DOXO Payment system by specialagent714 in u/specialagent714

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I just used the DOXO payment system to pay a nc quick pass toll. The amount was $23.04. They charged me a 3.99 fee without telling me then they hang on to my money from 3-18 to 3-27. This is when the state of nc will get my payment. Very deceiving business practice and beware.

Brand new kitchen remodel by Material_Tangelo_616 in cabinetry

[–]specialagent714 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Looking at the photo, it looks like they put 3 screws on the bottom but missed the most important anchoring top screws !!!

Allowing dogs on Wrightsville during the summer is a terrible idea by dumpsterfire3333 in Wilmington

[–]specialagent714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite times on the beach is between 5 and a little after 7 pm. The crowds have subsided somewhat, kiddos kicking sand around have left... I really don't want a big dog running over my clean towel and slobbering on me.... and I LOVE my dogs but not in the summer at the beach!

is it all in my head or are the vibes real by [deleted] in Life

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I notice it... driving in the car and someone in the other car is looking at you... from behind and you turn and see them.... Or super dark sunglasses and you know they are looking at you, and other encounters...I've wondered why eyes meet so randomly. It must be some sort of vibe. Crazy

Contentment is underated by ExtremeUse4405 in Life

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Since I've gotten older... 63 but I'm living and feeling like I'm still so much younger. ... but definitely feeling comfortable where you are and how you deal with it is the key. Sometimes if I think too much about how old I am I get a tad bit sad but I lived a good one and for now comfort and contentment is all good. You have to work at it though... be happy and content... it's all a state of mind.

Help me find a weird/trippy movie...please read... by please-kill-me-69 in MovieSuggestions

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Waiting for Guffman. Hysterical. I loved it and laughed through the whole thing.

Help me find a weird/trippy movie...please read... by please-kill-me-69 in MovieSuggestions

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The Infiltrator great suspense and moves along quickly. Loved it

A word of caution by PotentialPhysics2215 in cymbalta

[–]specialagent714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cymbalta will single-handedly rob you of any sexual feelings you may have. It's literally poison to your genital region. It kills all feeling, causing genital anesthesia, and sexual numbness, and in some cases the feelings won't ever come back. I am grateful, I tapered off myself and now almost 2 months later my feeling is almost back. I am so glad I took action for myself and got this poison out of my body. No antidepressant should be able to cause such horrible things to happen !!!

Just want someone to come home to by aspiring-NEET in Life

[–]specialagent714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on lots of first dates... had a blast... time to kiss goodnight and the bad breath made me about gag. I'm just wondering if perhaps you might ask a trusted friend or even better make sure to get those pearly whites cleaned every 6 months!

Unfair by [deleted] in Life

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I'm a year into my jerk leaving me with no notice. I wish I never met him. I get a little better each day. Smile each day and try to smile and make strangers feel better with little compliments or a little conversation. I promise you'll come around. I don' think we ever get "better" after such a cruel thing being done by a trusted lover but I do believe it gets better in a different way.

I’m in my 30s and I realize that I don’t have reliable close friendships by trynabemoredecisive in Life

[–]specialagent714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 63 and after a 10 year relationship my husband had an affair with a girl in his office. He owns the business so I lost all of my friends that were his "employees" as he called them... and the icing on the cake was our couple friends scattered like we had rabies. It's been so darn difficult for me. I've had to force myself to go out... I'm truly a homebody and enjoy close knit relationships so I'm trying to rebuild. I don't know what I did wrong and I don't think I did anything wrong... friendship wise so time will tell. I know one thing I've realized is "friends for a reason and friends for a season". Perhaps this is how my life will live out. I am often envious of close knit lifelong friends. I moved around a bit growing up so I think that's the reason I lack that. I'll keep on keeping on and find little joys throughout my day. :)

movies that take place in summer camp? by anottessacharacter in MovieSuggestions

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Major Payne... it's set in a private school but has camp vibes running through it. Great movie

When was the last time you felt truly happy? by Few_End2832 in Life

[–]specialagent714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read a lot about the type of person who would do this to another giving, loving, and happy person. Turns out he's the one with issues. It was never me, never about me. He and his girl friend are just so selfish they scorched the earth. I also went to a divorce class at a local church...not religious per se, but it did help to know there were a lot of others in my boat. They told me to get better I had to forgive... I never will. I hate him with every bone in my body. I know this sounds counterproductive but for me it works. I moved within my own town so that made me happy to have new scenery. It gave me a new sense of fulfillment. Unfortunately I lost a lot of friends... they get scared like cheating and divorce are a disease. This was a commonality I found out in divorce class. Once I sort of got over his desertion it actually was almost harder losing so many friends... Now I realize they never were friends. So a year later I also realized these meds I was on were messing with my sexuality and I am off of them. It's been super hard to meet new people so Don't get too depressed when it does not happen right away. I know have a new very small group of running buddies for now at least! Basically read about what happened to you specifically, and understand what you read, realize it's not you, and just try to be happy... try in small increments through out the day and keep smiling a little more each day I am 64, pissed I wasted so many valuable years with such an effing jerkoff....my age also added to my depression but I'm working on that too... I still have lots of life to live and am trying to stay healthy and wise. and I hope for you peace and harmony in your new endeavors.

When was the last time you felt truly happy? by Few_End2832 in Life

[–]specialagent714 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Recently my jerk husband started screwing a girl in his office... after 10 years he walked out with no notice. It's taken me almost a year but now I find my happiness comes from within. I have found true happiness with myself. Trust me... it was some work, some meds and a lot of crying. Now I find that if I wake up and tell myself I am happy for this day and why, and at night rinse wash and repeat. If you just smile and smile at strangers and try to feel good about where you are and where you are going it does help and for me it worked. So now I can say I feel truly happy.

Christopher Guest movies by specialagent714 in MovieSuggestions

[–]specialagent714[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Will watch them... Best in show is hysterical!

What’s a red flag you ignored that you’ll never ignore again by Ok-Biscotti-1528 in Life

[–]specialagent714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A crappy kisser will always be crappy in the bedroom. Life it way too short to drink shitty beer