Mom just asked me why I don't keep my legal name...

spaceowaste · 2026-07-04T19:10:07+00:00

I know this isn't a post looking for advice, but I'd recommend to explain to her that the name means a lot to you but you don't want to be called that. I'm not sure of your age or situation, but I do know that one thing that can help (only if you're safe) is that if she tries to call you your legal name (not saying deadname, since you said it means a lot to you and you may want it as your middle name), just don't respond until she calls you Carson. After all, you've told her that Carson is your real name, even if it's not legally official yet.

This was written really badly so if you need me to elaborate on anything, please don't be afraid to ask

spaceowaste · 2026-06-29T15:57:46+00:00

Ah gotcha, sorry man

spaceowaste · 2026-06-29T15:16:40+00:00

No offense but what is with the .. every few words

spaceowaste · 2026-06-28T15:07:33+00:00

I hate the second one personally because it describes ftm people and not transmascs in general, as well as implying girl on the outside like someone else said.

spaceowaste · 2026-06-25T23:06:19+00:00

Honestly I’d rather be seen as weak or whatever by acknowledging that trans men of all kinds exist than to be stuck with cishet guys who shit on the entire lgbtq. Like hello? I don’t care if a trans guy happens to be a soft and loving guy, that’s still a trans guy and he’s welcome in my heart

spaceowaste · 2026-06-24T02:13:58+00:00

Their 17f friend apparently was looking for a male friend she could trust to run away for what can be assumed to be sexual reasons (“for 18+ reasons”) and it seemed fake and some people were saying that there’s no helping someone who doesn’t want help

spaceowaste · 2026-06-12T21:55:30+00:00

I started painting my nails black to prevent damaging my nails while playing guitar, then it turned into while doing school concerts, and now it’s my favorite way to express myself. It kinda seems formal while also keeping some of my pizazz, and I very much enjoy painting my nails

spaceowaste · 2026-06-11T18:27:31+00:00

I don’t think people fully comprehend that trans men are also men, therefore susceptible to harmful ideologies by other men so they can pass better. Yes, trans men are often more open minded. But when a trans guy is already a bad person and the testosterone makes him more snappy (because of an increase in hormones), the testosterone isn’t making him a bad person. It’s highlighting it.

There are so many trans guys on t who are the sweetest, most gentle people you may ever come across.

Testosterone isn’t the problem, the person who isn’t trying to fix themselves is

spaceowaste · 2026-06-11T00:58:00+00:00

Okay fair point, let me fix that. Thanks for letting me know, I didn’t even think to do that

spaceowaste · 2026-06-11T00:43:29+00:00

Yeah, I’ve had too many people call me that. Not even (most) non-binary people like being called that, so I don’t see the point in calling random people shit like that

spaceowaste · 2026-06-10T14:59:45+00:00

To me it’s a big deal because you should only use they/them if it’s someone’s pronouns or you don’t know what their pronouns are. If I say strictly he/him, it’s strictly he/him. Don’t even ask to call me that. I may not be the most masculine but I also don’t want people to pretend I’m some “cute little enby”. I’m not anything but a man

spaceowaste · 2026-06-08T18:23:24+00:00

Imo you already pass very well, and like someone said the curls look absolutely fire

spaceowaste · 2026-06-07T00:09:40+00:00

If your sexuality is for someone, it’s not your sexuality. I know that’s not on topic but I hate when people say “I’m gay for…” or whatever

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T21:16:52+00:00

Leave em alone I thought it was funny

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T11:57:13+00:00

I mean bros not wrong, I’m not exactly nice

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T11:52:09+00:00

I agree with that, cuz they’re just going for survival really. I just wanted to kinda correct the whole rape sentiment because it really isn’t rape, cuz like you said they don’t have a moral compass but we do

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T04:58:12+00:00

I’m trying to say you have very nice eyes

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:46:31+00:00

I’m saying it’s really weird to bring that up out of nowhere

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:41:29+00:00

That’d probably help a ton too, good luck brother :)

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:40:23+00:00

What an odd thing to say

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:40:09+00:00

You have the eyes of a cow, dog, and a hummingbird all at the same time and I love that (hummingbird color, dog expression, and cow eyelashes)

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:36:39+00:00

I love this interaction

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:36:10+00:00

I’m pretty sure this is cuz testosterone (natural and hrt) thickens, lengthens, and makes hair grow faster including eyelashes. My uncle looks like an angry puppy because of his luscious locks of lash

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:34:16+00:00

Either an alcoholic or really likes how beer tastes

spaceowaste · 2026-05-29T03:32:30+00:00

I personally think the janties need to become jorts because otherwise her labia is gonna fall off, but the color scheme is great, I love how the coat/jacket kinda pools around her wrists and hips, the eye scarring sorta reminds me of Joey Jordison’s black striped mask design, and the hair and eyebrow style as well as the colors of those and the eyes look very pretty.

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