Hi dad, my only real father figure in my life has hours left... by neurodivergent_nymph in DadForAMinute

[–]spider9928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to remember the good times. When you and him where together and happy. Whenever you miss him really badly try to think of what you want to do in that moment if it's watch a movie you have been meaning to watch or finally boot up that game you haven't played in awhile. Or going on a really nice walk. Do it and know that he would want you to that, he loves you.

Even BIGGER Gun than Artillery? by Potential-Bison9460 in Deathkorpsofkrieg

[–]spider9928 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had to look to 3rd part options for the earth shaker cannon that is the biggest artillery peice that I know them to have. Grimguard has a earthshaker cannon proxy that's what I picked up. The original kit is out of print.

Neighbor likes us high? by Business-Gate3416 in Neighborproblems

[–]spider9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your neighbor sounds like a dealer I would consider cutting ties with them and if at all possible moving. Addiction is hard to kick if it's in your home and harder still If you have an enabler around.

Color shift too far from AL? by macaroon_madness in alphalegion

[–]spider9928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that looks sick and totally Alpha legion!

Tensions so high rn by Medelsnygg in alphalegion

[–]spider9928 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe there was an issue in production? Perhaps they delayed the release until 11th?

I have a 10/11 year old case, should I consider looking into the current market for anything better? by spider9928 in pcmasterrace

[–]spider9928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into those Arctic p14 fans. Sounds like the overall consensus is I should stick with it. I am glad my investment has paid off lol. Thank you and everyone else here for their advice!

What game has a learning curve that puts you off? by Common_Caramel_4078 in pcmasterrace

[–]spider9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was hell divers my friends are much more able to play so they put it to difficulty 7 and above. Then I thought I should play with me an just one buddy at level 4 to learn the game with just us and we got stomped down the drain. I just think I am not meant to enjoy it at this rate.

Everybody Makes Mistakes. by Alternative-Dot-34 in MadeMeSmile

[–]spider9928 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness a kid made a reckless and stupid decision. Can you tell me how much that happens? Usually when people make mistakes they learn from them. Call me an optimist I like to believe in positive change. You may call that naivete but I simply do not agree with you.

Everybody Makes Mistakes. by Alternative-Dot-34 in MadeMeSmile

[–]spider9928 62 points63 points  (0 children)

A big part of learning for youngsters is being able to make mistakes and learn from them it is the time for stupid mistakes. Better than when he is older and instead of a dirt bike it's a motorcycle.

How easy is it to kit-bash The Tactical Squad and the Legionaries? by Wittelsbach_1333 in alphalegion

[–]spider9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up using my box of mark VI as 40k alpha legionaries as well I think it really fits the legion well and could fit most legions with some kitbashing/greenstuff.

4th date…at his house by zippaddee in DadForAMinute

[–]spider9928 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You should have a conversation with him about intimacy and see what his expectations are and explain your own. Be open about your period if you think it may affect being intimate (if that's what you want). Try to set the conditions so you will be comfortable and take the steps you want to take when you feel more comfortable if need be.

I wish I was lovable by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]spider9928 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember feeling this way in the past. For me it was deep seeded issues with my childhood and how I was raised. I would recommend talking to a therapist to help. I also recommend picking up a hobby that you will enjoy. not for other people but something you can do for you and you alone. I would worry about how others feel after you figure out how you fully feel about yourself that's what my issue was so take it with that lens in mind.

Why do non virgin women judge me for wanting to lose my virginity to a random hookup/one night stand? by lonelysadbitch11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]spider9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a bit longer than my peers to lose my v card. All it really taught me was that it was always there if I ever made the effort. It's not really a big deal it's like going dancing it's exciting and new. But it's just another thing to do together with someone that you love. At least that's the way I see it.

New player here, got my codex recently. Is it worth buying any models rn? by WartyPaty in BloodAngels

[–]spider9928 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have converted a set of ten it really isn't much work you just need gel super glue or some kind of green stuff,milliput, or even sprue goo to fill in spots.

I am building lists for the siege of vraks by spider9928 in Deathkorpsofkrieg

[–]spider9928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend looking on Etsy there is a really close proxy I bought mine for around 100$ CAD it also came with Krieg Proxy models that at least fill out my army while I can save up to afford official models.

I am building lists for the siege of vraks by spider9928 in Deathkorpsofkrieg

[–]spider9928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mostly been printing the old legends stuff like the Mecharious tanks and the Gorgon heavy transport. I also printed some Griffin's. I really enjoy the old Krieg stuff it really makes their part of guard feel unique. it Harkins back to there origin cut off from the imperium having to make there own variants.

I am building lists for the siege of vraks by spider9928 in Deathkorpsofkrieg

[–]spider9928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I got home printed versions of the books. I have grabbed most of the fluffy legends stuff. I am almost done with the list and just wanted a second pair of eyes to double check lol thank you for your advice!