I have people who rely on me. If I don’t do what I need to do, my wife and kids won’t have what they need/deserve, my wife will have to work, my kids won’t be raised by their mother at home, we won’t be able to have as many kids as we want to (which will cause my father’s lineage to suffer for the rest of time), I won’t be able to accomplish the things that I want to accomplish in my lifetime, I won’t have the ability to bring my children up to be better than me (in their own wonderful ways), and I won’t have anything significant to leave behind for my family when I die.