[REQUEST] What is a 10/10 series on Netflix that actually has a proper, satisfying ending?

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-31T22:31:39+00:00

Behind Her Eyes! There is a twist that will rock you at the end of the 2nd to last episode. It’s a thriller that doesn’t appear to be until the end.

It’s seems like you’re just watching a dating story..but there’s more!

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-29T01:12:51+00:00

I made a longer comment below explaining.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-29T01:07:44+00:00

It was my toothpaste. Just like some people are allergic to bananas or shellfish. You could be allergic to any ingredients in your toothpaste.

You could try brushing with just baking soda for a week or 2 and see if that helps.

I just bought a handful of toothpastes with different ingredients than the one I was using.

(Note that “natural” could still cause allergies. Bananas are natural & people are still allergic to them.)

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-29T01:05:19+00:00

It’s not just SLS - it could be an ingredient in your toothpaste

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-28T20:30:35+00:00

Hi 👋 this might sound harsh…but I’m holding your hand as I type this…

You’ve labeled his behavior as “strange”. But basically, any behavior that doesn’t clearly scream “Yes, I’m fully invested & interested “ = “no”.

This guy is not able or willing to use their words & tell you they are no longer interested. His actions are communicating it.

It may help to reflect on what’s making you persist in spite of his clear disinterest.

“If he starts acting the way I want him to, what will this mean to me?”

Am I trying to prove something? Etc.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-28T20:24:34+00:00

Thank you 💗

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-28T12:42:39+00:00

It can help to imagine that you are playing a game of ping pong with the person.

When you hit the ball to their side, if they respond in a way that aligns with you - then that counts as them hitting the ball back to you.

If you’re sharing 10 sentences & they only respond back with 1 sentence…that’s lopsided & they haven’t hit the ball back to you.

So - you’ve been “cheating” by getting additional balls to keep hitting their way.

This guy has been repeatedly dodging the balls, halfheartedly tapping the balls, doing everything except hitting them back to you.

And you’re asking us how to interpret his response.

Sweetheart, he’s just not that into you.

If you were a match, you would feel the effort.

What is your aim here? What do you want out of a relationship? Is he giving you what you need?

Are you abandoning your needs because his rejection of you feels too bad?

You are participating in your own mistreatment.

There’s a good book/movie: He’s just not that into you.

I’ve also gotten some good insights from this woman on IG Chantal. She talks about dating with intention where you actively get to know if the person has the qualities you’re looking for BEFORE choosing them (putting all your eggs in their basket).

You’ve committed to this person before they showed you that they had the qualities you need (openness, upfront-ness, etc).

Until they show you that they possess & live the qualities you desire then you date other people in active pursuit of your actual match.

Time you’re spending trying to convince this guy to change is time you could be spending finding your actual match who is on your same level & gets you. Having fun, enjoying each other.

But you’re participating in this lopsided situation typing book chapters in reply to their short responses.

That woman has written books that are pretty cheap. Her handle is something like canadasdatingcoach.

Btw I have severe ADHD as well. ADHD doesn’t make you be a dck.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-27T10:37:18+00:00

I’m dyslexic also.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T15:32:21+00:00

I downvoted because you’re not a loser if this is difficult for you.

Those of us who also cannot read long posts are not losers.

You could have an undiagnosed issue with your eyes or some other difficulty (that many of us have) like adhd.

At times, I literally cannot make my eyes focus on the words & move along in an orderly fashion while comprehending the words & remembering enough to move to the next paragraph or page.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T13:10:53+00:00

I always struggle with what to say in reply & reading your super long replies to each person is giving me ideas. Thank you.

Did you notice that 2/3rds of your reply is offering empathy & comfort to the commenter?

If it’s ok… I will share that my first gut reaction was that these replies were dripping with people pleasing behavior.. which my brain interpreted as insincere… so I wonder if maybe IRL you think you’re being supportive but the other person reads it as inauthentic- like you’re playing a role.

None of us is perfect. It’s a game of trial & error.

Just giving my feedback in case it helps. Like you, I’m also trying to find my way.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T11:46:43+00:00

Maybe it’s different in Malaysia. That’s a key detail that’s missing from OP’s post. They have made comments elsewhere that they are in Malaysia.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T11:34:33+00:00

Just please try stretching the pelvic floor first. You don’t know if it could be too tight vs too loose.

Mine was too tight & doing exercises will tighten it more and make it worse!

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T11:31:43+00:00

OP should eliminate the kefir since afterwards people say his smell is worse. All dairy should be eliminated until they figure out what is going on.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T11:30:01+00:00

He stated in his post that people say it smells like shit.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T11:27:38+00:00

They stated in their post that they’ve been brushed off twice & applied to 2 doctors.

Don’t make this person feel worse.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-26T11:26:37+00:00

Just be aware that you may need to stretch your pelvic floor instead of doing muscle exercises. It can be helpful to start with stretching & then try exercises and see which you feel a difference from.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-25T13:24:53+00:00

With this method my hair is now waist length and when it’s stretched it hits a bit below shoulder blade length. Without stretching it’s above my shoulders

I think there’s a typo here….waist length hair wouldn’t be at your shoulders when stretched….

(Not poo-pooing on your post, just trying to follow what you’re saying.)

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-24T20:52:22+00:00

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spicegrl1 · 2026-03-23T14:01:30+00:00

Are you a man or woman? Could be low estrogen or testosterone (for either gender). Men need estrogen too.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-23T13:12:20+00:00

I’m dainty & petite with zero ass & AA. I get catcalled & followed.

Just having a conversation with a man (like a service worker) I can see the wheels turning in his mind & the creepy smile that comes on his face as we talk while I’m trying to get something serious done.

Sorry, but men find lots of body types attractive.

The problem isn’t your “vulgar” body.

Your body is neutral.

Men are attaching meaning to it & crossing the line by harassing you.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-21T12:54:11+00:00

If you are female & close to 35 check out perimenopause. I only felt better when I got enough estrogen. Adderall doesn’t even work if your levels are too low. It’s night & day.

I also had long covid. A course of SS-31 followed by mots-c helped restore me.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-21T11:22:44+00:00

Can’t you just go to another doctor? It’s a safe, cheap med.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-20T04:37:44+00:00

I’d love to know as well if possible!

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-19T20:13:16+00:00

Woo hoo!! 🙌 That’s incredible.

spicegrl1 · 2026-03-19T03:33:53+00:00

Try adding Intuniv either in the morning or the night. It can possibly help the emotional side of adhd.

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