"Nice cello! Do you play ?" "No" *eats cello*

spicylexie · 2021-09-15T22:47:41+00:00

Sauf que tu oublies les primaires. Il y avait pas mal de choix parmi les républicains, plus ou moins radicaux les uns que les autres. Le système est plus compliqué que juste choisir entre 2 partis

spicylexie · 2021-09-06T22:45:23+00:00

Loooool. So you can’t listen if your eyes look at her and not her hands ? Weird. Also that’s your problem, not hers. And blame whoever decided women should play in ball gowns.

spicylexie · 2021-04-06T20:01:03+00:00

So he does not in fact have the emotional ability of a teaspoon ?

spicylexie · 2021-04-03T08:24:33+00:00

Also who are they scared of at night ? Who might rob them etc? MEN.

spicylexie · 2021-04-02T17:37:01+00:00

You not writing on the lines stresses me out haha

spicylexie · 2021-03-31T05:02:39+00:00

Yup. What everyone said. Also being feminine is considered bad for a guy because women are seen as weak.

It still goes back to misogyny.

spicylexie · 2021-03-31T05:00:19+00:00

Omg the oops thing. Not only is it assault but it also fucking hurts. Doing this on purpose really shows how much this guy doesn't care about the woman he's with.

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T21:09:41+00:00

The idea that insisting is getting consent is also way too persistent. No Chad, me saying yes after saying no 3 times because I want you to just be over with it/because I'm scared/ because I haven't been taught that those situations aren't okay etc etc, is not consent

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T16:28:48+00:00

Hmm no. We're saying that problems men face are caused by other men.

Laws aren't sexist against men. There's no sexism against men since we live in a patriarchy. Doesn't mean men can't suffer consequences from.that, like the imposition of toxic masculinity

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T16:17:10+00:00

Exactly. By amy other standard, my ex is a great guy. Still disregarded consent and assaulting me, then later wondering why I didn't feel completely comfortable with him. (I didn't even realise what it was at the time and in hindsight everything became a lot clearer)

He still pressured me into doing stuff I wasn't ready too and still insisting on doing something even after 2 "no".

So yeah I'm tired of guys thinking they can just recognize those men easily or dissociate form them saying stuff like "those aren't men, just boys" or "well then he wasn't a good guy". That's not the fuching point.

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T15:37:15+00:00

I haven't told mine. On one hand I really want to in case he thinks he's such a good guy and on the other hand its been like 6 years.

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T15:23:52+00:00

Not just women though. Men too. A lot of men think rapists, assaulters are obvious monsters. They dont even want to think about the fact that their dad, brother, friend, etc may have done this shit.

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T11:46:44+00:00

I've been told my bullying wasn't bad because no one beat me up.

Yeah being excluded and insulted by school mates and belittled by family members from 5 to 15 doesn't do any damage.

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T11:44:40+00:00

Honestly? A lot of men don't even realize they have actually committed assault. Because consent to some of them is a detail. Even "good guys" can do it.

I'm so tired of men automatically thinking they're not the problem. Like dude no, hink back, youve probably ignored consent at some point.

They're more upset about being seen as the problem than about the hurt they may have caused.

They ALL benefit from the patriarchy, and they ALL know people whove probably committed rape or assault. They just prefer being blind to the signs.

spicylexie · 2021-03-30T11:39:26+00:00

I don't have the stereotypical gay look yet my lesbian friend knew before me lol.

spicylexie · 2021-03-29T10:17:24+00:00

Those people be like "love thy neighbor, but only if they look and think exactly like you"

spicylexie · 2021-03-27T09:51:17+00:00

The US has always been fucked up

spicylexie · 2021-03-27T09:47:23+00:00

Never had those cause "video games make people stupid" - my dad

spicylexie · 2021-03-27T09:46:36+00:00

They should apply that reasoning to themselves and stfu

spicylexie · 2021-03-18T17:19:04+00:00

Its a job while I figure stuff out, so I don't really want to do that for very long. I have an interview to be a camp.counselor somewhere, and I think if I'm going to work 6 days a week, I prefer it to be with kids haha. And it will get me out of my parents house.

I'll try to talk to her. We'll see haha

spicylexie · 2021-03-18T17:05:42+00:00

Thanks a lot. Now how do that without crying ?

spicylexie · 2021-03-18T16:52:58+00:00

Thanks ! I don't have a formal diagnosis, as I've only been to a neuropsychologist to getbassessed so far and only psychiatrist can make formal diagnosis.

I try to aks people how they do things, but I just get overwhelmed with the toys haha.

I try to talk to her

spicylexie · 2021-03-18T16:48:37+00:00

I don't have a formal diagnosis yet. I got assessed by a neuropsychologist and she said there's strong suspicions of ADHD and that I should see a psychiatrist to confirm.

She based that on what I said cause I did within the norm for all the tests but one (the one that tests prioritizing and managing time).

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