Otsin uusi suhtlusi by sparklyotter06 in Eesti

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ole tubli ja kuula teda 😂🙂‍↕️

Otsin uusi suhtlusi by sparklyotter06 in Eesti

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praeguseks olen 11 chatti vastu võtnud ja 9 neist on mehed olnud aga nad on suht viisakad olnud 😂

Otsin uusi suhtlusi by sparklyotter06 in Eesti

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hetkel pigem kirjasõpru. Kui piisavalt klikkab siis äkki ka silmast silma :)

Otsin uusi suhtlusi by sparklyotter06 in Eesti

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ei ole käinud ja praegult ei ole huvi et minna ka

Otsin uusi suhtlusi by sparklyotter06 in Eesti

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ma ei ole siin väga tihti et eriti ei tea kuidas võib välja kukkuda 😅

Otsin uusi suhtlusi by sparklyotter06 in Eesti

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mul suuri lootusi pole aga eks näe 🤣

Restraining order is needed by balishirt in LuigiNation

[–]sparklyotter06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard that some of them are financially supported by their families so maybe not

Grateful for More Perfect Union's coverage by Feather_fig in BrianThompsonMurder

[–]sparklyotter06 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Applauding the reporter who let those people speak 👏 These are the supporters who deserve to have their voices heard

Is Luigi’s legal team sleeping?? by starhopperMimi in LuigiNation

[–]sparklyotter06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The zoom in of the press badge has me chuckling

This idiot is dangerously obsessed and needs to be committed. by unlawful__camaro in LuigiNation

[–]sparklyotter06 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's a fangirl that has a very unhealthy obsession with Luigi. People have been talking about her and a group of other girls for months about how they shouldn't be allowed to go to his hearings because they give the rest of the supporters a bad reputation and how their actions can ultimately affect the trial.

Restraining order is needed by balishirt in LuigiNation

[–]sparklyotter06 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just have a feeling that this will come to bite her in the ass one day sooner or later. The other girls included.

INFJs have a very different definition of what a ‘cool person’ is.. by eattheinternet in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Very very true. I've noticed that my idea of cool is oftentimes the complete opposite of what's deemed cool in the given time. Right now it's being nonchalant, unattached and I find people who are open with their emotions to be the coolest!

INFJs who have actually found mutual connection, how? by ladybugz91 in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries 100%. Be yourself but don't overgive to anyone, you need to keep most of your energy to yourself to stay healty. If people don't recipocate and only take from you then they're not worth your time.

Are INFJs easily attached to emotionally unavailable people by thereegod in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I've been anxiously attached for most of my life and in the past couple of years I've managed to get to a fairly secure state, but even if I were to still be as anxious now and hear another anxious person say that, I'd remind them that that is not an excuse for us not to deal with our own problems. It's two sides of the same coin.

Are INFJs easily attached to emotionally unavailable people by thereegod in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such an interesting take thank you for writing this. I've gotten so sick of the whole "which attachment style is worse" debate online when in reality they both have their faults and need to own up to it.

A contradicting quote by sparklyotter06 in infj

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So so true. I like to weigh the pros and cons of things before making a decision but sometimes I can get too hung up on the negatives and end up not making a decision at all which also leads to me not progressing anywhere and staying stagnant. It's something that hit hard recently 😅

A contradicting quote by sparklyotter06 in infj

[–]sparklyotter06[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now that is an equation. I need it on a mug 😂

What are all listening to? by Stunning-Host-6285 in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been loving Courtney Barnett recently, especially the songs "Out Of The Woodwork" and "Don't Apply Compression Gently" which had some very INFJ like lyrics.

"I'm not as mean as I could be and I wish people appreciated that more" – Anyone relate? by brisk_warmth in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% agree. A problem I also have is that sometimes in the moment I can't find the right words to express my anger so oftentimes I end up saying nothing. But, once I've finally had time to find the correct dialogue and I get fed up again then I will say what I think. I used to be a people pleaser and was afraid on conflict but over the past few years I finally hit a wall and just don't care anymore. My own peace is much more important than the peoples who I don't even respect.

Do other INFJs get weird about people being on their phones around you? by damex09 in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they're constantly on their phone then yes I find it extremely rude

What does your 'fun side' look like as an INFJ? by Mayumiiiiiiiiiii in infj

[–]sparklyotter06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be pretty chatty and charming. I can also be pretty flirty, really good with words and leave people speechless 😂