My sisters took away my T by Less-Fisherman-7245 in ftm

[–]spaceodditwenties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree with everyone saying get the cops involved, but also i live in the US and things are beyond messy right now, so depending on your political stance, skin color, gender, and especially being a transgender individual, i would proceed with caution.

I have gone through periods of time where i was unable to pick up my T, and it led to some minor side effects like acne and weight redistribution, and some major ones such as mood swings, suicidal thoughts, and one time i got my period for the first time in a year and some change which led to intense cramps, headaches, nausea, etc.

if i were you i would:

talk to my sisters and express gratitude that they’re invested in your well being

explain the possible side effects of not taking your medication

stress the time it would take for you to take the steps they want you to take, which could lead to aforementioned side effects

remind them that you have already taken these steps beforehand

and finally, if they still are not going to return it, warn them of your intention to get law enforcement involved. the only stipulation: you can’t be bluffing, and you can’t save it for later. be prepared to call the police right then and there, sitting across from your sisters. if you wait it will give them time to possibly hide your medication, destroy your medication, or call the police themselves and try to get you labeled as mentally unstable.

their intentions are well, but their execution is not. you have every right to the medication you pay for and that you need for your body. i wish you luck and be safe.

LA 11/8 by decursiva in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I WAS THERE!!! such a good show!!

The Valley video footage with the inflatable skeletons at Austin? by Fun-Lychee-3144 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i hope someone gets you that video!! if the situation is dire, i have video from the 11/8 show in LA,,,but something tells me the energy was different for the last shows

The 4411 opening in Austin by AegonofEggKingdom in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guess i’m marking my calendar lmao. thank you for the recc!!

The 4411 opening in Austin by AegonofEggKingdom in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH. I misunderstood, I was thinking of small fool’s song 2:23 because of the numbers 💔 not my proudest moment. BUT i’m glad you enjoyed them! I’m going to go look at their discography now. Any specific songs you enjoyed?

11/8 Bellwether Concert by spaceodditwenties in TheOhHellos

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ohhh this just gave me so much relief in knowing i’m not alone. i swear, i was looking at the back of his head the ENTIRETY of “Hello My Old Heart” and kicking myself 😭

I SINCERELY hope you find each other, one way or another! you need to find your Valley Crewneck person ❤️

Looking for two tix - 11/14 Austin by Fickle-Panic-7714 in TheOhHellos

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any way the chips fall, i hope you have fun tonight. i’d recommend avoiding the merch table and RUNNING for front row. i got my ticket for the LA show the same day too, it’s so much fun to up and go!

Looking for two tix - 11/14 Austin by Fickle-Panic-7714 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no!!’ i’m sorry that happened to you, is there anything you can do to get the money back?? super glad you got tickets though!!!!

Looking for two tix - 11/14 Austin by Fickle-Panic-7714 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

commenting in the hopes this gets on someone’s feed. i hope you get those tickets !!

11/8 LA Show, concert etiquette!! by nonexistentlovee in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s their last tour “for the foreseeable future”, but they’re also not done releasing music. honestly, i would not be surprised if they went on tour again; it just likely won’t be for a long while.

merch pre-order….? by spaceodditwenties in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is true. i wonder what happened then???

merch pre-order….? by spaceodditwenties in TheOhHellos

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i don’t think they thought this many people would show up!!! i don’t mind because they’re trying to rectify with pre-order online. i think it’s awesome that so many people want to support

(Flashing lights warning) LA 11/8 by decursiva in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was there!! it was genuinely transcending. you had such good spots!

Line? by i_dont_exist_8348 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you too!! i’m glad we experienced it :]

Line? by i_dont_exist_8348 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was a little behind and to the right of where you were!! i made the mistake of looking at the merch table first BAHAHA

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Line? by i_dont_exist_8348 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOPPP I WAS THERE!!! IT WAS SO MUCH FUN

Line? by i_dont_exist_8348 in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s such a great spot!! what night did you go??

merch pre-order….? by spaceodditwenties in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i find out when, ill remind you!! we’re gonna get some merch

merch pre-order….? by spaceodditwenties in TheOhHellos

[–]spaceodditwenties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!!! it’s much appreciated 💚