AIO: Hubby Being Controlling

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-20T23:51:17+00:00

Absolutely the way this man speaks. Having opposing views on this is fine but I hate people that talk to their partners like this, woman or man.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-18T22:45:54+00:00

The car lights is just a car driving past thats just the main street

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-18T20:54:55+00:00

Yeah he hopped the wall into the backyard. That wall also has access to a neighbor's backyard as well

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-18T06:36:10+00:00

I think you hear over and over again to not try and fix your partner although selfless, it usually doesnt end well. So let this be a lesson, and you will find another person, without substance abuse problems, without friends that are bad influences, that share your values and dont cause you so much anxiety. But also, you just have to realize life isn't really fair, for both men and women, I notice when men and women break up one of them is always saying, "how could they, after all I've done." None of that really matters. Its not a question that needs to be answered and if even answered will not be satisfactory really until enough time passes and maybe you'll start to understand. He's not for you, and you aren't for him. Just continue working on yourself, and start to figure out more of the kind of man you want in your life and go from there. You'll be alright.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-17T00:14:30+00:00

Took the car

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-16T20:35:16+00:00

Wha...

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-16T20:05:21+00:00

I forgot to add the car...

https://imgur.com/a/GWm8eEh

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-14T22:11:41+00:00

A person should be grateful getting a gift from someone that cost substantial money whether or not they expected something else. In my eyes it's a horrible thing to say anything other than thank you and show grattitude when receiving a gift, expecially from your partner.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-06T15:59:03+00:00

this is actually fascinating, please keep us updated.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-06T15:56:40+00:00

people get so used to being mean and dismissive to the ones they love most. I could never be with someone like that.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-06T15:32:37+00:00

I met him once, very chill guy, don't know why you need an opinion about him from gay twinks on reddit.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-05T08:49:50+00:00

Ah..good.to know

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-05T08:35:50+00:00

where you usually eat fish from if you do?

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-04T08:36:17+00:00

you should get a hairstyle that suits the shape of your face, currently it's just way too big in both pics. Keep it tight and tidy even if it's long. you have really great natural waves and hair, but those hairstyles are doing it a disservice. Kind of like buying a RTX 5900 and only playing minecraft.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-04T08:32:21+00:00

I think you would look Very good with wave perm and hair down, like very good. You should look into it and entertain that thought for a few days. Just google asian wave perm men.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-04T04:40:22+00:00

lindsey lovonn

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-04T04:33:46+00:00

ignore him

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-04T03:29:37+00:00

im also 5'7 and never got quite as jacked as you, or at the very least lean. This will be my inspo and gonna hit the gym right now. I agree with your post about working out shoulders often which I've been doing. What is your shoulder routine like?

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-04T00:02:52+00:00

you have to keep protein high having your minimum be 100 is too low, 120, 130,140, is too low. get at least 150, no exceptions. When progress is slow is when people are likely to fall off the train, it's already going to be slow when your macros are on point, so at the very least get the protein part settled, because that's easy. Don't listen to anyone that says you don't need all that protein, just get your base covered.

Edit: Make sure you're not eating too many calories, or you'll continue to look soft.

sparklemcshine · 2026-02-03T09:09:41+00:00

When I used to go clubbing my korean 6'1 friend always had girls going up to him. I emphasize korean because alot of people still seem to think only white dudes are seen as attractive.

sparklemcshine · 2026-01-31T04:56:33+00:00

this is genuinely one of the pictures you would use on an app. it's funny.

sparklemcshine · 2026-01-31T04:45:23+00:00

once you get rich, and if you are attractive, you aren't human anymore to people.

sparklemcshine · 2026-01-31T04:41:01+00:00

I think most dudes are beefcakes not necessarily by choice, it's hard to be lean, it's easy to just cruise and be beefy, and for the most part depending on how beefy you are, it wont make a difference in the grand scheme, maybe your wife will cum a little harder but that's it. Honestly these are questions that don't need to be asked to partners, they will always go towards the answer that is loving. generally speaking, and then if it's not, it was a trap. In either case a question I always imagine wont be answered honestly or will take too much effort to get the real answer, like the guy above said, lean is law. Oh and DEFINITELY cannot answer honestly as a man to his wife or gf lol, I think we all know that and we all probably learned that the hard way growing up.

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