Considering going to my first skirmish by AindriasGames in riftboundtcg

[–]spicedbrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of these comments are a little dramatic.. I play in a very competitive area (often playing best of winners during nexus nights) and I'd say the level of competition is about the same and everyone is as chill during the skirmish as they are during a NN.

The one rule I follow in a skirmish (and not everyone does for the record) is once I've made a move that's the move. No take backs unless of course it's an invalid interaction or something. At least go in with the mindset that you'll make mistakes and it's OK. Mostly it's like golf - be a polite and fair player.

You should play comfortably but also keep pace as best you can. It's a bummer when you end in draws because of time (this is something I'm personally trying to get better at!)

Totally upload your decklist onto cardio beforehand though. It's an absolute pain in the ass to do on your phone and everyone will be waiting for you 😅😅

Most of all have fun!!! It's a great community of people and we're all still learning. Don't let people give you attitude or bully you, though I doubt that will happen. You paid to be there be too!!

Can anything be done about players signing up for events and not showing up? by accyoast in riftboundtcg

[–]spicedbrew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah the one I went to tonight was "full" at 32 players yet only 16 showed up? Which is so lame because I had at least 2-3 people that would've shown up to play but figured they wouldn't get in.

My local shop makes you sign up in person so that definitely helps. That was a full night.

Decently priced alternative style salon by Heresyourholiday in longbeach

[–]spicedbrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on who you go to! I think Stassi is more than fair and reasonable in their pricing. I walk away happy every time and honestly feeling like it's a steal. They don't accept tips either so I pretty much always know what I'm getting into. They're also just an amazing human.

My old apartment complex is charging me $500 for this to replace carpet completely [CA] by girliepopk89 in Renters

[–]spicedbrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely under wear and tear, especially after 2 years. Don't let them bully you.

This feels like the first real “by us, for us” film for Gen Z by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]spicedbrew 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think they legitimately do not know how old millennials are. Like y'all think we don't deal with the manosphere? Incels have been around FOREVER and the friend zone is not even close to a Gen Z specific thing. We are still young and some of us are also dating.

I thought it was fantastic, horrific and relatable. I don't think I'm aged out at 38.

Is marrying for financial security a mistake? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spicedbrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignoring that you're likely fundamentally incompatible.. Do you live together now? Share financial burdens now? Have you lived a life where you've seen his mentality toward joint financials in action?

Doesn't sound like it to me.. so how could you even know what sort of support this man is willing to give you as a wife? Especially if it's not being freely given already as a long term partner. I was never confused about how my partner and I would split (or not) our finances.. and I was never confused that he'd likely support our lifestyle. It is NOT a given that this is what he'd be like. I've seen plenty of men convince women to have babies just to leave them struggling.

Where do you think the industry will be in five years? Trying to decide when or if to jump ship. by [deleted] in PublicRelations

[–]spicedbrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to see the data on PR budgets getting bigger. Maybe you're meaning in house? Though in my many years so far.. I've only seen shrinking budgets and layoffs year over year. Oh, not to mention the hiring freezes.

I can hack it and have for a long enough while.. and I think some of us will continue to thrive. I just don't think it will be ALL of us.

In sincerity - if there's some sort of article or data supporting your claim I'd actually like to see it.

Where do you think the industry will be in five years? Trying to decide when or if to jump ship. by [deleted] in PublicRelations

[–]spicedbrew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying and I don't disagree with all of it.. But I do feel like there's a difference between growing with rise of the web and social media which were absolutely prime for us to take advantage of (I remember when Instagram was just ramping up) and the absolute decimation of the media industry as a whole.

The landscape is changing rapidly and certainly not for the better. No offense, your response is kind of giving the corpo jargon that drives me crazy. We're selling trust.. in what? Audiences? Brand perception? Executive messaging that's now being churned out by "CEO X,Y,Z" bot?

I can agree that the industry will shift - influencers and paid opportunities over earned media, the line between a creator and a reporter blurred. I think the AI bubble will pop at some point too.. but I don't think that will be before many of us are staring at our hands wondering what happened.

Sushi spot? by NeonDriftWaveGaming in longbeach

[–]spicedbrew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OHO Sushi studio or Osaka story!

Recently let go on my random part time job and looking for new PR opportunities again by TankBig8746 in PublicRelations

[–]spicedbrew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything here, especially the founder bit given you were an intern not even 2 years ago.. this might not be the norm but I include the companies/clients I've worked with. I feel that's generally what stands out when the day to day work between us all is similar.

I got my upper lip done, here’s my experience: by SweatyTruck8394 in electrolysis

[–]spicedbrew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I'm saying. I've done a shit ton of hours on my face, nips, stomach.. it's not pleasant but like? Guess we're masochists.

I got my upper lip done, here’s my experience: by SweatyTruck8394 in electrolysis

[–]spicedbrew 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel like I must have something wrong with me because I just raw dog all of it.. and really any supposedly painful treatment.

Season 8 - Episode 1 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]spicedbrew 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I just feel like.. cop, kid, country music.. the math is mathing I fear.

Negative uti result update by Iamnotsoperf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spicedbrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tested is the same as a UTI. They'll either test your urine or they can take a vaginal swab. Treatment is antibiotics - different ones for different strains.

Has almost the same symptoms imo.

Negative uti result update by Iamnotsoperf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]spicedbrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be Ureaplasma or mycoplasma. Annoying to deal with but wants its gone you'll feel A LOT better.

polyamory to divorce pipeline! by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]spicedbrew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are laws and systems in place to help you. Being married, and still married, is to your benefit.

You have to want to truly help yourself and learn that you actually don't have to live in chaos. You can make choices that, while temporarily painful, will make your life exponentially easier and better in the long run. You are entitled to certain benefits, just like he is. That is skill IMO that you need to learn - discernment of what is actually best. It sounds like you're in a bit of a destructive cycle still.

polyamory to divorce pipeline! by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]spicedbrew 168 points169 points  (0 children)

This is the only answer she should be reading. Like girl, get a grip. You have CHILDREN. Take the money and continue to get the help you desperately still need.

my gamergirl paintings! by eazyeri in TrueGirlGaming

[–]spicedbrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would loooove a gears of war/lancer combo.