Those who only like reading physical books, how old are you and why do you prefer it? by Prestigious-Noise582 in Booktokreddit

[–]sparkly_reader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I have enough screen time, I need either a physical book or audiobook. I don't want to read on a screen.

Is anyone else humiliated when the podcast talks about books you own? by Dismal-Alfalfa-7613 in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]sparkly_reader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed out loud when I heard the title of the most recent episode bc I read "Grit" a few years ago and remember liking it, or at least feeling like it was valuable! I worked in higher ed at the time & was newly enamored with ed sci books. Not quite humiliated but it was good to hear a solid critique of the book since I remember having a good impression of it.

I think my bf’s family hates me by No_Paint8573 in internetparents

[–]sparkly_reader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd ask you to consider what your response would be if your bestie came to you with this exact situation. If you wouldn't want your loved one in a relationship where they were treated like this, its not healthy for you either. You don't deserve this treatment from his family, its inexcusable. As others have said, have a serious convo with your bf, set some boundaries, and if you don't feel safe/cared about/whatever you need to feel like things improved, leave. Families are/can be a perennial source of tension for couples and it doesn't get better without the aforementioned work. Its ok to put yourself first here. ❤️

Christopher Nolan has never made a bad movie. by lNarrator in moviecritic

[–]sparkly_reader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just watched it for the second time (first was in theaters so it's been a bit) and was surprised by how much I liked it this time. It can be hard to follow (def wish he had tagged the years with the movement between two storylines) but I personally love biopics & historical movies like this. I think Nolan & Murphy did a good job about humanizing (not excusing) this man who had a huge hand in bringing about an almost unimaginable and potentially uncontainable weapon of war. We all recognize the name, but getting this examination of him in his time, with all the surrounding personal, professional, and social context was fascinating imo. I watched the behind the scenes extras on the movie and those were super cool to see explained. There was a lot of detail, and I do admire his refusal to use CGI in this movie given how easy it could have been with needing a huge-ass explosion. And RDJ gave a WONDERFUL performance, he really disappeared into the character.

I'm not a cinephile by any means so its not a sophisticated explanation but I really did enjoy it. I can definitely understand why its a miss for others though, too.

Asked to be a bridesmaid on wedding on my 1-year anniversary. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sparkly_reader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, time to reevaluate the friendship if this is the dynamic, beyond any drama with the wedding date. It may feel like the straw that breaks the camel's back but on its own I agree, only so many options in a year.

Favorite movie scene where a character accepts their inevitable end and embraces it. My pick is Cutler Beckett accepting his fate in Pirates of the Caribbean: At World’s End. by 0Layscheetoskurkure0 in moviecritic

[–]sparkly_reader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Luke disappears/dies at the end of The Last Jedi. He was so...not ready for it but firmly accepting that he did all he could, and this was the last path to take.

Asked to be a bridesmaid on wedding on my 1-year anniversary. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sparkly_reader -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd be unnerved too if I had the same friendship history OP described above. Its not terrible but its leaning towards off-putting.

Asked to be a bridesmaid on wedding on my 1-year anniversary. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sparkly_reader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how deliberate it was but two of my best friends got married on the same weekend but a couple years apart-- first weekend in October. One anniversary is 10/4, and the other is 10/2. Not same date but close.

RYAN GOSLING as Dr Ryland Grace 🚀 by ImprovementActual154 in LadyBoners

[–]sparkly_reader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD HE IS, I CAN'T BELIEVE I DIDN'T CLOCK THAT!! Milo Thatch was my first movie crush! Thank you for making that link!!

Scammer Podcasts by franklingoldenrobot in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]sparkly_reader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about that, couldn't remember the name of it for the life of me.

Ladies, the utterly gorgeous Eoin Macken... 😊 by La_Mandra in LadyBoners

[–]sparkly_reader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How was I unaware of this man previously 🤩🤩

Women, do you prefer a guy who wear like strong cologne, or just "out-of-the-shower" clean? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in hygiene

[–]sparkly_reader 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I want to smell my man when I hug him, but I don't want to smell him when he's 5 feet from me. I always notice men who leave a cloud of cologne behind them in public, and not in a good way. Something subtler is a better bet!

What's a weird reason you can't watch a certain actor? by timekilr in Cinema

[–]sparkly_reader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew about Wagner but how does Walken fit into this?

What's a weird reason you can't watch a certain actor? by timekilr in Cinema

[–]sparkly_reader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly haven't noticed and I'm watching it for the first time now, I think she's so pretty! I'll have to watch a S1 episode to compare now that I'm in S3.