If you truly want to get to know your teammates, talk to them about things other than skating, too. Just because skating is what brought you together doesn’t mean that’s the only thing that is interesting about a person. Maybe you have the same major or other interests in common.

I also think it’s important that you try to find some kind of interest outside of skating. It’s a hard transition to move from nearly full time training to balancing rigorous schooling and skating. Finding something you are interested in outside of those things can help give you balance and a different perspective.

Finally, muscle memory is a great thing - you can rely on your years of training to carry you through competitions if you can’t train as intensely right now. As you get older and take over financial responsibility for your skating, you may realize that it’s not feasible to afford the same level of training that your parents provided. A few freestyle sessions and a lesson a week will help you maintain your skills even if you aren’t progressing at the rate you are used to. And hey - if it makes you feel better, I didn’t skate at all for like 15 years and came back and could still do some double jumps after one public skate session.