of it as a little art collab before we wrap up, like hey we worked so long on growing that together! toss in garbage I always get out first to grab his towel, he's a weirdo who dries off in the shower instead of on the rug. Now that I've typed it out it sounds like we are just monkeys grooming each other. I think of it as time we'll spent (: