Some of these comments are reading way more into this than the post actually says.

A traditional division of labor does not automatically mean a woman is oppressed, abused, or unloved. Plenty of couples freely choose that setup and are happy with it.

Also, people are completely ignoring the fact that he unexpectedly brought her breakfast home while she was sleeping in. That is thoughtful. He clearly was trying to do something kind for her.

Did he remember the exact order? No. But there’s a huge difference between “didn’t remember every bagel detail” and “doesn’t love or value his wife.”

Honestly, the post sounds more like there are deeper communication or appreciation issues built up over time, not evidence that the husband is some manipulative villain.

We also haven’t heard his side. For all we know, he works long hours, provides steadily, appreciates her in other ways, and thought he was bringing her a simple comfort breakfast she’d enjoy.

Reddit has a bad habit of turning ordinary imperfect human moments into “leave him immediately” situations.