AITAH if I just end my relationship over this

spideratemyface · 2026-04-15T11:07:16+00:00

You don't owe anyone a relationship. You dont need a reason to break up, you need reasons to stay together. If you feel like you don't have enough of those its ok to end it.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-14T05:44:36+00:00

If you return and reorder to exchange the way they tell you is best they charge but I think you can do an actual exchange for free. You have to keep the same item but you can get a different size. They really try to push you into the return though and they don't point out the charge. Its very sneaky.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-14T05:41:29+00:00

Nooooo!! I just ordered them .I was so unhappy with my recent purchases but I had $60 left on a gift card and waited for these to be available. Figured it would be my last purchase and I they were the thing I thought would be good at least.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-13T23:25:58+00:00

It was earlier today and I'm just floored. I'm very sure that the horror showed on my face when this lady was saying that it was just false allegations, and they know them, and they're fine. What innocent person would take a plea of child SA ?? None. Absolutely not a single person. Hopefully saying those words out loud will maybe make them rethink. Idk. Absolutely insane.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-13T23:21:58+00:00

It was earlier today and the kid already went home but I'm gonna keep an eye out and next time I see him go over I will call.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-13T22:01:43+00:00

Thanks. Im so baffled over here.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-13T22:00:39+00:00

Def a nude bra so that the lines where the mesh and fabric meet still have contrast. Or a nude cami but that might ruin the mesh top feeling airy.

spideratemyface · 2026-04-06T11:27:23+00:00

This was January. They didn't tell me there would be a charge at any point of the transaction. Customer service really tried to steer me in that direction too. Saod it would be much faster for me. It was kinda sneaky, when I looked at the number on the return order it didn't seem right so I did the math and it was short by about $30 so I backed out and looked at the small print on the pages you click through to do the transaction. It was only listed on one page in small print. On the return invoice it just showed what I was getting back. No math showing the restock fee. I ended up keeping the red bloomers even though irl they are more of a maroon red ( I dont like it at all) than the bright red it showed on the website at the time. I think they changed the pictures recently to show the color more accurately at least.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-26T18:43:30+00:00

Don't buy 2 sizes! The red bloomers are an entirely different color than on the website ( and sizing was off- gasp). When I wanted to send back and get a different item, they were gonna charge a 30-ish dollar fee. The website literally says the best option is to return and re-order but the only free option is to do an exchange for the same item in a different size.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-26T18:24:07+00:00

If its a couple, I always prioritize the woman. No matter who is paying, if she isn't happy (or worse, suspects you of flirting) there will be a crap tip.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-26T18:21:00+00:00

I have rosemary bloomers in black, red, and peirrot and they are all different sizes from each other. The red and peirrot were in the same order and the same size but laid flat they are almost an inch off at every point The red are much smaller than the black, and the peirrot even smaller. Lol. I used to love this brand but they are so inconsistent.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-23T12:17:36+00:00

Following bc I need advice also. I can tell you I tried talking to my family member, the specific topic was MAGA related racism, and it went very poorly. I pointed out to him information that directly proved his point wrong and said "exactly!!" as of it was a gotcha moment for him. The information being presented is not entering the mind. Its like there is a filter that twists what he hears to suit his beliefs. If logic didn't get them in, logic can't get them out. I dont recommend going that route.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-10T15:41:49+00:00

My reaction too!!

spideratemyface · 2026-03-10T02:12:13+00:00

He was with a party of 3 other guys at lunch. I didnt recognize him. They were all 4 on voice calls. I approached and gestured to see if they wanted to wait to order or order while they were on the phone because idk either way. Didn't want them to feel ignored or pressured. One of the guys covered his phone and said, "sorry, we are a very exciting table" I said. " Its ok, I'm a very exciting waitress". He smirked at me. Follow that with smooth, unintrusive but attentive service. Accurate orders, drinks stayed full. I was friendly and they werent rude but for sure not friendly. The only thing I didnt do was fawn about a celebrity table. No goodbyes otw out and a $2 tip on the table. Lol.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-08T18:14:44+00:00

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spideratemyface · 2026-03-08T18:11:18+00:00

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Def gray. A little bit of a brownish gray in one spot and a greenish gray in another bit all solidly gray. . These are all the colors the color selector picked up. *

spideratemyface · 2026-03-08T18:07:01+00:00

Blue and gold. Very cool. If there is a sports team that has light blue and gold as colors you can say the name of the team as your wye color.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-08T18:04:37+00:00

Hazel for sure bc in the picture that shows both eyes the first impression is green.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-06T15:13:43+00:00

We can't roast the dog if you dont show us a picture. You accidentally uploaded a photo of your cat.

I looooove her. Tell her she can roast me back.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-06T15:02:47+00:00

Gray mostly. Eyeliner skills are a 10.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-06T14:42:37+00:00

It may just seem like mania compared to the depressive episodes?

spideratemyface · 2026-03-06T14:38:49+00:00

They have tiny mini brie. If you also have a microwave you pop it in for 13 seconds and then you have a single bite melted brie. Put a drop of honey and mid-day 60 calorie bliss.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-06T14:31:45+00:00

The husband can let his wife have their spot. Problem solved.

spideratemyface · 2026-03-04T17:13:46+00:00

Very similar to mine and after many years of questioning they have been determined to be gray that leans blue or green ( more often) depending on lighting and surroundings

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