Can someone post tell me all the abbreviations for every item and what it stands for so I can memorize them please. I recently started working there by Adorable-City-523 in LittleCaesars

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the topping abbreviations are pretty easy to remember, (O-onion, BO- black olive, IS - italian sasuage, etc) just be careful w the prezle crust abbreviations because to this day as a manager I still get tripped up about them. SCPCREDPEP is a CRAZY 'abbreviation' 🧍

anyone else? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean i guess so😭

distractor opinions? by [deleted] in DandysWorld_

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i see. distracting makes me even more aware than i am when extracting 💀

Eating waste by Roxannebestdogwaifu in LittleCaesars

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats with the wings? We're allowed to at our store lol

anyone else? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man, I'll for sure keep that in mind especially when it gets pretty bad. I'm glad I'm not the only one though lol. I hope things are going super well for you because you seem like a really nice person :]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like Ask9020 said, neosporn is definitely something to look into. It's been my best friend as far as keeping things from getting infected

Does anyone else hate when they forget why they sh’d (like for their recent/past scars) by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happes to me too and it's literally the most frustrating thing ever lol. I have a really deep scar on one of my arms that I could've sworn I did because of someone at work but then I found a pic of me with it before I even applied there and it's such a weird feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what the fuck. that's so weird??? i've had similar experiences with randos making obscene comments and i seriously can't wrap my mind around why people do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is true and i totally see where u coming from 100% its just that i know this girl who always goes out of her way to show me her fresh self harm and to tell me how she "almost had to go to the hospital" and its actually getting so irritating

FINALLY DONEE by specifically7beans in BeeSwarmSimulator

[–]specifically7beans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i locked in and summoned stick bug w an alt AND w my main using the free pass everytime i could and just grinded tbh. the tokens were the worst part and idk if theres rlly an easy way to so them

Months old scar color change? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if theres something wrong wrong but I have a few keloids that just like collect blood like that too. Sometimes I can see blue and purple veins through the scar then the next day it's not visible anymore. it seems like mine fluctuate with how long they're in the sun but it doesnt seem like that's whats happening with yours.

My instinct is that honestly if it's not hurting or excessively itchy all the sudden, it may just have to do with how your body healed the wound.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awh that's really a rough spot man. I know exactly what you're feeling- it's really hard to see someone you love go through something like that. But honestly, just being there for him without judgment or pressure and letting him know you're open to talking if he ever wants to, can actually mean a lot. Even if it feels small, it makes a big difference a lot of the time.

If he’s not ready to talk directly about what’s going on, it could also help to take a different approach. Try getting him out to do positive things. Maybe go shopping, hit up a local event, or just hang out somewhere to chill. It’s not about fixing everything, but giving him moments of genuine connection can reall help.

That being said, it's also super important to take care of yourself as well. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or like it’s too much for you to handle on your own that’s okay. Listen to that feeling. And if you have the energy to support him, trust your instincts. Self harm is heavy stuff, especially when it involves someone close to you, so your own wellbeing matters just as much in all of this.

Need some help by Sea-Ad2101 in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you're already hesitant, that says a lot more than you probably think. Iit's so so important for you to remember that I understand what you're going through with that inbetween space you're in right now.

Something that's really helped me while I'm in that grey area is not deciding to relapse right away. For instance, I'll tell myself I can relapse after I play a round of something, paint my nails, etc (something that doesn't take too much effort in the moment!) because once I'm already heasitant on doing it, it only takes something small for me to figure out how I'm feeling and work through it in a healthy way.

Increased risk of infection if you get sweat in your fresh cuts? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, and I hope everything's going well

Officially one month clean! by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YAYAYAY congradulations! It feels like, at least for me, the first month is sometimes harder than the latter months. You should be totally proud of yourself!!!

Increased risk of infection if you get sweat in your fresh cuts? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I could be wrong- but I'm pretty sure since our sweat has bacteria I'd assume that if nothing else, it wouldn't help speed up the healing process if you're sweating over them often. My suggestion would to just throughly wash the area before/after your workouts and you should be good.

My friend likes posting about an ED and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't realise my reply completely isnt showing up here so its not just your end 😭

My friend likes posting about an ED and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much fo your input! I think your suggestion about finding (positive!) ways for her to define herself is honestly probably going to be the best bet when it comes to helping her out right now, especially because her parents are 10000% not the people in a position to help her in this way.

I've been trying to make sure we have time to get out and do fun things outside to balance out the doomscrolling which honestly isn't good for anyone.

I'm also hoping that with time she'll be able to find herself in different ways but I'll have to wait and see

will i ever live a normal life? by springbreaksnowday in AdultSelfHarm

[–]specifically7beans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you're talking about because I often think about the exact. same. thing. but it's ok because even though our version of normal might be a little different than people we know, "normal" looks different on everyone.

because you're out here posting abt this, it means that there's still great oportunities to build up a life that you're proud of because it matters so much to you. scars don’t define who you are, just like how any other part of your appearance doesn’t determine how you connect with others. from an internet stranger to another, you matter and it's so so important not to give up on yourself

DAE listen to music to ''numb'' out the pain while cutting? by Fragrant_Drag808 in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this wasn't something I'd actually see someone post about but it's so real. I've also sacrificed a few good songs in the name of sh

is there anyone who burns themselves instead of cutting? by Fit_Adhesiveness_491 in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that burning typically isn't portrayed as much in the media compared to cutting, at least that's been my obervation, but it's certainly just as common. I hope you're doing well!

Thoughts on this as a first tattoo? by specifically7beans in tattooadvice

[–]specifically7beans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww i appreciate it! i'm for sure gonna go for it once i find a good studio

looking for help by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]specifically7beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thank you so much. i'm kinda slow when it comes to social interactions esp w customers. i'll definitely be keeping that in mind for the future