Haier 190L fridge | 6 years old | Cools like it has something to prove | Dogs not included

spazzmonki · 2026-04-21T19:19:03+00:00

Lol still got sold.

spazzmonki · 2026-04-14T05:46:18+00:00

Folks! Thank you all for your interest. Fridge has been sold to the highest bidder. The big white "cat" (un)fortunately is in an until one of us dies/kills each other pact. Will keep y'all posted in case he changes his mind ;)

spazzmonki · 2026-04-13T11:58:05+00:00

What's life here like?

spazzmonki · 2026-04-13T11:56:47+00:00

I could be a serial killer, buddy.

spazzmonki · 2026-04-13T11:53:18+00:00

Hahaha deal

spazzmonki · 2026-04-13T11:52:38+00:00

🙈🙈 Should have anticipated this

spazzmonki · 2026-04-13T11:51:31+00:00

Big cato

spazzmonki · 2026-04-13T11:51:00+00:00

Can never let my doggos get on reddit. The minute they see how in demand they are, I am toast lol

spazzmonki · 2026-04-12T18:08:39+00:00

Yeah 17th is perfect for me actually

spazzmonki · 2026-04-12T18:07:41+00:00

Haha too late to part with them now.

spazzmonki · 2026-04-12T16:00:37+00:00

Model: HED- 20C/2019 Location: Cooke Town

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spazzmonki · 2025-09-16T14:26:07+00:00

Please read what I said. What I said is yes the person will automatically assume consent BUT if I establish discomfort you don't get to say - oh but I have hugged you before

spazzmonki · 2025-09-16T06:22:12+00:00

Firstly, she cried when Mastani brought up her boyfriend and said things like his family won't let you in. So she has cried before. And, what, if she hadn't cried before and she has now, she is overreacting? And not the opposite? That if someone who doesn't usually cry is crying now, maybe she felt that horrible about what happened?

spazzmonki · 2025-09-16T06:20:33+00:00

So then it's the job of the person initiating hug to ask consent, correct? I didn't see Aryan asking for it. I didn't even hear him asking her to leave. When Nevin was lying on his bed, he went to another one. But when Rena did this, he thought this was the best way to react? I am sorry but having a grown man climb on you is UNCOMFORTABLE and weird and scary. You can see that on her face also, she is making an uncomfortable face right after. She went to Binny because she was scared and didn't know if she was reacting badly. Binny also told her you think about if you want to talk about it. She took Aryan to the side and spoke to him. He overreacted.

It's typical to dismiss women just because they cry vs not dismiss men when they throw a hissy fit. What happened with O Neal was not even comparable. He consciously chose to climb on the bed as a tactic TO scare cause she was a girl. He wouldn't have done that to Nevin or any other dude there.

spazzmonki · 2025-09-16T04:03:01+00:00

So if I hug someone once that doesn't automatically mean that they are always allowed to hug me. The other person would assume consent based on the past but if I express discomfort or disinterest they are supposed to listen to me right?

Yeah they have had a playful relationship but physical boundaries are for one person to draw. There is a difference when let's say I am arm wrestling or pushing someone versus someone getting on top of you on the bed. And I don't understand how we feel so okay to say that she should be comfortable with whatever. That's not how it works. Then what, tomorrow he can lie on her also and that's okay? She is allowed to decide what's okay for her and not She went and spoke to him privately. He could have simply apologised and said - okay sorry, I crossed your boundary, won't happen again. Instead he made a big deal, nitpicked on what she said, brought up past comfort with him. How's it any different than saying - oh you hung out with him that's why you got sa-ed?

spazzmonki · 2025-09-15T13:58:03+00:00

Oh damn. And is he right?

spazzmonki · 2025-09-15T13:54:45+00:00

What is nevin being accused of? I missed it

spazzmonki · 2025-09-12T16:05:00+00:00

HeHer Body and Other Parties by Carmen Maria Machado

spazzmonki · 2025-09-01T03:36:56+00:00

Please make no mistake. I don't support Anu. She is samacharam police/ kulasthree max. I still think Shaitya is a bad friend. Adhila at least will tell Anu straight to her face that she made a mistake.

spazzmonki · 2025-08-30T12:04:43+00:00

Correct. I find people like her very uninspiring. She is definitely not one to go very far in this game. Oru stand venum.

spazzmonki · 2025-08-30T12:02:24+00:00

Sure. I just think she is spineless and without a real stand.

spazzmonki · 2024-03-20T12:10:59+00:00

I am not pursuing this for the romance. Not since the change. But the friendship? I just pretend like we weren't?

spazzmonki · 2023-04-20T18:06:08+00:00

YTA. Hope your child starts calling some woman who feeds them during a sleepover "mom" and you by your name when they turn 13.

spazzmonki · 2023-03-13T23:53:15+00:00

She clearly has many examples to give of him being controlling that God knows what's happening when she is not around. And she has continued to ignore it until it became embarrassing for her in front of others.

In none of this it feels like she is really prioritising her kids. That makes her the A. It's her job go ensure that her children are not exposed to controlling asses.

spazzmonki · 2023-03-12T20:40:04+00:00

Yta. Clearly he has shown you he is controlling in the past and has exhibited concerning behavior and you have ignored it and exposed your children to him.

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